Ukudibanisa: msholimstvo - kuyisono, kwaye ihlazo

Nangona abangakholwayo ngokuqhelekileyo bayazi ngokupheleleyo izono ezifa. Ekugqibeleni, iincwadi kunye ne-cinema zihlala zikhankanya ngazo. Nangona kunjalo, abantu bavame ukulibala ukuba izono aziphelelanga kubantu abathandekayo - baninzi ngaphezu kwe sixhenxe, kwaye izono ezinjalo zibhekwa njengezizathu ezifanelekileyo. Enye into kukuba ubungozi obubangelwa yiyo yinto encinci kwaye idlalwa ngumoni kuye, ngoko ke ezi ngxaki zibhekwa njengento "ebalulekileyo". Ngelo xesha, ezo zigwebo zilahlwa yicawa, kwaye kungekhona nto. Phakathi kwabo kukho uhlobo lwe "mzheloimstvo" - oku kwakhona sisono, kwaye enye, kwindawo yokuqala, iyingozi kumntu ngokwakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe abasondeleyo.

Lithetha ukuthini eli gama?

Imvelaphi yayo inxulumene negama elidala lesiSlavonic "mshhel". Zininzi ukutolika kwalo. Into eqhelekileyo yinto, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uphathwa ngakumbi ngokubanzi, oko kuthetha ityala. Ibandla lithetha ngeli gama ngokuyinzuzo, inzuzo kunye nenzuzo. Ngako oko, kunokuthiwa ngu-mshoydomstvo - izinto, ukuxhomekeka kwezinto, umnqweno wokuzibuthelela, ukuqokelela kwaye nayiphi na imeko ukuba bangazilahleki (nangayiphi na indlela: kungabikho ukuthengiswa, akukho sipho, akukho nto isetyenziswayo, nokuba akukho nto isetyenziswayo, kuba ukuvela kule nto Ukungabi nantoni, kwaye i-memoimets ayinayo loo nto).

Uhlobo lwesono

Icawa elula kakhulu nelingenakubungozi ichazwa njengenkohlakalo. Kule nguqulelo, umoni usenza izifumbathiso kunye nezinto (umzekelo weklastiki "iigreyhound puppies"). Oku kulandela ukuqokelela izipho, kwaye zigcinwe, nangona kungenakudingeka. Umntu uqala ukucela okanye ukunxusa izikhumbuzo ezivela kubanikeli, nangona ufumana into engekho nto. Nangona kunjalo, inketho enzima kunayo yonke, xa mshoydomstvo - kukuhlanganiswa okubuhlungu kwezinto ezilandelelanayo, ukudonsa endlwini nokugcina kuyo yonke into umntu angayifumana. Kwixesha lamaSoviet le ndlela yayibizwa ngokuba yi "Plyushkin's syndrome".

Ekuqaleni indlela ye-mseehoym - isono, eyayicelwa ukuba iinqununu ziqokelele izinto kwiiseli ezingahambisani nomgaqo-mandla. Ngokukodwa kubandakanyeka izinto ezingenayo ixabiso elisebenzisiweyo, okanye ezihlotshisiwe ngokungenasidingo, izinto ezintle zobomi bemihla ngemihla. Nangona kunjalo, ukususela ngaloo ndlela imbono yokuphosakela iye yaveliswa ngokuthe ngandlela-thile kwaye ityhilwa ngokutsha.

Kutheni kuyisono?

Ooyihlo bokomoya banikezela izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni loo mpawu ibalwa njengezono. Eyona nto ingundoqo yabo kukusetyenziswa kakubi kwezinto ngenhloso yazo. Emva kwayo yonke i-mseehoydom - yinto nje yokugcinwa kwezinto eziqokelelweyo, ezithengiweyo okanye ezinikezelweyo ezidalwe ngenjongo yokukhonza abantu. Ukuphulwa kweenjongo kukungayithobeli imiyalelo yeNkosi. Okulandelayo: izinto kufuneka zithengwe xa kuyimfuneko, kungekhona ngenxa yokwanelisa ukuthambekela okubuhlungu. Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu - umntu uyaqhotyoshelana nezinto, uqala ukukhonza kunye nokuzikhethela kwakhe, nangona kufuneka akhonze uThixo. Nantsi kufanelekile ukukhumbuza malunga "ungazenzeli isithixo", kwaye ukuqokelelwa okunjalo okungavinjelwanga kunjengekunqulo lwezithixo ezenziwe ngokufanelekileyo.

Isilwanyana okanye isifo?

Iyeza zanamhlanje zivame ukukholelwa ukuba ukungcola ngenye yeentlobo zesifo sengqondo. Yaye yahlula ngamacandelo amaninzi. Omnye wabo wayebizwa ngokuba yi-pathological accumulation (syllogism). Echaphazelekayo kwesi sifo, abantu baqokelela inani elikhulu lezinto abangazisebenzisiyo. Kwaye ukugqithiswa kwesakhiwo kuya kude kangangokuthi abemi bayo abakwazi ukujikeleza indlu, bengabikho ubomi obusisigxina: sonke isikhala sinezinto ezithile. Uphawu olongezelelweyo lweli sebe lonyango lugqityiweyo lwezinto ezifunyenwe kwisigxina.

Nangona kunjalo, oku akusiyo kuphela ifom edibeneyo. Injongo yeli gama iyahluka ngandlela-thile xa umntu engaqokeleli udoti, kodwa uthenge. Umnqweno onzima wokuthenga rhoqo wawubizwa ngokuthi "shopaholism" kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje. Kwimichiza, oku kuhluka kwe-mashing kubizwa ngokuthi "oniomania." Kuye, akunandaba nomntu, yintoni na kwaye kutheni ukuthenga, ukukwenza nje. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuthenga akusetyenziswanga kamva. Kodwa i-shopaholics inokuthetha ngazo ngeeyure, ngelixa ziyazi ukuba ziphi izitolo kunye nokuba ziphi ixesha apho zithengiswa khona, kwaye zihlala zizibuza ukuba zintoni ezithengayo i-trinket.

Ngokucacileyo, ukugxeka akuyi kuba, ukubulala, ukukrexeza ... Nangona kunjalo, ukuhlala nomntu obunzima ngenxa yesono asinakukhathazeka, kwaye kukhululekile kwaye kuyabiza kakhulu. Ngoko ke ukuba utyalwa ngokungenangqiqo ukuchitha imali okanye ukubuyisela ekhaya nantoni na ongayenza ngaphandle kwayo, cinga: ufuna ukuba mzheloimtsem? Njengoko naluphi na umlutha, kuya kuba nzima ukulahla oku kamva.