Indlela yokuphila xa ungenalo amandla okuphila? Singafumana phi amandla okuhlala kuyo?

Isibhengezo soMhlaba soLuntu samalungelo sichaza ilungelo elingenammiselo ebomini, kodwa akukho ndawo ibonisa ukuba ngumsebenzi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantu bakhululekile ukuzihlalisa ngokwabo, kwesinye, isithethe sentlalo, ukukhuliswa, inkolo, kunye nokunye okuninzi ngaphezu kwabo. Ukuze uphendule umbuzo othi "wenzeni ukuba akukho mandla ukuhlala?", Ngelishwa, akunjalo lula.

Icala elingokomoya leengxaki

Into efana nokuzibulala yinkinga enkulu yokuziphatha eye yaba yinto engabonakaliyo ngenxa yokuba inkokeli yenkolo iphelile ukuba nefuthe eliphambili kwimilinganiselo yabantu.

Ngaphambili, oku kwakulula kakhulu. Ibandla lobuKristu libi kakhulu ngokuzibulala, kungekhona ukuphulaphula yonke imibuzo yeendawo zonqulo malunga nendlela yokuphila xa kungekho namandla okuphila. Kukholelwa ukuba isono esingathí sina asikho, kuba ukuzibulala kudibanisa kokubili ukubulala nokuphelelwa yithemba, ngaphandle koko, umoni uyazithintela ithuba lokuguquka. I-Suicides ayingcwabe kwaye ingcwabe kwindawo engcwelisiweyo kuze kube namhlanje.

Umbono kaRhulumente ngezinto

Ekubeni impucuko yaseYurophu, ngokubanzi, yakhiwe ngokuziphatha kwamaKristu, isimo sengqondo esithile sokuzibulala sibonakaliswe kwimithetho esemthethweni yamazwe amaninzi, apho ukuzibulala kuye kwadala kuthathwa njengecala lolwaphulo-mthetho.

Inokumangalisa abanye, kodwa e-UK yaphela ukuba ngowama-1961, xa izibheno ezininzi zamalungelo oluntu ziphoqa ipalamente ukuba ihlolisise umthetho ochaphazelekayo. Kuze kube ngoko, ukuphendula okungalunganga kumbuzo "indlela yokuphila, ukuba akukho mandla okuphila?", Unakho ukuhlawula ixabiso elibonakalayo, kwaye ekupheleni kwekhulu leshumi elinesibhozo - kwaze kuphunyezwe ngokuxhoma. E-Ireland, isohlwayo sokuzibulala satshitshiswa kuphela ngo-1993 (!).

Isikhundla seengqondo

Ngoku ngoku kwintlango enjalo inokufumaneka kuphela e-Afrika (iGhana, Uganda). Nangona kunjalo, kuluntu uqobo, isimo sengqondo sokuzibulala sinokungabonakali kwaye siyahluka ngokubanzi-ukususela ekuvunyelweni ukuya kugwetywa.

Kwangexesha elide kwakukholelwa ukuba ingxaki: "Indlela yokuphila xa kungekho mandla?" Ingumntu kuphela wabantu abangaqhelekanga ngengqondo. Lo mboniso uhlala kwaye usaphila. Ngesinye iHarvard, kwakuqhutywe isifundo esichaza ukuba izifo zengqondo zifumaneke ngokusekelwe kwiirekhodi zonyango. Zonke izigulane zenze ukuzibulala, kodwa akubona bonke abathathi-nxaxheba kulo mvavanyo baxelele oku.

Iziphumo zibonise ukuba kwimeko apho ukufa kwaziwa khona kwiingcali, bafumanisa ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo kwiimeko ezingama-90%, kwaye ukuba ingaziwa - kuphela i-22%.

Phakathi kwezizathu zonyango zokuzibulala kuthiwa ukuxinezeleka okukhulu - iingcinga zokuzibulala zihanjiswe ngaphezu kwe-70% yezigulane, kwaye malunga ne-15% benza iimvavanyo ezifanelekileyo.

Norm - umgaqo wokungaqiniseki

Umbuzo wesimilo sengqondo, ngokusemgangathweni, unokuqwalaselwa ngokuvulekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukukhala komphefumlo: "Indlela yokuphila, ukuba akukho bomi?" Akuthethi ukuba umntu uphambuka. Ekugqibeleni, ngenxa yezizathu zokuzibulala, amanani awanakucacisa imeko kakhulu.

Ngokwe-WHO, ngokutsho kwe-WHO, i-causes ye-41% yokuzibulala ayifumanwanga nonke, i-19% iyenzela ukwesaba isigwebo esizayo, i-18% yokuchithwa kwabantu, kunye ne-18% yengxaki yokugula.

Kuyinto ephawulekayo ukuba i-1.2% kuphela yabantu bayazibulala ngenxa yesifo esibi, ngoko ke le nto ayinakuyithathwa njengongqwabalala, kwaye ngokwenene yiyo ingxabano ephakamileyo esuka kwenkampu yokunyaniseka kwabokuzibulala.

Ngaloo ndlela, umgaqo wokumisa i-euthanasia kumazwe amaninzi aseYurophu onomgangatho ophezulu wokuphila unelungelo lokunakwa. Ngoko, eBelgium, intombazana esingazange ifinyelele kwiminyaka engama-30 isanda kufumana ilungelo lokuzibulala ngokuncediswa ngamayeza. Isizathu siyixinzelelo - akanayo ezinye izifo. Le meko yemicimbi ithathwa njengabantu abangaqhelekanga.

Ukukhangela ubuqaqawuli

Ukukhathazeka ngakumbi malunga nendlela yokuphila, ukuba unako amandla okuphila, abantu abatsha: abaneminyaka yobudala kunye neminqweno yokulungisa amanqaku ngobomi bunciphisa, kwaye izizathu zithatha kwiimpawu ezahlukileyo. Iintlungu kwaye zidikibala ukuba phakathi kwentsha kwishumi elishumi elidlulileyo, inani lokuzibulala liye laphindwa kathathu.

Izazi zengqondo kunye neengqondo zeengqondo zivakala i-alarm kwaye zithandekile ukugxeka i-intanethi, zikholelwa ukuba ukuzibulala kwabanye abatsha abamele uluntu kuyisithuba sokuzibonakalisa kunye nokufumana "umzuzwana wozuko" phakathi kwabantu abanjalo.

Kwamazwe amaninzi ehlabathini kukho indawo ezinikezele ukuzibulala, kodwa, nangona abanye bathi kubalulekile ukuba banqande (eJapan), basakhula kwaye banda njengama-mushroom emva kwemvula.

Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba imbono yokuzibulala eyenziwe entloko ibonisa ukuba kukho ingxaki (iingxaki). Ukuba le ngcamango iyangena, ibuya kwakhona, kufuneka ucinge ngokucokisekileyo ngeendlela zokufumana uncedo.

Kwiindawo eziseSoviet, izifo zengqondo azifumani kakuhle, kodwa lo mkhuba unobungozi. Kunzima ukusho ukuba bangaphi abantu abangasindiswa, baphendukela kwiingcali ngexesha. Ukuba umntu akakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo iinjongo ezimchukumisa ukuba acinge malunga nokuba unokufumana phi amandla okuphila, kufuneka ukuba utyelele i-psychotherapist okanye ufumane enye indlela yokuxoxa ngeengxaki zakhe.

Injury Factor

Njengomthetho, ingcamango yokungabikho kokubakho kokubakho tyelela abantu abaye bafumana ukulahleka okukhulu - ngokufanayo, ukukhathazeka: ukulahlekelwa ngumntu othandekayo, isimo senhlalakahle, imali eninzi okanye umsebenzi. Kwindawo ekhethekileyo yengozi ngabantu abangenawo usapho: ngokwemibare, kunzima ukuphendula, apho kuthatha amandla okuphila ngokuqhubekayo emva kokulahleka.

Ukuba imbangela yezizathu zokuzibulala kwakukho isiganeko, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ingqondo yomntu ingcono kwaye iguquke. Ilona xesha linzima kakhulu kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala emva kokulimala. Emva koko, loo mntu unako okanye ungakwazi ukubuyela kwimpilo evamile.

Uvakalelwa ngokuba ngumntu

Amava kumazwe aseNtshona angenza umsebenzi omhle. Eli hlobo lonyango, njengamaqela enkxaso, eyenziwa kubantu abaneengxaki ezifanayo, kusebenza kakuhle.

Okokuqala, akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuba umntu azi ukuba kukho abantu abaye bafumana ukulahleka okufanayo, kodwa baqhubeka bephila.

Okwesibini, ukuhlala kunye neengxaki zomntu omnye kungabandakanywa. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba phakathi kwabantu abazibulalayo kuphela i-24% ekhulumisana nabantu abaninzi, i-60% - kunye ne-16% ibe yodwa. Ezi zibalo zithetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba amandla okuphuhlisa oonxibelelwano loluntu inendima ebalulekileyo ekunqumeni indlela yokuphila, ukuba akukho namandla.

Isalathiso esikhethekileyo sinokuba iifomati ezikhethekileyo kwi-Intanethi, kodwa kufuneka uqaphele: kwiwebhu, abantu bahlala beba nzima ngakumbi kunobomi boqobo.

Isikhundla esicacileyo senza ukuba kungabi namsebenzi, kuba akukho mfuneko yokubona intlungu yomntu (into engamangalisi phantse nawuphi na umntu), kwaye akukho nto inokuthi ijeziswe. Unxibelelwano lomntu lukhethwa naluphi na uhlobo.

Uncedo olulungileyo lubizwa ngokuba luncedo olunokuba luncedo. Uvelwano lomnye umntu lunokunceda ukukhusela ingxaki.

Isixhobo sokusesha

Uninzi lwabantu abaye bafumana ubunzima obuyintlekele inkolo: ingxaki ixazululwa yicawa kunye nombingeleli. Ngokomgaqo, ukunceda umntu, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuba ube ne-diploma - ngamanye amaxesha inceba epheleleyo. Kwimeko yombingeleli, yonke ingqiqo yobudala becawa kunye nokholo olunzulu eNkosini luyakunceda.

Ekufuneni iimpendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokufumana amandla okuhlala kuyo, zonke iindlela ezizisa uxolo luhle. Iziphumo ezilungileyo zinika ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Ukuba akukho nanye, kufuneka uzame ukuyifumana.

Imibutho yamavolontiya amaninzi inikezela ithuba lokunciphisa kwiingxaki zabo, ukutshintsha kwabanye. Omnye uncedwa ngokuqonda ukuba "omnye umntu uphelele," omnye unokufumana intsingiselo yobomi kwintando.

Mhlawumbi, ayikho enye iresiphi. Ngaphandle kwabokutshaya, ukuphonsa umkhwa omubi, kukhokelwa iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Kukho abo bathuthuzelwa ipakethi ye-cigarettes elele kwisikhwama: "Ukuba sele sele ingenakulibaleka, ndiya kutshisa." Abanye bayazi ukuba kufuneka bahlale kude necuba baze basebenzise ezinye izicwangciso. Ngokufanayo, abantu abaye balahleka kakhulu kwaye abangazi ukuba baphila ngayo kufuneka bafumane iindlela zabo.

Tshintsha u kutshintsha

Ukuba bekungekho isiganeko esichukumisayo, kwaye iingcinga zokuzibulala ziyaqhubeka, kubalulekile ukuhlala etafileni, uthathe iphepha elicocekileyo kunye nokunyaniseka njengoko unako uluhlu lwezizathu zokuba ufuna ukuyeka yonke into. Le ndlela ilungileyo ukusuka ngapha nangapha:

• Usenza senze iinjongo zethu neemvakalelo zethu;

• Inika ingxaki yokubonakala;

• Ifuna ukuba siphume ngokujulile kwisiseko sayo.

Emva kokubangela ukuba umntu acinge malunga nokuba unokufumana amandla okuphilisa, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa iindlela zokujongana nayo. Kulo lathiso, isinyathelo esincinane kunazo zonke siya kuba yimpumelelo. Ewe, kuyinto enhle ukuba umntu onobuchule onobuchule kunye nomncedisi wengqondo unceda. Xa kungenakwenzeka ukuba usebenzise uncedo lweengcali, kufuneka uzame ukubandakanya umntu osondeleyo okanye intanethi enye ukulungisa ingxaki.

Kukho iingcambu zeengqondo ezikhethekileyo apho unokuxoxa ngeengxaki zakho kwaye uphulaphule oko abanye baya kuthetha ngako. Ukuqwalasela ezinye izibuyekezo, le ndlela inelungelo lokuba khona. Into ephambili kukuba ukulungele ukutshintsha nokuphulaphula iingcebiso.

Ilumkiso: abantwana

Udidi olukhethekileyo lwabantu ababuza umbuzo, indlela yokufumana amandla okuphila, abatsha. Kuyadabukisa ukuba ayifuni kubazali. Kwaye konke okubuhlungu, ukuba awufumani isizukulwana esidala sokuqonda.

Abantu abadala, ngokuyinxalenye, banokuqonda: Iintandokazi zikaShakespeare ekusebenzeni kwamantombazana eneminyaka engama-13 ziyakwazi ukuphazamisa ukuhleka nokucaphukisa. Ewe, umama uyazi kakuhle ukuba uthando lokuqala aluyikuphela kwehlabathi, "ihlazo kwisikolo sonke" - kungekhona isigqubuthelo ebomini, njl. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba intombazana ecinga ukuba yonke into iphelile kwaye Thatha isigqibo esenza abo bathandekayo bahlale behlala benetyala.

Ekugqibeleni, uhlalutyo lwemali eninzi yolwazi eqokelelwe ngabazibulala, lubonisa ukuba ngokuqhelekileyo imbangela yokuzibulala kukuba ukungabakhathaleli kwabanye.

Musa ukwenza izenzo ezingenakuphikiswa

Iingxubusho ezininzi malunga neengxaki zokuzibulala ziqukethe amazwi athi "bazama ukukhangela abantu ngale ndlela." Enyanisweni: ukusukela kuma-85 kuya ku-90% okuzama ukuzibulala akupheli, kwaye phakathi kwabasindileyo, amaxesha amane abesetyhini kunamadoda. Kodwa ngaba loo mntu ukhangele ingqalelo ngale ndlela, akafanelanga uvelwano?

Abantu bafanele babe nomusa komnye nomnye, ngakumbi kuba oku, njengommiselo, akudingi iindleko ezinkulu. Ukuthetha igama elivelwano kunye nokushiya ilizwi elihlazo-into enokuba yinto elula? Mhlawumbi umzila wokuzibulala uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza.

Unako ukulahla izandla zakho nokuzinikela nanini na. Kunzima kakhulu ukuqhubeka nokufuna intsingiselo yobomi. Akukho mntu owaziyo oya kunika umntu igunya lokuphila kwaye xa kwenzeka ntoni - kufuneka uzame ukugcina ithemba. UB. Strugatsky, onika ngodliwano-ndlebe ngandlela-thile, wathi kubalandeli bakhe: "Akukho mntu akamele enze izenzo ezingenakwenzeka." Kwaye oku kuyilunga elihle kakhulu kuthi sonke.