Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale. Iingcebiso kunye neengcebiso kubazali

Ngokufika kwentsapho yobomi bentsapho kuguquke ngokukodwa. Iminqweno yabazali ngoku iqondiswe kuphela kwindoda entsha. Impilo yomntwana iba yintloko ebalulekileyo yengxoxo phakathi kwezihlobo. Kunzima ukufumana umama ongeke akhathazeke ngokuphuhliswa kwengane yakhe. Xa kuthelekiswa nempumelelo yentombazana okanye yonyana kunye nemimiselo eyamkelekileyo, unokubona ukuhluka. Musa ukoyika, kuba bonke abantwana bahlakulela ngokuhlukileyo.

Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngekhono lomntwana lokuhlala. Le nyathelo eliphambili ekuphuhlisweni kweemvuthu, ezibuye zinexesha elithile. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale? Uya kufumana malunga nalo ngezantsi.

Umntwana uqala ukuhlala nini?

Siye sichaza ngasentla ukuba imigaqo yophuhliso ihambelana. Abantwana abaninzi abahambelani nemimiselo eyamkelekileyo, kodwa inempilo.

Ngokumalunga nokukwazi ukuhlala, abantwana bafunda olu buchule ngokuqhelekileyo kwiinyanga ezi-4 ukuya kwezi-9. Abanye ootitshala bezingane baqhubeka befuna ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-50 ubudala kufuneka abe nako ukuhlala, kodwa le ngongoma.

Ixesha xa umntwana wakho ehlala yedwa unakho ngenxa yezinto ezininzi. Makhe sibonise iingongoma eziphambili ekufuneka uhlawule ngazo:

• Umntwana oqhekezayo uqala ukuhlala rhoqo emva koontanga bakhe abalinganisa. Umntwana onzima kakhulu kunzima ukugcina umzimba wakhe kwindawo ebonakalayo.
• Into ebalulekileyo yinkalo yokufa. Buza abazali bakho xa uqala ukuhlala ngokwakho.
• Ungakulibali kwakhona malunga neengqondo zengqondo - malunga nomoya. I-Choleric ne-sanguine ziqhelekileyo ziyinkozo yazo zonke izakhono zamandla. Uphuhliso lwe-melancholic lungancishiswa kancinci.
• Into ebalulekileyo kukuphuhliswa kweentlungu kumntwana. Unamandla ngakumbi emisipha yomva kunye nemilenze, ngokukhawuleza umntwana uya kufunda ukuhlala. Ukukhawuleza le nkqubo kunokwenzeka ukuba abazali bancediswe ukusilalisa umzimba kunye ne-gymnastics yokwelapha.

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale kwaye angamlimazi?

Naliphi na ugogo uya kuphendula lo mbuzo lula: faka umntwana emithonjeni kwaye ushiye kwindawo ehleli kuyo ixesha elithile. Le ndlela yayisetyenziselwa oomama nje kutshanje. Kwakuyinto yesiko ukubeka umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-4 ubudala.

Namhlanje, oogqirha bezingane bavuma ukuba akuvumelekanga ukuba enze oku. Ukuba unyanisekileyo, impendulo yombuzo wokufundisa umntwana ukuba uhlale ilula kakhulu: "Akukho ndlela." Ungazami ukwenza inkwenkwe yenza oko engakakulungeli ngokwenyama. Ukutyala kwangaphambili kunokukhokelela ekubeni umgudu weemvumba zakho awuyi kuyenza ngokuchanekileyo. Kwakhona, iimvavanyo ezinjalo zomzali zingabangela iingxaki ezininzi emva komntwana xa ekhulile.

Wonke umntu ozayo kwihlabathi unenkqubo yakhe, okungeke kwenzeke ukutshintsha. Ngoko ke, umbuzo wokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahlale njani, sithatha indawo yolu hlobo lulandelayo: "Indlela yokunceda umntwana ahlale phantsi?".

• Musa ukutshala umntwana, nokuba uyibambe ekhondweni lakho, ukuba akazange ahlale yedwa.
• Kuya kufuneka iminyango yokuvala zonke iimbombo ezibukhali kwifenitshala kwaye zibeke eceleni komntwana, zikhusele ekuqhutyweni kokuwa.
• Zisoloko zenza i-massage kunye ne-gymnastics, eya kunceda ukuqinisa i-corset ye-muscular.
• Khuthaza ukunyuka komntwana. Ukwenza oku, usasaze phantsi emacaleni amaqabunga akho ozithandayo ukuze afune ukuwafumana.
• Beka umntwana emva kwaye umnike iminwe yeenkcukacha. Makhe abambelele kwaye aphakamise i-hull. Musa nje ukuzithatha wena.