Ukuzala ngumntu ongazi ukuphulaphula

Ngaba udibana nabantu abathintana nabo babonakala bethandekayo? Ndiyakuvuyisana, uyazi i-bore evamile. Akuqhelekanga - yonke indawo. Phakathi kwabo kukho abantu abaninzi abahlakaniphile, okuyihlazo. Emva koko, ukuba loo ngqiqo, kunye nenzuzo yendoda ... Kodwa ke, igama elithi "bore" kufuneka libizwe ngokukhawuleza, libalisa abantu abacaphukisayo.

Kutheni kunjalo?

Ziziphi izizathu zokuziphatha? Isizathu esona siqhelekileyo siyakwazi ukuthetha. Oku kufuthi kubakho kubantu ababazali babo basombulula zonke iingxaki kwaye bayamkela ukuqonda okuphawulekayo. Ngenxa yoko, abantu bafunde ukuthetha ngokucacileyo kunye neenkcukacha, kodwa kwakungekho mfuneko kwabanye - ngoko kwakungekho mfuneko yokunxibelelana. Kwaye kwakungekho mfuneko ukuba ingqalelo ezinye iimfuno zabantu. Ngoko ke, bazali bezingane ezinengqondo, qaphela! Zama ukudala iimeko apho umntwana wakho akakwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo ngaphandle komnye umntu oncedisayo, ngoko kufuneka aphendule ekusebenzisaneni nabanye. Ukuzaliswa ngumntu ongazi ukusebenzisana.

Iimathematika azizange zidlule ngaphandle komkhondo

Abantu abangenabo izakhono zokunxibelelana bafumana isihloko esinjalo esingavumelekanga . Ehlekisayo, babonakala benobuqili kunokuba babenjalo. Isiseko solwazi lwabo asiyinto enhle, kodwa bathetha ngokuzonwabisa kwabo kwaye ... kubangel 'ukuba bayabonakala bekwazi. Ekubeni izifundo ezingaphumelelanga zezibalo kwiingqondo zabanye zikhona iqela: emva kokubandezela, ke, incoko ihlakaniphile. Ukunceda umntu onjalo kunzima ngakumbi kunokuba uvelise ngobuchule.

Uqeqesho lusebenza

Ukuba unamathele kumntu ocebisayo, zama ukumfundisa, njengenja yePavlov. Oko kukuthi, ngenxa yeempendulo ezithandekayo aziphenduli nhlobo. Nje ngokuba awuzange uve. Emva kwexesha, uya kuqonda ukuba izihloko ezithile azihambisani nawe, kwaye abanye baya kuqala ukuxoxa. Okanye, ngokubanzi, baya kufumana ezinye "iindlebe ezikhululekile" ukuba 'zigibele', ezifunwa ngumqathango womsebenzi. Awunayo ukuya kwimpikiswano evulekile, kwaye uzenzele.

Indlela yokwenza ubomi bakho bube lula kuye

I-bore ehlala ibuhlungu obufihliweyo. Emva koko, ngokuqhelekileyo akayisiyatha kwaye ubona ukuba abantu babi naye. Kwaye bambalwa kakhulu abantu bafuna ukuhlala beqineke kwabanye njengokuba kukho udonga. Ngoko ke, ukunyamezela kunokunyangwa ukuba umntu onjalo uyintanda kuwe kwaye yena ngokwakhe ufuna. Kubalulekile ukukhuthaza iingxoxo kwizihloko ezithakazelisayo, ukukhupha iincwadi ezikhanyayo, uchaze ngokucacileyo ukuba awufuni ukuxoxa ngemiba ethile. Ukuba ulwalamano lusondele, kungekudala amaqhinga aya kusebenza.

Qonda izizathu

Umntu onobuqili, onomdla udla ngokucacileyo. Ukucaca, njengoko kuqondwa ngumthwalo onzima, akayi kubandakanywa eyaziwayo. Oko kukuthi, uya kuxelelwa i-twenty-fifth time "iVolga - iyafana nayo yonke into eya kuLwandle lwaseCaspian". Zama ukuqonda into eyenza umntu aziphathe ngendlela engafanelekanga - umxholo wangempela kwisihloko okanye ukuba uyazama ukuza nezihloko zengxoxo, kodwa ayisebenzi. Mhlawumbi unokumnika enye indlela.

I-bore ibona i-diagnostic. Okanye mhlawumbi akufanele uhluthe umntu? Yintoni ongenayo umdla, enye inokuba yinto imfuneko. Kwaye ukuzaliswa kwakho kunokwanelisa imfuno yakho ukuze uqondwe nabanye.