Ungayilungisa njani umhla wakho ukubamba yonke into?

Uninzi lwethu lujongene nokungabikho kwexesha lokulungisa iingxaki zemihla ngemihla. Ikakhulu ngokuqhelekileyo abo bangayazi indlela yokulungelelanisa umhla wabo isikhalazo malunga nokulahleka kweeyure ngosuku. Oku kubangelwa kukuba akubona bonke abakwaziyo ukucwangcisa ngokucacileyo ishedyuli yomsebenzi kunye nokuzonwabisa.

Kwabo abenza imisebenzi yabo ingagqityiwe okanye kufuneka banikele imihla yokuphumla, sekuyisikhathi 'sokuphucula' ubomi babo. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho uphazamisekile kwaye ulungelelanise, ixesha lokuba uqhelane nekota efana nokuphathwa kwexesha.

Le ngcamango yavela kungekudala, kodwa isele ibe yinto esebenzayo kwimpumelelo yezoshishino kunye nomsebenzi wobugcisa. Ubuchwephesha bokuphathwa kwexesha (ngokuguqulelwe igama lesiNgesi "ulawulo lwexesha") lifundisa ngokufanelekileyo ukulahla inani leeyure ezikhoyo ngamnye wethu. Le ngcamango iquka ukucwangcisa uludwe lwamatyala, ukubeka iinjongo ezithile, ukuhlalutya ixesha kwaye, ngokubaluleka, kubaluleke kakhulu.

Eneneni, indlela yokulungelelanisa imini yakho, ukuba awuhambisani imisebenzi ngokubaluleka kwayo?

UStephen Covey, umbhali wencwadi ethi "Izakhono ezi-7 zabantu abaPhezulu kakhulu" unikezela ukuhlalutya imicimbi yemihla ngemihla kwaye isasaze kwiingqimba ezine zekwere:

• Kubalulekile - ngokukhawuleza;
• Kubalulekile - engeyona ingxamiseko;
• Akubalulekanga - ngokukhawuleza;
• Akubalulekiyo - engeyona ingxamisekileyo.

Ulawulo lukaCovey luzwakala: "Okokuqala yenza oko kufuneka kwenziwe kuqala." Okuphambili, ubona amacala avela kwisikwere sesibini: ukuzakhela uphuhliso, ukucwangcisa, ukuphunyezwa kwemicimbi ekhoyo.

Kwizithuba ezilandelayo zincwadi kaDkt Covi, ethandwa kuwo wonke umhlaba, iincwadi ezininzi ngokulawulwa kwexesha zisekelwe.

Ngoko, emva kokugqiba kwelokuba kufuneka wenze okokuqala, yenza isicwangciso sokuguquguquka seveki ezayo. Umsebenzi ngamnye owenzayo ususwe kuloluhlu, kuba ukunciphisa okubonakalayo kumyinge womsebenzi kuya kukukholisa kunye nokukhuthazwa kwempumelelo yomsebenzi omtsha.

Ungakulibali ukuba ixesha elifanelekileyo liquka ukuphumla kunye noqhagamshelwano nosapho. Ngaphambi kokuba ulungiselele imini yakho, cinga malunga neyure iiyure ongashiya iimfuno zakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani umsebenzi kunye nezoshishino kuwe, khumbula ukuba abantu abangazi indlela yokuphumla kwisangqa sezihlobo kunye nabahlobo ngokukhawuleza "baqhumayo" kwaye imisebenzi yabo ayinakusebenza.

Enye imfihlo yexesha lolawulo yikhono lokunikezela amandla. Umzekelo, ukuba ungenayo ixesha elaneleyo lokwenza umsebenzi obalulekileyo, ngoko izinto eziphantsi kwabakho abaphantsi kwakho, kufuneka "udlulise" ngexesha. Ngokuqhelekileyo abaphathi beenkampani (okanye nabanamakhaya abancinci) abanakuhlangabezana nemisebenzi yabo, njengoko bexakeke ngomsebenzi onokudluliselwa ngempumelelo kwabanye. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi indlela yokuhlela usuku lwakho, hlalutya umxholo weendwendwe ezisebenzayo lonke uluhlu lwemisebenzi yakho ngokuhambelana nexesha nemikhosi onayo.

Kwaye inqaku lokugqibela: indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nemicimbi yokuhamba kwimihla ngemihla yileyo esazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni injongo ekugqibeleni eyayiqhutywa ngumsebenzi wakhe. Ngamanye amazwi, ukukhuthazwa kuyisitshixo kwimpumelelo yakho!