Ngubani ozazisa: indlela yokuziphatha

Ngubani ozazisa, kwaye uyintoni umahluko wakhe kwi-extrovert? Okwangoku, kukho iingcamango ezininzi malunga ne-extraversion kunye nokuqaliswa kweengqondo zengqondo. Okuqhelekileyo kwintsimi ye-psychoanalysis yombono kaKarl Gustave Jung, osebenza kwimisebenzi yakhe wathi umntu ogqithiseleyo ngumntu olawula amandla akhe kwihlabathi elikujikelezile. Ukwazisa, ngokuchaza kwakhe, ngumntu olawula amandla kwihlabathi elingaphakathi. UHans Eysenck, ethatha isiseko sengcamango yeJung, wongezelela inkcazo yokungena kunye ne-penchant yeentloni kunye namandla aphantsi okulungelelanisa uluntu.

Ngubani ozazisayo : ukungafani okuvela kwi-extrovert

I-Introvert inezinto ezilandelayo:

- Ifuna ukuzimela rhoqo, ithatha indawo ekhuselayo, ngokungafani ne-extrovert, othe tyekele "ukujoyina" ihlabathi langaphandle kunye nembonakalo yalo.
"Uhlangabezana neemeko" ngaphakathi kuye, "uthembela yena ngokwakhe oko akufumene. Ngokwahlukileyo, umntu othungelayo uhlala eshumayela ngokuhlangeneyo ngamava ngokuthetha rhoqo nabantu.

Kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeentetho: inzwa kunye nenembile.

Ukuvakalisa ukuvakalisa

Iimpawu eziphambili: ukunyanzelisa, ukuhamba ngeenyawo (ngokukodwa, ayithandi ukukhawuleza, ukuphepha ukuthatha ixesha elide). Loo mntu unako ukugxila ngokupheleleyo kumsebenzi omnye, ngamanye amaxesha uphinde alahleke ithuba lokutshintsha kwexesha elizayo kunye nokungaphumeleli. Ukuze ukuvalelwa, ukulungiswa ekhaya nakwindawo yokusebenzela kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba unethambekele ekuzimeleyo nakubunxungu. Ukhetha i-sciences echanekileyo: i-accountant, i-mathematician-ngamanye amazwi, akayeki kwifilosofi nakwi-theorist, nangona idatha yesayensi ingaxhomekeke kuye. Ngokuqhelekileyo unako ukuncitshiswa, kodwa akusoloko ukwazi ukubona umfanekiso ngokubanzi. Ekusebenzeni, ukhetha ukuba ube phantsi, ucinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukufumana imiyalelo ecacileyo nemiyalelo.

Intuitive introvert

Ngokungafani nentsingiselo ekhankanyiweyo ngasentla, umntu olo hlobo unako ukuqonda umfanekiso ngokubanzi, kwaye unokukwazi ukwenza izinto eziliqela kwangoko. Ukongezelela, ukhetha ukugxila kwikamva, ngelixa ihlala ilahleka iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo. Unqwenela, ukungagxininisi kwaye kwinqanaba elithile, mhlawumbi, yizona zinto zibalaseleyo zobunjani obunjani obunjani lobuntu.

Ngubani ozazisa: njani ukumisa umnxeba naye?

Kwinqanaba layo, nayiphi na i-introvert ngumntu ozolile kwaye okhuselekileyo okhusela indawo yakhe. Ngoko ke, akufanele umemele ukuba a tyelele, kodwa ukuba ufumene isimemo esivela kuye - musa ukukhawuleza kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ungathinti nantoni ngaphandle kwemvume yakhe, nangona kungenjalo. Xa usebenzisana nezoshishino, kufuneka ukhunjulwe ukuba ungumntu "oya kuqonda" ngokukhawuleza: musa ukukopela kunye naye okanye ukuxoka. Xa usebenzisana naye kufuneka ube nobubele obukhulu. Yithi, kumbuzo ongalunganga: "Ngubani na lo?" - i-introvert iya kuphakamisa iinki zakhe ngokumangalisa kwaye, mhlawumbi, ithatha umhlalaphantsi. Ngobuhlobo naye kufuneka ukhumbule: indawo eyakhekileyo yalomntu ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngako oko, umntu akafanele alindele kuye imilayezo eqhubekayo kunye nezicelo zeentlanganiso, emva koko, emva kokuthetha nabantu, ufuna ixesha lokubuyisela amandla akhe.