Mirimskaya Olga Mihailovna: i-biography, imisebenzi, intsapho kunye nezinto ezinomdla

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ilizwe lethu lizama njani ukuphumeza idemokhrasi nokulingana phambi komthetho, amacala afakwe kumaphephandaba aqinisekisa ukuba ibhola ilawulwa yimali. Kwaye xa unako ngaphezulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukukhusela ingcamango yakho, nangona "inkundla enkulu kunazo zonke emhlabeni." Umzekelo ocacileyo wolu luvavanyo lobunina bo-Olga Mirimskaya.

Yintoni ebangela ukuba umama ongobugcisa obumfama?

Umfazi omhle, onokuzithemba owenza umsebenzi, emva kweminyaka engama-45 yokuba ngumama akanakho ukuhlala ehlala. Nangona ephumelela ekukhulelweni ngokwemvelo, kuya kufuneka ukuba ashiye iposi yakhe ngexesha elide, kwaye kuya kubakho amanqaku, isifuba siza kuxhoma, kwaye ukubonakala kuya kufana nokufana nentombazana eneminyaka engama-20 ubudala. Ngokukodwa xa kuhamba nomyeni omncinane. Ukuxhaswa kwifom kudinga umzamo omkhulu, kwaye ukukhulelwa kunokuthi kunqande kunokuba uncede.

"Naliphi na i-whim yakho ngemali," - oogqirha bazenzisi bathi, ngubani osebenze icebo lokuthengiswa kweintsana. Bafumana abasetyhini abasempilo abafuna imali, banikezele ngokusasaza, kwaye xa amantombazana ebeletha, iintsana zithathwa ngabazali abacebileyo. Enyanisweni, onke amaxwebhu ahambisane nenkqubo asemthethweni ezweni lethu. Kodwa nangaphantsi kweemeko ezinjalo, ziqwalaselwa yinkantolo yiphina imeko.

Umama okhungulukileyo: unyuko

UMirimskaya Olga Mihailovna wangena kule shishini elingcolileyo. Umama ongenamdla waba ngumdla wakhe emva kokutshata (umyeni wayengumntu osomashishini oselula). Awukwazi ukuzala umntwana (emva kweminyaka yonke, iminyaka engama-51 ubudala), kwaye uza kuvela njani kwihlabathi nge-tummy?

Kodwa uluntu lufunde ngomnqweno wakhe wokuba ngumama kuphela emva kokuba uMirimskaya Olga Mikhailovna afake isigwebo enkundleni enxenxa ukuthatha intombazana uSvetlana Bespyata waseCrimea umntwana wakhe osanda kuzalwa. Ngokumalunga nawaphi na amaxwebhu, kunye namaqhinga, malunga naziphi na izivumelwano zokuqala azizange zibikwe ngaphambili. Ulwazi olulodwa kuphela lwamazwi kaMirimskaya ngokwakhe ukuba uSvetlana wayemthembisa ukuba wamthembisa umntwana.

Izinto ze-Genetic zentombi

NgokukaMirimskaya Olga Mikhailovna (unabantwana, kwaye omnye wabo unentombi, u-Natalia Golubovich), wayecwangcise ukuba nomntwana omncinane ixesha elide, kodwa ngenxa yobudala bakhe wayengenakwenza. Emva koko wacela intombi yakhe ukuba inikeze izinto eziphathekayo zofuzo kuMama kaSvetlana. U-Natallia Golubovich akanabantwana, kodwa akayi kucinga ukuba umzalwana okanye udade wazalwa. Yile nto eyayibhengeza amaqanda akhe amabini.

Ezi ngxelo zabhalwa kumagama ommangalelwa. Ngokumalunga namaxwebhu, ukuhlolwa kwemfuza okanye ubuncinane isivumelwano (njengoko kuchaziwe, i-ruble eziyi-1 million), akukho nanye yale nto inikwe. Kubonakala ngathi inkundla yayikhokelwa kuphela ngamazwi wesetyhini esityebileyo, engasebenzisi ubu bungqina.

Abahlali baseCyprus

Emva kokuba uMirimskaya Olga Mikhailovna afake isicelo enkundleni ngesicelo sokumisela umama, inkqubo yaqala kwimeko. Intsapho yaseSvetlana ngeli xesha yayihlala eCyprus, kwaye inkundla yamelwa igqwetha labo. Ngokutsho kwakhe, ngaphambi kokuzalwa komyeni wakhe uSvetlana waqala ukubiza uMirimskaya ngokusongela kunye neemfuno zokumqaphela njengomama onguzala. Ayikwazi ukumelana nokunyanzeliswa kwengqondo, intsapho emva kokuzalwa komntwana ekuphumeni ukuphumla.

Kodwa kwakuli thuba uMirimskaya Olga Mihailovna wasebenzisa. Ukubanjwa kweentsapho zaseSvetlana eCyprus kwaqhutyelwa ngokufakela umfazi ocebileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, uSvetlana nomyeni wakhe bangaba khona eMoscow baze bavikele amalungelo abo.

Icala enkundleni

Icaleni laqala ngoSeptemba 19, 2015, emva kweenyanga ezintathu emva kokuzalwa komntwana, kwaye yahlala iintsuku ezimbini. Ngeli xesha, amangqina kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba kwilingo babuzwa imibuzo. Omnye wabo wayengumcebisi-bucala, oqeshwe nguMirimskaya ukulandela intsapho kaSvetlana. Umsebenzi wakhe wawukubonisa ukuba umntwana wayengumphambukeli kubo kwaye abayivuyo ngokubonakala kwakhe. Umcebisi wangasese wavuma ukuba uqobo lwakhe wayethetha nomyeni kaSvetlana, owayengazange ave nantoni na malunga nobunina bokubeletha ngaphambili. Ngaphezu koko, ngokwemithetho, imvume yakhe iyimfuneko, kodwa akazange atyikitye nantoni na ukuba kukho isivumelwano phakathi komfazi wakhe kunye nommangali wayengazi nto kwaze kwaba ngo-Meyi 2015, kwada kwaqala ukufowunelwa. Enye into ephikisanayo - unina onamaqabane angakwazi ukufikelela kwiminyaka engama-35 kuphela, kwaye uSvetlana sele sele ephendulele ama-37.

Inkundla inikwe kuphela ikopi yamaxwebhu, ukunyaniseka kwamasayinela apho ummangalelwa enqatshelwe khona. Inkundla ayizange ifune iindawo zokuqala okanye ubungqina. Ukuhlolwa kofuzo kuye kwalahlwa. Kwakhona uSvetlana uye wava "iqha" "iqine" ngokuqinisekileyo ukucela ukuba aphinde abuyele kwimeko aze abuyele kwintsapho yakhe esuka eCyprus.

Isigqibo senkundla ephakamileyo kukuba kukuzalise ngokupheleleyo ibango, kwaye umntwana kufuneka adluliselwe eMirimskaya zingakapheli iintsuku ezintlanu. I-opacity kunye nokungaqondakali kwenkqubo kuphakamisa imibuzo emininzi kwaye ifunyanwe ngokubanzi kumaphephandaba. Iimfihlakalo azixazululwa kude kube ngoku.

I-Riddle yeDokotela

Kwaye imfihlelo enkulu kakhulu ijikeleze ugqirha owathatha inxaxheba kwimeko. Kwakunjalo naye lowo umnqophiso wasayinwa, nguye yena owayeza kumnika umntwana ukuya eMirimskaya. Kodwa kwakungeke kwenzeke ukumbuza. NgoSeptemba 8, 2015 ugqirha wasweleka kwiofisi yakhe phantsi kweemeko ezimangalisa. Ingqungquthela esemthethweni yokufa yabonakaliswa njengongaphezulu kwamayeza. Ngaba u-Olga Mirimskaya ulungele ukwenza nantoni na, nokuba abulale, ukuze afezekise injongo yakhe?

Kuyaziwa nje ukuba ikliniki uSvetlana azalise ngayo akazange asebenze ngokuzalwa komama kwaye akanalo ilayisenisi kuyo, kwaye onke amaxwebhu ayenziwe ngokuphulwa. Iklinikhi yaziswa, kodwa akukho namnye wabameli abonakala. Kwaye bavala amehlo abo.

Isivumelwano senziwa kunye nekliniki yaseMoscow iMelkMedKlinik, kodwa, njengoko kwaziwa, i-Bezpyatai yayingazange ibe yindlunkulu kwaye ayikwazi ukuza kusayina amaxwebhu. Ngelo xesha, wafumana idumela elihle phakathi kweekliniki zaseCrimea. U-Svetlana usele waba ngumama onamahlandla amane waza wazala abantwana abanobomi abane amaxesha omama ocebileyo. Umphenyi waqinisekisa ukuba umntwana osanda kuzalwa uSvetlana kunye nomyeni wakhe baneemvakalelo zentsikelelo kakhulu, ulwabele kwaye akukho mithintelo yokukholelwa ukuba umntwana uqobo nguBesyatykh.

UOlga Mirimskaya: uxwebhu olufutshane

Oku akusiyo yokuqala yoshishino lwefayile ephezulu. Ngethuba lakhe lomsebenzi wayetyenziselwa ukukhusela amalungelo akhe, ngamanye amaxesha azikho iindlela zomthetho. ENgilani, uMirimskaya walala ngendlela yokuba neendlu ezinxweme zeThames, ezazingenakukwazi ukuthetha naye nendoda yakhe yangaphambili uAlexei Golubovich. Esinye isiganeko esabetha uluntu lwaseYurophu sasiseLondon. Eli bhinqa lakhetha i-$ 3.6 yezigidi zezigidi ezivela kwiD & M Capital Group. Kodwa ndagqiba ekubeni ndingayikhokheli kwaye ndibalekele ngokukhawuleza kwilizwe lam. Umnikazi wenkampani kwafuneka ukuba aye eMoscow, kodwa nakhona apho umfazi weshishini akazange afune ukuhlawula ukuthenga. Buyiselwa imali yenziwa kuphela emva kokuvavanywa.

Izifundo kunye nemisebenzi

Wazalelwa ngo-1964, uMirimskaya Olga Mikhailovna. I-biografi ayicacile kakuhle, iyaziwa kuphela ukuba ngowama-1986 umfazi ophumelele kwi-Faculty ye-Economic Cybernetics, G.V. Plekhanov. Emva koko waba ngumfundi ophumelele kwiziko le-USA naseKhanada, ngo-1993 waqeda isikolo kwi-Higher School of Political Politics e-United States, emva koko wagqiba ngokugqibeleleyo umsebenzi wakhe kwi-yesebe yesithili. Ngethuba elithile wayesebenza njengomcebisi kwi-Supreme Soviet yase-USSR, emva kokuchithwa nguye owayengumseli woluntu wokupapasha "I-Menatep-yazisa". Ukususela ngo-1994, waba ngumbongameli-bhankini wegama elifanayo, kwaye emva konyaka uvula indlu yokuthengisa enegama elinye. Ngoku u-Olga Miramovna Mirimskaya ungumongameli webhodi yabalawuli bebhanki ye-BKF kunye nomnye wabasomabhizinisi abacebile kakhulu.

Ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho

Intsebenziswano kunye noMirimskaya ayizange ibonwe. Kwabangela impendulo ephakamileyo yoluntu, inkwenkwezi ezininzi kunye neengcali zivakalisa ukunganeliseki. Isigqibo sichaphazela ngokuphambene nomthetho, ngenxa yokuba umntwana akanalo ukufana kofuzo nomama owamkelayo. Wayengeyena umnikeli kunye nombono wezomthetho akakwazi ukuba ngumama, ngakumbi ukukhusela amalungelo akhe. Kodwa le meko iphinda iqinisekise kwakhona ukuba wonke umntu unquma imali. Ukuba unako ukutyhola abagwebi, yinyaniso yakho. Into edabukisayo kukuba umntwana angathathwa kuwo nawuphi na umfazi, kwaye ngelo xesha, umntu akanako ukubonisa nantoni na.

Ukuqhubeka kwembali

Ngenxa yesigqibo senkundla kunye nesivumelwano sokuzala, uMirimskaya waya eCyprus. Kulapho wathintela igunya eliphezulu kwisiqithi emva kokuba uSvetlana Bezpyatai enqabe ukunika umntwana. Kodwa ithemba likaMirimskaya alizange lenzeke, kwaye inkundla yafumana loo maxwebhu ukuba abe yimpambano, eyabangela ukukhutshwa kwegunya lokubanjwa kwelinye labesifazane abacebileyo baseRussia.

Ngoku iMirimskaya inexesha elinzima. Ekusebenzeni eofisini yakhe emaphethelweni eMoscow, waqala ukubonakala engaphantsi. Ngokuqhelekileyo lonke ixesha achitha kwelinye ilizwe, uzama ukuzithengela "ulonwabo." Kule ntsuku ezintandathu sele sele sele zikhona, kodwa kude kube ngoku ukushiya umshicileli awukwazi ukushiya ubomi bomfazi weshishini ngoxolo. Iziganeko ezithandekayo zenzeka kuyo.