Ukuzifeza, Psychology
Umona Uhlobo loMntu
Inomona njengomgangatho womntu - ukutyekela ukungazineliseki, ukukrakra kunye nentlungu evela kwintlalo kunye nempumelelo yomnye, ukufisa ukuthatha inzuzo yolonwabo lomnye umntu, ukuziva ukuba omnye umntu uye walahla imeko yezinto eziphathekayo kunye nolonwabo.
Kwakukho iHave enye phakathi kweehares. Unogwaja amaninzi amjonga kuye: ngokukhawuleza kunokuba ngubani na ongasensimini akazange asebenze! Kubonakala kuphila kuye kwaye ujabule, kodwa ... I-hare yayimona umona nge-Turtle. "Nangu uhlala! Lapha uhlala! Ucinga ngo Hare. - Unomngxuma kwimva yakhe egqoke! Wayekrazula intloko yakhe nemilenze - kwaye wayesele esekhaya. Ewe, yintoni imingxuma! Unamandla njengelitye, kunye nomzekelo. Owe, kwaye inhlanhla yintlanzi i-Turtle! .. "Kwaye yonke indawo u-Hare wahlambalaza i-Turtle, kwaye yonke indawo wayithuka ngayo, yaxelela ngaye zonke iintlobo zamabali, zamhleka. Wade wagula ngenxa yomona. "Yintoni na kuwe?" - Wabuza i-Hare Squirrel. - Kutheni ufa? "Ngenxa ye-Turtle ehlaseleyo," kusho u-Hare. "Andiyi kumbona, uyandichukumisa kakhulu!" Yeyiphi imingxuma emhlane wakho! Ngomzekelo ... kwaye i-Turtle ngaphezu kwanoma ubani, inomona umlotha, onokugijima ngokukhawuleza.
Umona kukungqubuzana kwezinto ezimbini zobuxoki. Xa umntu eqhutyelwa ukuzingca nokuzincama, yena, ukuphishekela iminqweno yakhe, uya kuhlala ejongene neminqweno yabanye, kungekhona ukuba isiqondiso sabo siya kuhambelana. Kunoko, ngokuchasene - iinjongo zakhe kunye neminqweno iya kukhuphisana neminqweno yabanye. Ngelinye igama, xa i-ego emibini ibhikisana kwibhola yokuhaha, ukukhwelezela, ukuzaliswa, ukukhwabanisa, ukugxeka, ukukhathazeka nokunganeliseki, kukhethwe. Ukuphila ngokwakho kuthetha ukuthintela abanye ukuba baphile. Ngenxa yoko umona, kunye nomsindo wakhe nenzondo. Kuphi na icala akuhambelani nomona, ukuzingca kunye nokuzikhethela kuyo yonke indawo.
Abantu abanobugwenxa bathi inkohlakalo kukuba into ehlabathini enye i-frazzled, ukuba umona ungumgangatho wabantu abangaqhelekanga kwaye awukwazi ukufihla okanye ukufihla. Ndiza kubakhoxeka. Umntu oye waqhayisa iziqheno, ngokukodwa kwiindlela ezinjalo zobonakaliso njengokuzikhukhumeza, ukuziqhayisa nokugxeka, kuba ngumntu onoyolo olusulungekileyo ngenqweno yentliziyo. Zigwebe wena, ukuba umntu akahlali, akayikuziqhayisa ngeempumelelo kunye nempumelelo yakhe kwaye akhuphe ngaphandle kokuthetha kwakhe inqaku elincinci lokugxeka, lithetha into enye kuphela - akukho mona kuye. Kodwa, njengoko uMarko Twain wabhala: "Abaninzi bethu banokuthwala ulonwabo - kuthetha, ulonwabo lommelwane".
Ziziphi izinto ngomona wabantu abalungileyo? Umntu osikelelekileyo, ekubonile into engalunganga kwimpumelelo yabanye, inqanda umnqweno wokugxekwa kwaye, ngaloo ndlela, ufezekisa isimo sengqondo esingafanelekanga. Xa edibana nomntu ofanelekileyo, uzama ukufunda kuye isithunzi, ubuchule, izakhono kwaye akafuni ukuba alahlekelwe nguye. Okubalulekileyo, oku kunomona, kodwa, njengoko bethetha, mhlophe, nomona ngomona. Ukuba nomona ngobuhle nokuyikopisha, uya kuba ngumhle. Ukungabi nomona kwizinto ezinqwenelekayo kukhethiweyo kwaye kunemiqathango, akayikukhwelela kuphela abantu abasondeleyo, kodwa uyabonelela bonke abantu. Ngamanye amazwi, libandakanya ukukhohlisa nokuzilungisa. Umuntu ongenalwazi angabonisa ukungakhethi ngenxa yokuba engayazi intliziyo yolonwabo. Umlutha weziyobisi kunye nomnxila angeke abe nomona ngomculi wezomculo osebenza emsebenzini kaHaydn. Abayiqondi le nto.
Ngokomzekelo, ummelwane uthenge imoto entsha, kwaye umntu onomona unomsindo kunye nentlungu ngentliziyo yakhe. Kuba nzima ukuba aphile, kunzima ukuphefumula, kuba i- Jaba igxeka. Umona kukungafuni ukuhlala ubomi bakhe. Ukuba nomona musa ukukhula ngamandla, kodwa ukugqabhuka. Imvakalelo yenzondelelo ivakalelwa kwinqwelo elincinci ngumnikazi weMercedes. Ngenxa yobuxoki, akukho mgama. Unomona umhlobo okanye umhlobo osekupheleni komhlaba, kwaye ugobe lwakhe lobuxoki luya kuba nomona kwisibini esahlukileyo. I-ego yobuxoki yommelwane iya kuqala ukugqithisa kwisignali efunyenweyo yomona, kwaye uya kuqala ukuziva engathandeki kuwe. Awuzange uthethe elinye igama elibi ngaye, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ulwalamano lwakho luye lwaphulukana nokuhlaselwa komona. Ego ezimbini zaqala ukudibanisa, ukudibanisa ukungaxhamli phakathi kwebhola. Emva koko ugosa lobuxoki luqala ukukrazula i-ego yamanga yenye. Ukusebenzisana kweziganeko ezimbini zobuxoki kukhwele. Ngelinye igama, umona awudingi oonxibelelwano ngqo, ukulwa, ama-scandals kunye nokuthuka. Kubi ngokwaneleyo ukucinga okanye ukuvakalisa into yokuba nomona, kwaye uphuma njengomtyholi ngaphandle kwebhokisi lokukhusela.
Indoda enomona igubungela, kwaye isikhalaza komnye ummelwane: "Akukuphela kwento endiyithenge yona, umqhubi, andiyazi ukuba imoto iyintoni na, kwaye iyayifaka emnyango. Musa ukudlula, ungadluli. " - "Ngoko unayo imoto," ummelwane uthi, kukuthintela ntoni na? "-" Kwaye, njengoko ndiyibonayo, isimo sengqondo sosuku lonke silahlekile. Ndifuna ukuxhoma. Kutheni kukho enye into, ngelixa abanye behlala bedlula irejista yemali? Njengoko wayehleli emotweni, ngoko akayithethi, akayiboni umntu njengomntu. " Yona indlela umona osebenza ngayo, ukutshabalalisa umntu kunye nokubangela ukuba ahlupheke.
Ukucaphukisa nokudabuka kuvele kuphela ngenxa yomona. UDemocritus wathi: "Indoda enomona ibangela intlungu kuye, njengotshaba lwakhe." Ukuba akukho mona kumntu, umona womntu awunako. Kwi-hellish cauldron yomona, ukhokho wakhe uzaliswa ngokuthe ngqo. Indlela efanelekileyo yokunciphisa umona kukuba ukwenza okulungileyo ngokumalunga nomntu onomona, ngamandla akhe onke ukumnqwenela ulonwabo. Ukuzama ukwenza umbono waseMadrid, ukuba akukho nto eyenzekayo-kuthetha ukukhuthaza ukukhula okubanzi komona.
Inzondo ayamkeli amangalelwa kwidilesi yayo, ihlala ihlala njalo kunye nayo yonke into eyiyo. Ukumqinisekisa ngolu msebenzi kaMartyshkin. Abantu bathi: "Izinja zakho zilwa - ungasondeli mzini". Xa ukuphikisana kwembini, ukucinga ukuba yiyiphi into efanelekileyo, umntu wesithathu akafanele athathe icala, nokuba ulungile. Inyaniso kukuba abantu abahlelelekile baya kuba nomona ngokuphathelele ukuba ngubani oye waphakama kwelinye icala. Kukho ukuphazamiseka: baxabana baze babalekela, kwaye lowo uthatha icala kwicala elinye ufumana amanqatha kwaye akanakuxolelwa. Umona kuye zasyadet, njengeva entliziyweni yomntu okhubekileyo.
Umona onomona uthanda ukuzithelekisa, ukuphila kwakhe nabanye abantu. Ukuthelekiswa kwaba ngumkhuba kuye. Ekubeni "phantsi kwelifu" lokuthelekisa liphumelele ngakumbi, kodwa ngoku kutshanje bekunqanaba elifanayo kunye nomona, abantu, kulula ukuqiqa oko kuya kuba kukutshisa ukungazineliseki. Umntu onomona ufanele uqhathanise imeko yakhe yangoku kunye neyokuqala, ngoko bekungeze kube nomona. Amalungelo kunye nesalathiso esilumkileyo se-Afrika: "Amachiza enkanuko - entlango."
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