Indawo Personal - ukuthatha unonophelo wena nokuhlonipha abanye

indawo Personal indawo ekhethekileyo okuhlukana ihlabathi ngaphandle kwethu. It is a uhlobo iqokobhe yokhuselo, nto leyo evumela ukuba uzive imida bangobani aze abakhusele.

Ekuqaleni, oku kufuna nje isilwanyana - sokumisela intsimi yabo kwaye ngandlela zonke ukuba awukhusele ekuhlaselweni. Kodwa abanye, le mfuneko kwakhona langoku - kwinqanaba yemfuza. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba simanyene kananjalo yobudlelwane nabanye, isithuba yabucala umntu ngokoqobo nje kuphela, nendawo, kodwa lwentlalo.

indawo yabo, sisoloko 'abaziphethe "kwaye madolw' anzima kakhulu vumela nabaqhekezi. Xa gqira emva kwinkulungwane yokugqibela umkhwa omtsha - proxemics, eyayiphanda iziganeko non-ngomlomo, apho abantu basebenzisa ukunxibelelana ezikuyo.

Ngokwalo mbono, unako ukwabelana lonke unxibelelwano zaloo mntu kwimimandla emine engundoqo, imida zigqitywa iqondo zeze- ukho phakathi kwabantu. Umthetho esisiseko sokunxibelelana kwenziwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo: umgama phakathi kwabantu kuxhomekeka umgama phakathi kwabo.

1. Zone ubuhlobo

Rapprochement abe ukusuka cm-15 ukuya kwezingama-45. Le yeyona ndawo ibalulekileyo, apho Imida elimgcinayo kakhulu ngomona. Kule ndawo sivumela kuphela bantu basondeleyo, sabelana wayezazi okanye kobudlelwane kunye nosapho. Kufakwe ngabantu nabo siye saseka umfowunelwa kakhulu athandana ngokweemvakalelo, okanye ngaba nje sifuna ukuseka i uxhulumaniso onjalo kunye nabo. Ngoko xa ingqalelo ngokupheleleyo umntu othile ngoxa ukunxibelelana naye, engafuni ukuba ngokusondeleyo kangangoko kulo.

Kweli hlabathi enabantu abaninzi, sonke kaninzi kakhulu ukuba bavume kwindawo yabo ubuhlobo abasemzini - kwezothutho zoluntu, ngokuhambelana kwi yokubonela movie okanye holo yekonsathi. Ngelo xesha sibe nexhala ienjini ngenxa yokusondela ngokugqithiseleyo abanye. Enyanisweni - wakuphendula ukuba imemori generic ukuba alatha ingozi, "Lumkani, oku ungowasemzini." Ngoko ke, ukunqanda neurosis eqhelekileyo ngenxa yobomi esixekweni uze ungabi sisizekabani ndlongo maqondana ngokwabo nabanye, kufuneka bathobele imithetho embalwa: Zama ukuba angamchukumisi yesihlwele esixhonteleyo, ukuze ukuqwalasela abasemzini elide, oko kukuthi, ukuba akathathi imigaqo esisiseko unxibelelwano non-ngomlomo.

2. I-personal loze Zone

Kuhlangana eliphezulu kule ndawo isusela esiqingatheni imitha ukuya kwi-80 cm, oko kukuthi - ngaphakathi ubude ingalo yakhe. Kule ndawo sisamkela abantu eziqhelekileyo nabo abangenayo ulwalamano ezikhethekileyo zobuqu. Umzekelo, oku kuquka abantu nabo sinxibelelana embadleni, embadleni nakumatheko asekuhlaleni.

Ubuncinane ukuhlangabezana kule ndawo -. Ukuze 130 cm, umzekelo, sinxibelelana nabahlobo, ukudibana nabo endleleni.

3. zone nabanga-

Kuhlangana eliphezulu kule ndawo ibe kwisiqingatha ukuya kwiimitha ezimbini, kunye zoqhagamshelwano ezincinci - ukusuka iimitha isiqingatha ezimbini ukuya emithathu. Lo mgama ivumela sikwazi ukuncokolisana kakuhle ukusombulula iingxaki zoshishino. Ezi ziquka nabo inkonzo (evenkileni, iposi, njalo-njalo), iintlanganiso esibaziyo nje xa iziganeko ezahlukeneyo.

4. Distance Social

Le ndawo ikhona kwisithuba emithathu enesiqingatha ukuya amahlanu eemitha kude umntu yaye umgama yakudala unxibelelwano phakathi utitshala kunye nabafundi bakhe, abangaphantsi abaziintloko, ootitshala kunye nabafundi.

Le into enxulumene ngqo kumgama lwendawo bekhululekile xa kuthelekiswa omnye umntu. Kodwa ingqikelelo indawo yobuqu abe sisidalwa nje ekuhlaleni, kwaye ukuchaza imida ngamnye - imikhwa, izinto ezithandwayo, ixesha lobuqu, ezifihlakeleyo, ubulolo. Oku kubaluleke ngoku khethekileyo indoda nomfazi uhlangane, xa behlala kunye, ukwakha intsapho. Amaxesha amaninzi ubuhlobo bayahlukana ngenxa nje elinye iqabane uba "kakhulu", ngoko abanye ukuba ukuyeka, ukuze bazive emdeni wakhe ubuntu kwakhona.

Indlela ukugcina isithuba lobuqu kulwalamano, ubuhlobo kunye nenkululeko Bahlala ngoxolo phantsi kophahla olunye? Kufutshane kuthetha ukunyaniseka omnye komnye, uxanduva kunye nomnqweno ukunceda iqabane lakho. Kwaye kuthetha ntoni inkululeko kule meko?

Okokuqala, kufuneka ixesha elithile ukuchitha bebodwa. Umzekelo, kusenokuba ixesha elichithwa zokuzonwabisa okanye uphuhliso lobuqu.

Okwesibini, nkqu endlini ekwabelwana, ngamnye kufuneka abe kwikona yayo, apho unokuba wedwa.

Okwesithathu, umntu akakwazi yenziwe iqabane phandle ngokupheleleyo zonke iingcinga kunye neziganeko yobomi bakhe. indawo Personal yoniwa ngokufunda iincwadi abanye abantu, ngokumba ifowuni ngeenxa esweni iwotshi, apho wayesenza, oko kudla kunye neqabane lakho ucinga ngalo mzuzu.

Person andiyithandi kakhulu evakalelwa ukuba "zinyamalale" iqabane lakhe. Kwaye ngendlela efanayo "ezinyibilikayo 'kwakhona yingozi ngenxa yabo abanyulwa, kunye nayo, yaye yena, ukuba alahlekelwe ngalo naliphi na ixesha ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ngoko ke, ungalahli wena uze uhloniphe isithuba lobuqu babo ababathandayo.