Umntwana ukuqina ntoni ukwenza

Umntwana ukuqina, ukuba benze ntoni? Siye safumanisa ukuba abantwana lonke ixesha baleka, xhuma, ukukhwaza baza balila. Zazinjalo amandla kakhulu namandla, ukuba zigugile imini yonke, ngokuhlwa bawele ngaphandle imilenze. Kodwa ke kukho abathile abantwana ababonakala soze ukudinwa. Benza ixakeke kakhulu ekhaya, ngexesha uhambahambe egadini. abantwana abanjalo kuthiwa ukuqina.

Ukuba unayo umntwana nomdlandla, ukuba benze ntoni? Ezi kids akazange ngokukodwa bazame ekukruqulayo abazali babo, badla nje abakwazi yedwa ukumelana nesi sifo. Oogqirha bakugqala nezifo - syndrome of ingqalelo ukungahlaliseki disorder (ADHD).

Abazali kufuneka sikhangele ngokusondeleyo ukuya ukuziphatha komntwana wabo ukususela kwimihla yokuqala yobomi. Uyakwazi nangoko iimpawu zokuqala ADHD, ngoko ke musa ukuzibeka kwaye bayazibuza: ". Umntwana ukuqina into emandiyenze" Nazi ezinye zazo:

• lo ngumntwana ihambisa saso, izenzo zakhe ingalawuleki kwaye ngezwi elingaqondakaliyo, xi nga ukufumana indawo emnandi;
• badla kukhala ngaphandle kwesizathu;
• baby nzima ukulala kwaye uvumbulula phezulu ingxolo encinane;
• umntwana ubuthongo ziyagungqa ze elifutshane;
• ulungelelwaniso abaziintsizana zeentshukumo, umntwana libe lisalele ngasemva kuphuhliso zihlunu oontanga babo (yaye kamva iqala ukuhamba, ukhase, ubambe umva), angenzi kwi iintshukumo zabo;
• emva koko waqalisa ukuthetha kakubi ukhumbula amazwi;
• iminyaka 3-4 baby iyasebenza kakhulu kwaye nochuku kancinane (rhoqo uphosa acazulule zokudlala, akrazule iincwadi), ngokufuthi ayikwazi kunikela ingqalelo into enye okanye umdlalo akuthethi agqibe de kube sekupheleni naliphi na ityala kabukhali ndayeka ukuya komnye umsebenzi.

abantwana ukuqina bafuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Wena umntwana olitshijolo, mandenze ntoni na andazi. Ngaphezu kwako konke, eli takane kufuneka kubekho ulawulo oluchanekileyo kunye engqongqo. Nutrition, balale, imidlalo esebenzayo - wonke kufuneka ibe ngexesha elinye yonke imihla, ngoko umzimba ngokwawo uya kusetyenziswa urhulumente, yaye oko kuya kuba lula ukuba ukumelana nomsebenzi kakhulu.

Ekubeni umntwana nomdlandla ngokuqhelekileyo uyazi Akukho loyiko nentlungu, ngeke kwenzeke ngenxa yezenzo zakhe, zama ukuba ahlawule ingqalelo kukhuseleko olongezelelekileyo. Xa eqalisa ukuhamba kwaye bahlole ihlabathi, asuse zonke izinto "yingozi 'emke lowo umbambezeleyo. Xa ukhula, aqhube incoko ingcaciso. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, bonisa umzekelo. Kodwa nayiphi na imeko, musa ukhale! Ungalungisa zokuyifihla, yaye oku kuya kuphela mandundu. Funda ukuba abazali ukuzola nonyanisekileyo. Better ibinzana ngqo efanayo liphindwe-20, undibetha umntwana.

Kufuneka ndiwulahle umntwana kwindawo ethile amandla zakho neemvakalelo, yaye indlela engcono - oko umdlalo. Myeke ukubaleka, ukuqubha, ukutsiba. Oku kuya kumnceda ukujongana nale meko kwaye abe nempembelelo entle emzimbeni yomntwana. Noko ke, ukudlala esebenzayo ngexesha lasemini kufuneka mzuzu kunye isixando ngakumbi ngokuhlwa izinto. Ngaphambi kokuba balale ngcono ukufunda incwadi, makamamele ibali, geza ngeoli enuka kamnandi. umculo Soft kunye nezibane norhatyazo sincedisa ekuthobeni ingasenza usana.

"Umntwana okonakeleyo, yintoni ntoni?" - eniyicelayo. Umthetho ibalulekileyo - ukuba baqine isigqibo salo yaye ezolile. Musa ukuya kwi malunga iinyembezi kunye nomsindo. Ukuba baxelelwa ukuba ufuna ukususa izinto zokudlala, uze emva koko uye esitratweni, ngoko ke kufuneka. Ukuba uyeka i odangeleyo, umntwana lowo uya kuba lonke ixesha ungafuna ukuhanahanisa.

Kuba ingqondo engcono kunye nophuhliso yesiqhelo, makazibandakanye umntwana awayenomdla imidlalo. Ceba Ibali entsha, ipeyinti, sculpt, hambisa umculo. Zama ukugcina imidlalo mfutshane kwaye unika umdla. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo - sinikele ingqalelo usana lwakho, ngoko uya kukwazi ukulawula uphuhliso kunye nomsebenzi.

Ngoko ke, ukuba wabuza: "umntwana ukuqina, yintoni ntoni?" - uya kuba nako ukuphendula. Kuphela ingqalelo yenu, uthando kunye nomnqweno ukunceda uyakwazi ukwenza izinto maxa wambi kungenzeki. Kodwa khumbula, kwanokuba ukungahlaliseki oyinyaniso - yinto ogulayo, ngoko ngaphandle ngoncedo luvo abafanelekayo unako ukuzenza.