Uyayazi ngubani na kuba owayemele umntwana wakho?

Lokukhula Ukubhaptizwa - umthendeleko, oluqhutywa ngokwe nemithetho ethile yeCawa Orthodox zamaKristu. Kukholelwa ukuba kuphela emva kokuba ebhaptiziwe umntu uba usondela kuThixo, oko ukuzalwa kwalo ngokomoya.

Bazali, yakuba wazala umntwana, ezama ngokukhawuleza kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba ambhaptize. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ubhaptizo leentsana akhuselwe yiNkosi, ngoxa abanye (ingakumbi iintsapho zonqulo) ufuna ukuba bayinyuse usana kusukela ezalwa imithetho zamaKristu, ngokutyala izimiso bakhe bokomoya. Kukwakho nabo abantu abanamdla ngokukodwa le mfihlakalo, hamba uye ecaweni, elandela iintsingiselo fashion. Ewe, ukuba namhlanje nayiphi lowu kufundwe njengokuba umama oselula ukusuka 'cream yoluntu' injezu christening abantwana babo, nabo bonke wathi, kwahlelwa ezinye itheko ukuba sihlandlo.

Ukuba ufunda iBhayibhile - iZibhalo, kukho ithi ngokucacileyo ukuba umntu umele abhaptizwe. Thatha ukholo kufuneka ibe luncedo xa mfana sele ngokupheleleyo uyayiqonda ubunzulu msitho kunye nentsingiselo yalo. Ingaba umntwana kuzalwa sinokuthatha eso sigqibo? Kodwa ukususela kwixesha lakudala nokubhaptizelwa abantwana babo nje kuzalwa.

Kukholelwa ukuba ukubamba lo msitho phezu usana aniswele kweentsuku ezili-40 emva kokuzalwa. Kodwa ke abefundisi needinodushny kule umgwebo. Abantwana abaninzi babhaptizwa kakhulu ngaphambili. Umzekelo, umntwana uzelwe buthathaka kunye nabagulayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali bafuna ukuchonga ngokukhawuleza kuloo ndawo apho ubhaptizo umntwana, yaye bayavumelana umbingeleli, INkosi yam ibingayi kunceda umntwana wabo.

Kuba bonke abazali ngokucinezela umbuzo: Ngubani na kuba owayemele umntwana wabo. Godparents musa ukuze ezitratweni kunye sokubala sokuqala. Kukholelwa ukuba umnqamlezo emva kokufunda umthandazo kwaye ukubiza amagama ezingcwele babe abazali bokomoya godson yakhe. Bona banyanzelekile ukuba ancedise kwimfundo yomntwana ukuphuhlisa ihlabathi yakhe yokomoya, ukuhlakulela ukuthanda uThixo imbeko ibandla. Ukuba abazali kunye nosapho kwenzeka intaba, lo ngowona godparents kufuneka athathe uxanduva ukufundisa godson okanye yomngani.

Abantu abaninzi (ingakumbi abadala) ngokukodwa simisela ngubani na ukuba ube ngumqondiso womnqamlezo. Ngokutsho kubo: nje izihlobo - abazalwana noodade (abazali), kwaye xa kungekho balo - abatshana, oomalume, oomalumekazi. Enyanisweni, godparents ukuba ukubiza izalamane nabahlobo abantu non-gazi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba aba bantu bazi kakuhle kwimfanelo esemagxeni phezu kwabo, yaye akazange acele kutheni kubhaptiza umntwana ngokubanzi.

Noko ke, ibandla kusekho ezi mfuno kwandlalwa abantu kusenokwenzeka ukuba godparents. ukubhaptiza ezingavumelekanga abantu abagulayo (kunye psyche ezingazinzanga kunye nesifo sengqondo), eeNtlanga ezolile ongabhaptizwanga kunye nezinye iindawo ngokomthetho okanye abafazi abatshatileyo. indoda nomfazi ayikwazi ukuba godparents lomntwana mnye: Ngokutsho imigaqo. Kwakhona akuvumelekanga ukuba ndibhaptize abafazi, ngubani babengavunyelwa wobudlelane. Kakade ke, akuyi kuvumela umbingeleli ukuba ndibhaptize umntwana umntu unyango ngamachiza, ukuxhomekeka etywaleni. Kodwa kwakhona ezicacileyo. Akukho namnye umzali yesiqhelo asingethandi umntwana wabo wayephethe obunxilisayo okanye likhoboka leziyobisi.

Xa sicinga nabo kuba abazali owayemele kufuneka bacinge umviwa ngamnye ethe kakhulu, ngokungathi phantsi iglasi. Ngapha koko, umnqamlezo - akunakuba abantu abeza kanye ngonyaka ngokuthatha iphakheji iilekese kunye nezipho. Nangona ngelo xesha lakalokunje imingcelele zixhaphakile kakhulu.

Cinga kwaye isigqibo ngubani kuwela umntwana wakho, musa ukulibala ukuba azise umntu anyuliweyo isigqibo sakho. Ngapha koko, umnqamlezo kufuneka ukulungiselela umthendeleko. Okokuqala, umnqamlezo kufuneka nakanjani abekho phezu imfihlelo inkonzo kusasa, izono kunye yobudlelane. oko kufuneka uthenge kryzhmu - ngelaphu, leyo wamsongela usana emva ukuhlamba. Owayemele kufuneka tyelela ibandla, thabatha umthendeleko, ukuba uyavumelana nale umbingeleli, umise umhla christening. Owayemele kufuneka yokuthenga umnqamlezo pectoral kuba godson elizayo.