Indlela yokukhusela abantwana iziyobisi? Ukuba bahlole ukuba ngaba umntwana usebenzisa iziyobisi?

Kunzima ukuba nomfanekiso nantoni na embi ngakumbi nawuphi na umzali ngaphandle likhoboka womntwana. kwamashumi aliqela yomsebenzi elungelelanisiweyo loogqirha, iisayikholojisti, oonontlalontle kunye nootitshala ijolise ekufumaneni iimpendulo kumbuzo njani ukukhusela abantwana iziyobisi, ukuphepha indlela okubi, ukusindisa abo baya kukhubeka apho, waliqengqa emke lowo umbambezeleyo. Le ngxaki ezininzi kangangokuba ecacileyo izazinzulu impendulo musa ukuba kude kube ngoku. Ngelo xesha, imiphumo kakubi kweziyobisi phakathi kwabantwana kakhulu kakhulu ngaphezu abadala.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, esichaza ukuba iyeza engcono kuthintelo, isebenza kwi-100%. Kodwa ukuba njani na umongo ezingundoqo umfana nenkani? ukufumana Apho amazwi sokunene? Yaye yintoni ukwenza ukuba eyona Kwathi, apho ukuya, apho ungajonga khona uncedo? Inqaku lethu liza kukunceda ufumane iimpendulo zale mibuzo.

izibalo

ERashiya, ngokutsho Ministry of Health, ubuncinane-15% abantwana okokuqala Uqhelene iziyobisi ezivaliweyo phambi kweminyaka yobudala engama-14. Ukusetyenziswa kweziyobisi ngabantwana beli phakade kukhokelela ekumisweni ukuxhomekeka komzimba kunye nemikhwa ezinzileyo. Ngokutsho kweengcali, kamsinya waba abazana lilishwa, kokukhona kuya kuba udibaniso.

Eyona iqhelekileyo phakathi kwentsha amachiza esintu ngokusekelwe kwentsangu (hemp).

Iqela main lomngcipheko

Le contenders olungundoqo indima ngamakhoboka eziyobisi esingapheliyo bavela kwiintsapho ziinkathazo. mkhwa Drug phakathi abantwana, wazalwa wakhulela phakathi ngamakhoboka eziyobisi otywala, phezulu ngokungaqhelekanga ehlabathini lonke. Lo mntwana, umntwana lowo akubona imeko ezithile zokuhlala, bekhula yenkolelo ukuba eqhelekileyo, yaye uzabalazela ukuba abe yinxalenye yalo.

Abantwana ezinjalo aqala iyazazi ichiza ekuqaleni. Phakathi kwabo, eqhelekileyo ukusezela umsi iglu, ukutshaya intsangu, kwakunye iindawo yezityalo zifakwe acetone kunye nezinye izinyibilikisi imichiza.

Le, kwelinye icala elingemva ubutyebi

Okumangalisayo kukuba, iqela umngcipheko inombolo 2 avela kwihlabathi eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo, leyo kuthiwa okwahlukileyo. Abantwana nabazali azizityebi basemngciphekweni ebese ngokusondeleyo ngendlela efanayo abantwana ezitratweni.

Apha uluhlu iziyobisi ezidakumbisayo ngakumbi ngokubanzi. Ixabiso tag kwezinye amachiza isithuba kuphela, kodwa loo nto ayithethi ayeke umntwana akamazi ixabiso lemali yaye sizimisele ukuba namava amatsha, ezandleni zazo enkulu.

Omaziyo kunokuqala ne ntsango elifanayo (kakade, engcono), iLSD, amphetamine, bathabatheka ngokugqithiseleyo. umxube Distributed esekelwe kumachiza ezahlukeneyo, ebizwa ngokuba 'Ukuhlanganiswa "kunye" iityuwa ".

ufuzo

Kanye butywala, likhoboka isiyobisi sisifo njengelifa. Izazinzulu ziye kudala uMseki walo, kodwa akakwazi ukubona indlela oluthile ntshukumo ichiza kwi zofuzo.

Abasemngciphekweni nje oonyana ngamakhoboka eziyobisi, kodwa abantu ukusela iintsapho. Abantwana ukuphuza nabo banethuba eliphezulu "kuhlala phezu inaliti."

Uphando lwakutshanje lubonise ukuba ongumntwana likhoboka isiyobisi uhlobo kakhulu ngakumbi. Habituation kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza, imiphumo ukuzisa isidlo esikhulu, kwimo nzima nangaphezulu. Kwaye bachache ngokupheleleyo kwiimeko ezininzi akukho uthetha nathi.

nezinye izinto

Qonda ukuba bakhusele abantwana babo kwiziyobisi, ukunceda nihlolisise ezi zinto lomngcipheko. Iingcali bathi kuye ezi zinto zilandelayo:

• ukukhulelwa unina elukhuni kaThixo, kuzalwa enzima;
• mala, ukwenzakala entloko, ingakumbi ezininzi;
• Umzali Single;
• Abazali kakhulu, ukunqongophala ingqalelo phezu kwabo;
• ukugula ngengqondo ekhaya;
• ukuzimela ekuqaleni (iminyaka 12-13);
• olugqithisileyo lwabazali ngokucindezela;
• ukufikelela olungalawulwayo le mali.

Idatha efunyenwe uhlalutyo kwamaziko onyango manani. Olu luhlu lubonisa kuphela ingozi okwandileyo, hayi, eyayiwe kukutshintshatshintsha kwabantwana abancinane, umntu ubotshiwe ukuba abe likhoboka leziyobisi. esinazo Nokuba undikhonzise akukho isivakalisi. Kukho iimeko apho abantwana otywala neziyobisi wakhula teetotalers uyaqiniseka.

Sijonga izizathu

Iingcali ukufunda umbuzo njani ukukhusela abantwana iziyobisi, ikakhulu uzama ukuhlalutya izizathu. Kutheni efanayo ezo elivisayo elinesihlanu ukusuka amakhulu yokuqala yaba nomdla umdiza engaqhelekanga okanye tablet? Yintoni eyabangela kubo, kutheni kukha niyigqibe elidlulileyo le olukuhlayo?

Kuchaphazela romanticizing umfanekiselo wayelikhoboka, uyabachasa ngokwayo kuluntu, zibe ukufuna njengokungathi ezintsha, imida ukwanda sezingqondweni.

Imiba fashion Modern ezingqingqwa ukuba ngcono. Lo mkhuba isikhumba enhle, iinwele lingenakumbi, umzimba toned. Kodwa ukuba inkampani olungqonge elivisayo, loo nto ixela ukuba le mithi ingozi, kodwa ukunceda nje ukonwaba kwaye ukhululeke, umngcipheko omkhulu ukweyela lezo-15%.

Uhlaba ulwazi ekhokelela kuseko imigaqo ezingachanekanga. Ngoko ke, lo msebenzi abazali nootitshala ukuba adlulisele umntwana inyaniso ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka, kwaye yanelisayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Ukuba umntwana kufuneka azi ngayo iziyobisi?

Iingcali ukucebisa ukuba ukuya ukuzibaxa izinto. Njengoko yokuswela ulwazi, kwaye intsalela yabo nantoni na elungileyo nakanye. Akukho mfuneko yokuba umntwana wakho uluhlu olupheleleyo ziziyobisi ezidakumbisayo kunye inkcazelo eneenkcukacha isiphumo ngamnye kubo. Abantwana Akuyomfuneko ukuxelela ukuba LSD ezi saka, kwaye ungabona ukuba yintoni enyanisweni akakho, ukusuka ingca ndifuna ukonwaba nokuhleka. Kodwa imfuneko simazi kunye noluhlu kweziyobisi kunye neziyobisi psychotropic, kuxhomekeke ukulawula kummandla kukarhulumente (Ndiwise ye RF Government of 30.06.1998, inombolo 681).

Ukukhangela ezinye iindlela. Khangela lo mzekelo ulandelayo. Ukuthetha ngeengozi iziyobisi, zama ukuthetha ngolwimi olulula. Ngenxa yokunqongophala amava kunye nolwazi entsimini amalungu, lo mfana nje akakwazi ukunika iiseli ofayo ingqondo. Kodwa amabala kunye nezilonda kabuhlungu inaliti kunokuba enkulu 'injezu.

Umsebenzi ophambili we-ntetho ichiza amathumba phantsi ukucenga umntwana emngciphekweni, ntuthuko, ubungqongqo le ngxaki. Kunzima ukukwenza, kodwa ngokwenene.

ISADC umthetho

Ngenxa yesi sizathu, abantu abaninzi abaselula bakulumkele. Uloyiko yokubulawa nobutyala yi yomali enamandla. Cacisa ukuba umntwana wakho indlela uphawu kunokuba ukubandakanyeka inqaku ukwenzela ukugcinwa kunye nokusasazwa iziyobisi. Kwixesha elizayo oku kuya kuthintela ukuya kwisikolo elungileyo, ukufumana umsebenzi athandwayo.

Iintetho Money

Kudla Abathengisi podsazhivayut abathengi ezintsha iziyobisi, sibaphatha simahla. Kodwa oko kuya kuhlala ixesha elide. Injongo ngomzi - ukufumana umthombo entsha imali. Yaye kude, imali kokukhona kuya kufuneka ukuba likhoboka lazo.

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba umntwana abangafumani mvuzo imali, ngaba ngendlela engacacanga, njengoko iya kuxhasa lo mkhuba. Yinto ke ukuba kwakufuneka wenze ukuphanga okanye ubusela, oku kuya kutyhilwa ngokukhawuleza kakhulu. Kwaye izenzo ezinjalo kwakhona ebonelelwe sezomthetho.

ingozi ngumzimba

Ukuthetha ngeengozi iziyobisi, ikhankanya imiba enxulumene. Ngokutsho Ministry of Health, uninzi abasebenzisi ngokuzitofa hepatitis C okanye B. nani likhulu losulelo lwe-HIV kwenzeka nge inaliti. Nangona ezinye iintlobo sohlobo sinokunyangeka, iyeza mihla anti-HIV akanamandla. Posa ulwazi ngohlobo efikelelekayo, sixelele ngezi zifo, egxininisa ukuba njalo kunye likhoboka lazo.

Igalelo intelligence

Into yokuba wayelikhoboka esingapheliyo angakwazi umsebenzi ngokwasengqondweni, babazise oonyana. Ingxaki kukuba abantu abaninzi abaselula abamelene heroin kunye cocaine "iziyobisi ethambileyo". Iingcali ziye zasekwa ukuba intsangu akufane ebangela ukuba likhoboka bokuphila, kodwa usebenziso lwayo rhoqo "kuthanjiswa" utshabalalisa inkumbulo, kunciphisa umyinge yokusabela, kunciphisa ukukwazi ukucinga ngokucophelela.

Kukubethelela umntwana ukuba amachiza negalelo kuphuhliso umntwana nemiphumo vuhlayiseki. Naluphi na uhlobo iziyobisi iibhloko ukusebenza okuqhelekileyo ingqondo, ngoko leyo livale indlela eya ubomi obuqhelekileyo.

iimpawu ngqo

Bukela ukuba unyana okanye intombi, phawula utshintsho incinane yokuziphatha. Oku akuthethi ukuya kude kakhulu, khumbula sase eziqhelekileyo hormone, ukungazithembi, uxinezeleko eziyelelene ukufikisa. Nakuba kunjalo, kufuneka iliso ingakumbi xa uphawula rhoqo oku kulandelayo:

• zokulwa nale ngxaki;
• risibility kwegazi okanye tearfulness;
• anda umdla imali kungekho ezithengwa ezibalulekileyo;
• izinto nalapho kuquka iimpahla zabantwana (namadyungudyungu engenanto, iibhotile amayeza, iingxowa ezincinane uziphu, iisirinji);
• ngereyithi Nedlac intetho;
• nokudideka, ukulahlekelwa Ngokuququzelela ayengenalo nevumba eli utywala;
• amagama zasemzini ezingxoxweni kunye nabahlobo ifowuni, njenge imibhalo efihlakeleyo;
• ukulibaziseka rhoqo okungaphezu esitratweni.

Zama ukuba uyazi, ukuba sibe ngabahlobo nokunxibelelana umntwana abe. okusingqongileyo ibitheni - an unogada ithuba. iziyobisi zalo imvelaphi yemifuno, ngokuqhelekileyo abe livumba ngokukhawuleza. Amachiza amaninzi ukutshintsha abasabela ngayo umfundi nokukhanya.

Ukuba bahlole ukuba ngaba umntwana usebenzisa iziyobisi? Yenza kube lula. Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umntwana sikwimo kunxilwe ezidakumbisayo, kufuneka ukuba wenze into elula, kodwa ifuna ingqalelo: ukufunda itekisi encinane, bhala uluhlu lokuthenga, ukuphinda uyixoxe kwisiqwenga thotho umboniso, ukuchaza umfanekiso hero le ncwadi. Ngamatye akululanga ukuyenza.

Nangona kunjalo, ezi mvavanyo akonelanga. Ngokuqinisekileyo ukuqinisekisa okanye ukuphika ubukho ichiza egazini kunokuba uhlalutyo ekhethekileyo umchamo okanye igazi kuphela.

Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ngcolile siqinisekiswe?

Musa ukuzibek '. Musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba aqhele. Ukumthethisa nokohlwaya nawe kamva. Umsebenzi ephambili kukuncedisa. Umntwana kufuneka uziva ukuba kufutshane, unako athembele, kunye nenkxaso yenu kwemibandela.

Kubalulekile ukutsala inkwenkwe kumaqumrhu iyingozi. Ukuba ityala lakho unokuza ukudibana nabanye abazali babantwana baboniswa impembelelo enye, zama ukuba alungise oko. Sebenza kunye ngokulula kakhulu.

Musa ukuzama ukumelana ziintlekele ngokwabo. thethwano lwezempilo, kwaye kufuneka kwezinye iimeko nkqu nokulaliswa esibhedlele.

Ngaba ukholelwa iintengiso?

Ngokufuthi uyakwazi ukufumana iincwadana emibalabala kweziko yesiqhelo ukuba ngamakhoboka eziyobisi, uthembise ukunceda ukuphelisa le ngxaki iveki okanye ezimbini. iingcali zamachiza Professional inyanzelise ukuba oku akunakwenzeka. Ngokutsho WHO, 10-15% kuphela abasebenzisi beziyobisi babe nethuba lako ngokupheleleyo.

iingcali zamachiza Russian zixhotyiswe nezibonelelo mihla, ukukwazi ukunyusa le pesenti ngesiqingatha, kodwa inkqubo iza kuthatha ixesha elide ngaphezu kwiiveki ezi-2, kaloku ke, kufuna utyalo-mali olukhulu. ukhathalelo lwezonyango nje akwanelanga, kufuneka yesiqhelo psychological ixesha elide.

Ukuba uloyiko ezimbi yaye ndaqiniseka, asifanele ukuwafihla le ngxaki ukuze ugcine igama le ntsapho. Kufuneka ngoko nangoko khangela iziko rehabilitation elungileyo ngamakhoboka eziyobisi yaye bakulungele ukuya indlela nzima ukuphilisa kunye nomntwana.

ezizezinye

Njengoko ubona, ukuba likhoboka akukho isigwebo sokufa, kodwa izibalo eyothusayo. ukuzikhululela ithuba elincinane, kodwa ke.

Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kuthintelo, ingqalelo eyaneleyo kunye nobudlelwane onyanisekileyo kusapho kunye unxibelelwano nomntu ekhulayo.

Khuthaza ukuzenza. Musa ukunqaba umntwana ilungelo lakhe ekuzonwabiseni-ixesha. Makhe inkwenkwe yiya kwicandelo yakho oyithandayo. Nokuba Umqeqeshi iindleko zeenkonzo ucinga kunokuba ezinkulu, kholwa ndim, ukuba akukho nto kuthelekiswa iindleko kwimeko yesiqhelo, nto leyo ichazwe nje kuphela imali, kodwa luvo wachitha, ezempilo wonakele, ilahlekile ulutsha. Musa ukuvumela intombazana ukuba bafunde ukuzinakekela, ukuba bagqwese iziseko make-up; ukukhuthaza umdla wakho yomthungo womluki. i owayebalasele siphambili inzuzo non-iyazazi eli chiza for ladies abaninzi abaselula na ukoyikwa yokuphulukana ubuhle.

Iingcali nithi ukuvimbela lo sisiqinisekiso ukufuna ukuba impendulo yombuzo njani ukukhusela abantwana iziyobisi. Zama ukuba ube ngumhlobo intombi yakhe okanye nonyana, ukukhuthaza uphuhliso, abathandwa yaye uxhase umzekelo. Oku kuya kwandisa kakhulu amathuba okuba loo ntlekele yoyikekayo zikufumane iqela usapho lwakho.