U-Vadim Kurkin ngumntwana weengqondo, umlobi woqeqesho lobudlelwane. Biography

U-Vadim Kurkin okwamanje ubizwa ngokuba ngumqeqeshi osebenzayo wokuqeqeshwa kwezorhwebo kunye nolwalamano phakathi kwabantu. Imisebenzi yayo ijoliswe ekutyhileni iziseko ezinzulu zokusebenzisana kwintsapho, phakathi kwabantu ngokubanzi. Ngamnye wethu ufuna ukufunwa kwaye uphumelele, kodwa ngokwenene kuphela kuphela. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Kubalulekile ukwazi indlela yokuhamba ngokufanelekileyo kwiinjongo ezifunwayo.

U-Vadim Kurkin ngumsunguli wezinto ezibizwa ngokuba yi-psychology yexesha elizayo, uthintela kwiimpawu zentsapho kunye neminqweno yabantu kwiminina yakhe. Imisebenzi yakhe iye yavuya kakhulu. UVadim Kurkin ngumlobi weekhosi ezahlukeneyo kunye nokuqeqesha. Umsebenzi wakhe ngokubhekiselele ekukhuleni kunye nophuhliso lwabanye abathathi-nxaxheba.

Inxalenye ethile yembali. Biography

Umsebenzi wakhe, uVadim Kurkin waqala ngokukhawuleza - ngeeshumi elinesixhenxe. Ekuqaleni, bekujoliswe kuphela kwiintengiso eziphumeleleyo. Kwathatha ixesha elithile wadibanisa umsebenzi wokuqesha kunye noqeqesho lwakhe kunye nophuhliso. Kodwa ndifuna ezinye. Le nsizwa yaqonda ukuba kunokwenzeka ukufezekisa impumelelo enkulu kuphela ngokuzinikezela, umonde nokusebenza kanzima. Ngelo xesha, akazange abe nomnqweno wokusebenza nje ngokuqesha kunye nokufumana imali.

Ndandisoloko ndiphupha ngokufumana umthombo wam amandla okuqhuba, ukuphefumlelwa okuza kundikhokelela. UVadim Kurkin ngokwakhe unelungelo lokulwa naye. I-biografi yakhe iphinda iqinisekise ukuba umntu onenjongo kwaye osebenzayo akanakwenzeka.

Ukususela ekuqeqeshelweni ukuya ekuthengiseni-ukuqeqesha ubudlelwane

Xa umcebisi osemncinci waqala ukuqhuba iintetho eziphathekayo ekulawuleni, ukuxelela indlela yokuphumelela kwishishini, kwaye waphawula enye into. Kwimisemina yakhe yabasetyhini babehlala beza, amadoda ayemncinci. Ngaphezu koko, amantombazana amancinci ayaya kwiintlanganiso, aphulaphula umqeqeshi ngokuqwalasela okukhulu. Ngokukhawuleza uVadim waqonda ukuba yintoni le nto: bonke aba bafazi abathandekayo abazange bafunde ukuthengisa ngokuphumelelayo, babefuna ukufunda iimfihlelo zobudlelwane bobulili obuhlukile. Baye banomdla kwindlela yokwakha olufanelekileyo, nolwalamano lwentsapho, ukuqinisa ubudlelwane kunye neqabane elisele likhona, ukubenza babe nethemba ngakumbi kunye neengqalelo.

UKurkin waqala ukuphendula imibuzo yabathathi-nxaxheba kwaye waba nomdla kwezi zihloko. Ngexesha elifanayo waqonda ukuba impumelelo engabonakaliyo ayinikezeli nto, yintoni umntu ayifunayo ngokwenene, ayinelisekanga iimfuno zakhe zangaphakathi - ukuba athandwe kwaye ayimfuneko.

Ngenxa yoko, umqeqeshi wakwazi ukudibanisa iimbini zombini kunye nokuvelisa enye ingcamango yempumelelo yomntu ngamnye. Yiloo nto ngoku ahlula kwiintlanganiso zakhe, izifundo ze-intanethi kunye nokuqeqesha.

IZiko loLwazi lweeNzululwazi

Yadalwe ukuphumeza ngempumelelo zonke ezo mbono kunye neengcamango ezihlasela ngokucacileyo le ndoda. Igosa likaVadim Kurkin libe yongezwa ngokugqithiseleyo kolwazi olukhoyo. Ngokuncedwa kwakhe, wafumana ithuba lokuthetha ngokuthe ngqo kubantu kwimibono yakhe nembono kwihlabathi.

Iziko lokusebenza kwengqondo liquka iikhosi ezinxulumene nolwalamano, iisemina kunye ne-webinars yabasetyhini abaphuphayo yokuguqula ubomi babo ukuze bafumane ngcono. Emva koko, iikhosi eziphambili zomqeqeshi, iinkalo zemfundiso, apho ehlawula ingqalelo kwiintlanganiso ziya kuqwalaselwa.

"Iimfihlelo zobudlelwane obonwabileyo"

Le ngqungquthela ibandakanya inani elikhulu lemibuzo ekusebenzisaneni kwabatshatileyo. U-Vadim Kurkin ubonisa ingcamango enomdla ukuba okwangoku, ubudlelwane obudibeneyo buxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo, ukuba ngumlingani womtshato. Kukho abantu abafuna ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kwaye ngandlela-thile baphephe ukuxhamla kubomi babo. U-Vadim Kurkin unobunono ngokucacileyo ukuba uhlabele inkululeko yakhe. Loo mntu, njengomthetho, unobunzima obunxinzeleko, ukungagqibekanga, kodwa akwenzeki ukuba yena wenza okungalunganga kwaye lixesha lokutshintsha into ethile.

Olunye olubalulekileyo uluntu lubonisa ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ibhinqa ligqugquzele indoda ukuba iphumelele, ukuba imnike umkhuthazo owongezelelweyo, isishukumiso sokwenza isenzo. Ngokutsho kukaVadim Kurkin, umntu udinga kakhulu kakhulu, kwaye konke akwenzayo kufumaneka kuphela ngenxa yesinye isiqingatha. Ukuba isondo esinamandla sithatha ithuba lokunyamekela intlalontle yakhe, akayi kuthatha nawaphi na amanyathelo okuzithokozisa ngolunye uhlobo lokuthenga. Lo mntu akayi kufumana kule ngqiqo nokwaneliseka.

Kwi-semina, umbhali, kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba, uhlola indima yamadoda nabasetyhini kwimpilo yomnye nomnye. Ukwenza umanyano ohambelanayo, okokuqala kuyimfuneko ukuza kuqonda indlela yonke into ehlelwe ngayo. Iphutha elikhulu kakhulu umzamo wokuphila ngobugovu kunye nomfazi ukuba athathe uxanduva kwintsapho yonke. Le ngongoma yesondo esomeleleyo, akudingeki ukuba ususe kuye okulungileyo. Yiloo nto uVadim Kurkin ethetha ngayo. Iincwadi zakhe ziqinisekisa ukuchaneka nokuqiqa kwesimo eso.

"Ixesha lovuyo ngoku"

Le khosi yenzelwe abaphulaphuli abajolise kwisenzo. Ukufunda iindlela zokuphuhlisa ngokufanelekileyo nokutsala inhlanhla kubalulekile kubantu abaninzi. Abanye bethu abakulungele ukuthatha amanyathelo okukhonkxa ngoku, oko kutheni bahlupheka. Indlela yokuyeka ukugxotha ibhiziniselwano kamva kunye nobuninzi bezithuba zokufumana ixesha lokuthetha kunye nosapho - ezi ngxaki ezivuthayo. Uqeqesho lunceda ukukholelwa kuwe, ukufumana ukulinganisela ngaphakathi.

"Imfundo ngaphandle kwesijeziso"

Ikhosi ixelela indlela yokwakha kakuhle ubudlelwane kunye nabantwana babo. Abanye abazali abakwazi ukuyenza ngaphandle kokusetyenziswa kwesijeziso, kwaye oku kuchaphazela kakubi ukukhula komntu umntwana okhulayo. NgokukaKurkin, kubalulekile ukuvelisa abantwana ngothando, kubonakalisa ngokukhusela kwabo nokukhusela. Amagama abalulekile, kodwa awancinci kwizenzo nezenzo zangempela. Nika umntwana ukufudumala nokuthatha inxaxheba, ufuna ukuva inkxaso kubazali kuyo yonke into!

Vadim Kurkin. Uphononongo

Abathathi-nxaxheba bee-training baqaphele enye into emangalisayo: emva kokuhamba kwesi sifundo okanye bafunde ukuba bazaliswe, baphefumlelwe ukufezekiswa kweengcamango. Abafazi bavame ukuvuma ukuba babesele bephelelwa lithemba, kwaye kuphela le ntlanganiso nomntu onolwazi wabancedisa ukuba baqonde indima yabo nenjongo kwintsapho.

Iindibano zigcinwe kwindawo enobungane, efudumalayo, apho wonke umntu unelungelo lokuveza uluvo lwakhe, ukwabelana ngemibono yakhe. Le ndlela inceda ukwakha ukuthembela phakathi komqeqeshi kunye nabathathi-nxaxheba, ukwakha iingcamango ezingaphezulu kwimiba yoshishini kunye nobomi bomntu.