Ikhaya kunye neNtsapho, Abantwana
Ishedyuli yosuku lwesikolo
Abaqali bokuqala ... Izikhumbuzo zesikolo zisandul 'ukutsha, kwaye sele sithatha umntwana wethu esikolweni. Kwaye iimvakalelo ezininzi zidibaniswe ngoku: ukratshi, uvuyo, ukuxhalabisa. Emva kwayo yonke into, inkunzi iya kuqothulwa kwimeko yokuhlala kuyo, iya kufuneka isetyenziswe kwindlela entsha yobomi, isetyenziselwe abantu abaqhelana nabo, ngoko akuqhelekanga ukuba uhlale edeskini elinde ifowuni, ukulungelelanisa neemfuno ezihluke ngokupheleleyo.
Yintoni esinokuyenza, bazali? Umntwana angasetyenziselwa njani inkqubo entsha? Zininzi iziphakamiso. Nangona kunjalo, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza kweli nqanaba kukudala usuku lwesikolo. Kunceda ngokwenene ukulungelelanisa.
Kodwa kuphela ukuba uqale ukusebenza rhoqo kwimihla ngemihla yomqhubi wokuqala kufuneka phambi kokuba umntwana angene esikolweni. Mnike ubuncinane ngeveki, ufake ishedyuli ngokukhawuleza: pha kamisa imizuzu engamashumi amathathu kamva kunyanzelekile, kwaye esikhundleni seklasi zeeklasi, hamba ujikeleze isixeko, udlale, ucoxe. Yaye xelela, xelela, xelela ... Ngantoni na? Malunga nesikolo. Kwaye kulungile! Dlulisa umntwabo iimvakalelo zabo, abanamava emininzi edlulileyo, babelane ngazo, iimvuyo. Yaye ndixelele ukuba isikolo sisango lomntu omdala, ubomi obunzima. Kwaye imihla ngemihla yesikolo somntwana ngumnyango, emva kokuba lo bomi buqala. Umntwana akakwazi ukunyanzeliswa, kufuneka acaciswe. Kwaye ngoku kude kuphela kwimo yomdlalo.
Ngaba uke wambona isicwangciso somsebenzi wesititshala? Ootitshala abathi "bathathe" iiklasi zokuqala, bayazi: ukufundelwa kwenzeka ngohlobo lomdlalo. Kwaye kunjalo. Ukutshintshwa kwendlela yokuphila kuhlale kuphazamisekile. Ngomntwana, lo xinzelelo unamandla ngakumbi.
Yintoni okufanele ibe yinto yemihla ngemihla yomfundi? Kuzo zonke iiprayimari eziphambili, zibukeka into enje:
7.00 - vuka. Ngokuchanekileyo, simvusa umntwana. Myeke ahlale embhedeni imizuzu embalwa. Musa ukuvusa umntwana wakho, ungalungiseleli ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ungazichukumisi izivakalisi: "Into ephosakeleyo, ifuna ukulala, amehlo anamathele ndawonye ..." Oku kudikibala ukususela ekuqaleni.
7.10 - indlu yangasese yasekuseni. Sihlamba, sihlambulula amazinyo, senza ukufudumala.
7.20 - ukutya. Yidla ukutya kwasekuseni nomntwana wakho. Apha kwizinto ezinjalo zifuna ukubonisa ubumbano. Akuyinto engenanto engenakunentsingiselo njengoko kubonakala ngathi.
7.40 - uye esikolweni. Ukuchitha umntwana. Ewe, ubuncinane iintsuku zokuqala. Yaye qiniseka ukuba uwanga ngaphambi kokuya eklasini. Shiya isahlulo sothando nothando emphefumlweni womntwana. Le ntlawulo yosuku lwakhe lwesikolo.
Isikolo ngokwawo sinoxanduva lweeyure eziliqela kwishedyuli yesikolo. Nantsi isimiso sakho. Unzima kakhulu kwaye ucinga ngemizuzu.
13.00 - sidibana nomntwana. Hamba uhamba kunye. Vumela umntwana abelane ngemvakalelo, iimpawu. Ngoku kuye kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyibona njani ukungena kwakhe ekudala. Ungaphuthelwa umzuzu. Makhe umntwana amthande ngokuxelela. Ukunyuka kwamaxesha angapheli kwabantu abadala kuya kuphoqa umntwana ukuba avalwe kwivalelo yokungabi nantoni. Kwaye kuphela ukunyaniseka kwakho kunye nesithakazelo esivulekile asiyi kuvumela oku.
13.30 - Sidla isidlo sasemini. Ewe, kunjalo, kunye. Okanye uhlale phantsi etafileni. Into ephambili - vala.
14.00 - ukuphumla. Vumela umntwana alele, okanye aphumle. Ukukhutshwa ngendlela yokuphumla kuyimfuneko, kodwa ukuphumla akufanele kusebenze.
15.30 - lixesha lokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo. Ngokuqhelekileyo umqambi wokuqala uthatha iiyure ezimbalwa ukwenza oku. Vumela umlindi ugcinwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, sifunda kunye kunye, kunye. Musa ukumemeza, ungakhathazeki. Khumbula nje wena. Ngaba yonke into ikusebenzela yona? Indlela umntwana aqonda ngayo isikolo kunye nendlela esiya kufunda ngayo ixhomekeke kungekuphela kotitshala kuphela, kodwa nakuwe.
18.30 - ixesha lokuhamba. Umoya omtsha ngaphambi kokulala ubalulekile kumzimba womntwana. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uninzi kangakanani ufuna ukubukela umboniso, okanye ufunde incwadi, okanye wenze izinto - hamba kunye nomntwana kunye. Yiya esitolo, okanye uye epakini. Akunandaba. Into ephambili ibumbene.
19.45 - isidlo sakusihlwa. Kunye. Kuphela. Kwaye emva kokutya, cela umsizi "omdala" ukuba enze umsebenzi othile malunga nendlu. Mvumele ahlasele phantsi, okanye aphelise inja, okanye ahlambe izitya (musa ukutshitshisa intaba yezitya, ungadibanisi). Le nto iyinto engathandekiyo kuwe, ngenxa yakhe - uxanduva olunzulu. Kwaye ukujwayela eli xanduva lixesha. Emva koko unike umntwana ithuba lokukhulula.
20.45 - ngasese ngasese kunye nokulala.
Ngendlela, unokwenza ishedyuli yomfundi ndawonye. Lo nomntwana uya kuba nomdla, kwaye uya kuba nokuthanda ukuwugcina.
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