Amaxabiso Family - isiseko ibutho

Ngaba wakha wacinga kutheni ezinye iintsapho ezomeleleyo inkxaso, ngoxa abanye bawe ngaphandle kwixesha elifutshane kakhulu kwexesha? Kutheni ezinye iintsapho abantwana babe otywala, kwaye abanye - izazinzulu abaculi? Kutheni abantwana usapho etyebileyo kwaye ebonakala bonwabile kuba izaphuli-mthetho, kusapho ingeniso iphantsi ngaphandle amanani atyalwa kwiingingqi ezahlukeneyo?

Oku akuthethi ngabantu abazizityebi abangekho ukuma kwabo ekuhlaleni. Ukusingatha ukwakha intsapho amandla okanye ukungakwazi, ukuqonda inkqubo yokwakhiwa kwezindlu entsapho.

Koluphi na usapho kufuneka lusekelwe yintoni isizathu? Kakade ke, kufuneka ube uthando nentlonelo, nokuqondana kunye trust. Ukuba la magama ibizwa ligama "izithethe ezixabisekileyo zosapho." Kufuneka abunjwe ekuqaleni entsatsheni apho ukhula umntwana.

Izichazi-magama ukuchaza ingqiqo ka "imilinganiselo zemveli" njengoko iseti izimvo malunga usapho, nto leyo iyalinywa kuluntu ethile. Abantu ezahlukeneyo elime yoluntu, banako.

Ezinye izichazi-magama ukunika inkcazelo emfutshane. Amaxabiso Family - indlela yobomi, ubudlelwane kunye nokuziphatha amalungu entsapho.

Ezi mbono zichaphazela indlela ulwalamano oluhle entsatsheni, usapho iinjongo, iindlela kunye neendlela zemfundo yabantwana, umsebenzi ebalulekileyo amalungu entsapho.

Ngelishwa, ingqikelelo "intsapho" kuxhaphaka ukutshintsha ixabiso layo. Oku ngaphakatyhi iyafumaneka imibutho yoluntu, imitshato ongumgqakhwe, isithembu, efanayo-sex. Ngaba siqwalasela iintsapho zabo? Imibono ziyahluka.

Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba amaxabiso yintsapho eqhelekileyo ixhomekeke kakhulu kwi inkcubeko eluntwini apho intsapho yakhiwa. Ngokomzekelo, inxalenye enkulu zaseNtshona ingqalelo kuphela usapho yenyukliya. Zonke ezinye iindlela zokuphila kunye zithathwa ukuba baziphathe kakubi.

Iinkokeli zonqulo bashumayela zabo, yahlukile eyamkelekileyo, izithethe ezixabisekileyo zosapho, kunye nabameli, umzekelo, bambalwa ngokwesondo - ezabo. A Umzekelo ocacile: ukulungiselela ukwenziwa komthetho yaseFransi imvume ukuba abantwana efanayo-sex izibini.

Kubonakala ukuba azikho amaxabiso usapho eqhelekileyo? Oku akunjalo. Kuyo nayiphi na inkcubeko, naluphi na uhlanga usoloko uxhulumaniso kubaluleke kakhulu luthathwa elidlulileyo izizukulwana, enobuzalwane nomini, uthando, ukuthembeka, ukuzalwa kunye ngumzali.

Ukuba umntwana umntwana uyayazi into izithethe ezixabisekileyo zosapho, ukuba abazali ukuthanda bahloniphane nabanye nabantwana babo, unokuqiniseka ukuba kwixesha elizayo, kakhulu, umntwana uya kukwazi ukwakha intsapho eyomeleleyo.

Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba amabali kuphela kunye nokuziphatha akayi kuba nako ukuphakamisa umntu intsapho elungileyo. Umntwana akwanelanga ukuva malunga sifanele siphile njani, oko kufuneka bayiqonde. Umele Uyawubona lo umzekelo abazali babo. Ubuxoki, ukuzenzisa, nantlonelo abazali kakuhle nangawathembanga ngayo nje kuphela abantu, kodwa kwakhona ukuba izithethe ezixabisekileyo zosapho ngokubanzi.

Mandinazise ukuba kwilizwe lethu kukho imithetho abazazisayo amaxabiso usapho nokuchaza nendima intsapho ekuphuhliseni uluntu. Noko ke, kwenkcazo ingqiqo umthetho akavumeli. Ke umntu lowo ekusasazeni ulwazi phakathi kwabantwana, bemkhanyela iinqobo usapho ezikhuthaza nantlonelo abazali okanye izalamane zohlwaywe.