Yintoni enokuyenza ehlotyeni ukuba awukho indawo yokuhlala ehlobo

Ihlobo lixesha leeholide kunye neeholide. Ngokumalunga nokuqala kweentsuku ezifudumeleyo, abazali baqala ukulahlekelwa ngombono, ukuba benzani ehlobo. Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi ezikhethiweyo, njengokuchitha ixesha emoyeni omtsha, nangona ungenayo indlu yelizwe okanye i-villa. Nazi ezinye zazo.

Iholide yezingane ephesheya

Abaqhubi bezotyelelo baya kunikwa iindawo ezikhethiweyo. Inokuthi ifane nekhefu elikhethekileyo kubantwana, apho bayazi kakuhle kakuhle ukuba benze ntoni ehlobo, okanye nje ilizwe apho kulungile ukuphumla nentsapho yonke. Umqathango obalulekileyo apha unyaka wengane. Ukuba akasekho ezimbini, akufuneki ukuba utshintshe ngokukrakra imeko yemozulu kunye nomda wexesha. Kubantwana abadala, amazwe aseYurophu (iGrisi, iSpain, iBulgaria, eCyprus, eItali) aya kuba nefanelekileyo, kwaye baya kuba nomdla wokuchitha ixesha eTurkey. Oku, kwindlela, ilizwe eliyintandokazi kwiintsapho zaseRashiya, ukukhangela amanani aphantsi, izibonelelo eziphuhliswe kakuhle, ukufikeleleka. Amazwe aseYurophu abonakaliswe ngomgangatho ophezulu wenkonzo, isimo sezulu esichukumisayo, apho umntwana uya kuba lula ukuzilungelelanisa. Xa uceba uhambo kunye nenzala kwindawo ethile elwandle, kwelinye ilizwe, kungcono ukuziqinisekisa kwangaphambili. Sikucebisa ukuba ufumanise kumqhubi wezotyelelo ukuba ngaba ilizwe elikhethiweyo lifanelekile ukuhamba kunye nosana, nokuba kuya kuba mnandi kuye okanye njani, ukukhupha amaxwebhu afanelekileyo ukuba ahambe. Ngaphambi koko, fundela malunga nehotele, malunga nokutya kuwo, yenza uludwe lwezinto ozithathayo uhambo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akusiyo indawo yokugqibela kuleluhlu kufuneka ibe yikiti yokuncedisa okokuqala, iimveliso zelanga zesikhumba kubantwana , amayeza. Ngoko uza kuzikhusela ekuvelekeni kweengxaki ngexesha lakho leeholide phesheya.

Ukuphumla kwabantwana eRashiya

Awufuni ukuphina naphi na okanye uya, kodwa ingcinga yento oyenzayo nabantwana ayikushiyi? Eyona ndlela ikhethekileyo yindlela yokuya kwikampu yabantwana. Le yindlela enonwabo kakhulu yokuzilibazisa, kuphela yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu kubantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni. Iingoma eziphosakeleyo kufuphi nomlilo, umdlalo othakazelisayo kunye nemincintiswano kwaye, kunjalo, ii-discos. Ukuba nawe, wachitha ihlobo lakho kwenkampu njengomntwana, khumbula izihlandlo ngokumomotheka! Ukuphumla kwindawo enjalo, umntwana uya kukwazi ukuqina, ukuphucula impilo yakhe, ukudlala kakhulu, fumana abahlobo abatsha. Ngoku olu hlobo lokuzilibazisa lolutsha luyathandwa kakhulu, kuba akudingeki ukuba ubaleke kwindawo ethile, ihotele zeencwadi. Iikampu zezingane zihlala zihlala kwiidolophu. Ngaphambi kokuba uthumele umntwana wakho apho, musa ukuba novila ukutyelela indawo esemthethweni yekampu, uthethe nabasebenzi abasebenza apho, kwaye kunjalo, kunye nomphathi. Ukuba yonke into ikulungeleyo, vumelana ngokukhuselekileyo, kodwa ngokungathandabuzeki kakhulu kule akhawunti kungcono ukushiya le ngcamango kwaye ufike ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunokuthatha abantwana ehlobo.

Naluphi na uhlobo lokuzilibazisa lomntwana owukhethayo, ungakulibali ukubuza kunye nembono yakhe malunga nalo mbandela. Enyanisweni, kukho iinketho ezininzi kunokuthatha abantwana ehlotyeni nakwi sixeko. Xa ulungisa le ngxaki, akufanele ucinge ngamanani okanye udumo, kodwa malunga nenhlalakahle yenzalo yakho, impilo yakhe nokhuseleko.