Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuthatha umntwana emangcwabeni - iimpawu, iimpawu kunye neziphakamiso

Ukuhamba kwiindawo zamangcwaba kukuvavanya kakhulu kunye nesiganeko esibi kakhulu ebomini komntu omdala. Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngabantwana abathile maxa wambi bavelele le ndawo eliliweyo, behamba nabazali babo ngemihla yokukhunjulwa kweentsapho ezifayo okanye emngcwabeni. Namhlanje siza kuthetha malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka ukuthatha umntwana emangcwabeni. Ukuphendula lo mbuzo, siya kuxhomekeka kwiimbono zeengqondo zengqondo, abafundisi kunye nabadlali be-esotericist.

Iintsuku zokukhunjulwa

Ukuba sithelekisa i-psyche yomntu omdala kunye nomntwana, kuyaqatshelwa ukuba lo mva usengozini kakhulu. Ngako oko, zibuza ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuthatha abantwana abancinci kumangcwaba, kubalulekile ukuchazela ukuba ngaba uhambo luyimfuneko. Kufanelekile ukucinga malunga nokuba kunokwenzeka yini ukushiya umntwana kunye nomntwana okanye izalamane kwaye u tyelele i-churchyard ngaphandle kwakhe.

Imingcwabo

Ukunikezela umngcwabo womntu othandekayo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngokomzwelo akukwaneli kubo bonke abadala. Kodwa ngabazali abathile kwimpendulo yombuzo wokuba kungenzeka yini ukuthatha umntwana emangcwabeni, unike iziphakamiso ezilandelayo: umntu osondeleyo ufile, kufuneka afune ukuthetha. Iingcali zengqondo zithi: ingqondo yengane yinto engaqondakaliyo, akunakuqondakala ukuba umntwana unokusabela njani kumngcwabo.

Ukongeza, kude kube ngumdala othile, abantwana abahluli kuzo zonke iindidi ezifana "nokufa" kunye "nobomi." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umntwana akanakho ukuqonda ukuba kwenzekani. Akunakwenzeka ukuba inkunzi iyayiqonda intlekele yimeko. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubukho emngcwabeni buya kwenza ukuba uqaphele ukuba umthandayo akayi kuphinda aphinde abe khona. Oko kukuthi, i-crumb iza kuba nolwazi oluthile malunga neengqungquthela zesiseko ngokufanelekileyo kwinkqubo yomngcwabo. Emva koko, kungekudala okanye kamva uya kuba nombuzo malunga nokufa kwabantu abakujikelezile okanye mhlawumbi ngokufa kwakhe.

Impawu yengqondo yengane yomntwana

Ukuba impendulo yombuzo "inokwenzeka ukuthabatha umntwana emangcwabeni" uphendule ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyimfuneko ukukhusela umntwana kwiintshutshiso zamagama. Akufanele abe khona kwinkonzo yokungcwaba yomntu othandekayo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntu omdala abe kufuphi nomntwana - oku kuya kwenza ukuba azive ekhuselekile. Olunye ubunzima kukuba abantwana abaqondi kakuhle ukuba kutheni umzimba olele ebhokisini awunasiphelo kwaye, ngaphezu koko, awusekho umntu ongokoqobo. Kwezinye iimvuthu ukungaqondi kakuhle kunokubangela nokuba uphambuke kwengqondo!

Imingcele yobudala

Iingcali ezifunda impilo yengqondo yabantwana zithi abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala abanakuze bathathwe emangcwabeni. Akunakukwazi ukuyiqonda yonke into ebalulekileyo yokunyusa. Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuthabatha umntwana emangcwabeni ukuba sele sele efikelele kwixesha elide? Impendulo yalo mbuzo ibonakele kakhulu, bonke ngabanye. Kwamanye abantwana, i-worldview ivele iqalwe ngu-8-9 ubudala, ngelixa kuninzi nakwiminyaka yobunzima kunzima.

Ngamanye amaxesha oomama abancinci banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wokuba kunokwenzeka ukuthatha umntwana emangcwabeni. Iingcali zinikeza impendulo engabonakaliyo: akukho nanye. Ingane idinga ukunakekelwa rhoqo, idinga ukunakekelwa. Umntu omdala oza kuzithiya umntu othandayo akayi kuba nethuba elifanelekileyo - uya kuhlala ehlala ezandleni zakhe, ujonge impilo yakhe kunye nomoya. Abantwana abaselula banokukhawuleza, banokungathobeli, banokukhala. Ngaba ndingathatha umntwana oneminyaka elilodwa ukuya emangcwabeni? Ukuba awuyikwesaba i-whims ngakwakhe - yithathe. Cinga nje into enye: awukwazi ukushiya i-crumb enye ngomzuzu!

Ngaloo ndlela, izazi kunye neengqondo ziphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba umphefumlo ongenamdla, "ohambahamba" emangcwabeni, unokungena kumntwana. Cacisa ngokucacileyo: umntwana akakhuseli kumbane onjalo. AmaMages athi angatshintsha ngokuphawulekayo ubomi bomntu omncinci, kwaye amaninzi amaninzi ayengcono. Ngoko ke, ngendlela, bayayiphendula impendulo embi kumbuzo wokuba kungenzeka yini ukuthatha umntwana ongabhaptizwanga emangcwabeni. Enyanisweni, abameli beCawa yaseOrthodox yaseRussia abaxhasi lo mbono. Naliphi na umKristu okholwa ngokwenene uya kuthi umphefumlo womntu oshonile awukwazi ukuvela emangcwabeni, ayikho yawo. Okokuthi, umntwana usongela nantoni na.

Ukulungele ukutyelela i-churchyard

Ukuba umntwana ubonise umnqweno wokuhamba nawe ukuqhuba isihlobo kwindlela yokugqibela, kuyimfuneko ukuqhuba umsebenzi wokulungiselela. Njengengxenye yengxoxo echazayo, kufuneka afunde ukuba ngethuba lomngcwabo, abantu banokukhala nokukhala - kwaye oku kuqhelekileyo kwimimiselo yokungcwaba. Umntwana ongalindelekanga unokwesaba kakhulu okanye aphethwe ngumsindo. Ukukhala ngokukhawuleza kwabathandekayo kunokususa i-phobias kunye neuroses, unyango oluza kuthatha unyaka omnye.

Ukuba ngaba abazali baphendule ngokuqinisekileyo umbuzo wokuba kunokwenzeka ukuthatha umntwana emangcwabeni, kufuneka balungiselele ukuba umntwana ufuna ukubeka iliso rhoqo. Emva kwakhe kufuneka kubekho umntu oya kumchazela into eyenzekayo okanye ukuthabatha nje emangcwabeni, ukuba uyacaphuka okanye akhathele.

Imigaqo yokuziphatha

Akunangqiqo ukuba uqhelane nemigaqo yokuziphatha kule ndawo elilayo:

• Awukwazi ukwenza isandi kwaye ugijime malunga namangcwaba;
• Musa ukude nabazali okanye nootatomkhulu;
• Thatha kwizinto ezingaqhelekanga okanye amathoyizi, nazo, ayimfuneko;
• Akuvumelekile ukuba kuthathe nayiphi na into evela emhlabeni.

Amangcwaba aphatha

Abazali abaninzi babuza umbuzo othi: "Ngaba abantwana bangathatha i-candy emangcwabeni?" Masizame ukuqonda!

Abakhonzi beCawa yama-Orthodox bathi: iilekese kunye ne-cookies kumangcwaba yinto ehamba phambili yamahedeni. Ukuwayeka emangcwabeni akufanelekanga, kungcono ukunika ukutya kumahlwempu. I-Esotericism iyakuthi: thatha ukutya emangcwabeni kungekho nto inokwenzeka! Emva koko, nayiphi into ekhoyo kwindawo yamangcwaba inamandla amakhulu. Nangona umntu omdala angakwazi "ukuthabatha" iingxaki, makungabikho umntwana omncinci.

Ingane ayifuni ukuya emngcwabeni.

Kuthekani ukuba abantwana bayenqaba ukuya emangcwabeni? Musa ukubanyanzelisa okanye uzame ukubenza bazive benetyala! Ukuba umntwana akakulungeli ngaphakathi kwintlanganiso yokuyeka, ubeka engozini kakhulu. Nika umntwana ithuba lokuchaza isizathu sokuba engathandi ukwenza. Vumela omncinci uthethe ngeengxaki zakhe zangaphakathi.

Bathi magician

Yaye yintoni na i-psychics kunye needemon xa bethetha lo mbuzo? Okokuqala, amandla okulila ayenayo kule ndawo, anokukhusela ummandla wamandla omntu omncinci. Uxinzelelo kunye noloyiko, into eyenziwa yintwazana, inokunyanzeliswa kwi-churchyard. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantwana abancinci banokukhuselwa ngamandla kwezihlobo zabo. Oko kukuthi, ngelixa unina okanye uyise engasondele kuye, ukhuselekile ngokupheleleyo.

Ngoko, ngaba kungenzeka ukuthatha umntwana emangcwabeni? Iimpawu zithetha ezi zinto zilandelayo: kuqala umntwana kufuneka abe ngumthendeleko ovuyayo, owona mcimbi umtshato!

Esinye isibonakaliso sithi inkwenkwe akufanele ithathe ezandleni zabasemzini, akukho zintlanzi ezintle. Ingcipheko kukuba amangcwaba indawo eyintandokazi yabalimi abamnyama. Bachitha iirekhodi apha, bezama ukutshintsha isiqalekiso, ukugula okanye izono phezu komntu ofileyo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfazi omdala omdala uza kumntwana aze amnike i-candy, kufuneka afune.

Iingcamango zabafundisi

Kwincwadi ethi "Ubomi. Izifo. Ukufa "UMasipala oyi-Anthony waseSourozh ubhala ukuba ukufa akudingeki ukuba kufihlwe. Emva koko, iyingxenye yobomi. Umntwana unokukhangela ubuso bomfi, wamanga ebunzini.

Kwaye abanye abafundisi bathi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwintsana kwindlela ethile yomngcwabo kunokuba luncedo. Oku kunceda ukuba ajoyine izithethe, ukuqonda ukuba abathandekayo abafileyo bafanele bakhunjulwe kwaye batyelelwe ngamangcwaba abo. Ukongeza, ifundisa abantwana ukuba baxabise yonke imzuzu yobomi.

Iziphumo

Yintoni enokwenzeka ntoni kumntwana emva kokutyelela i-churchyard? Imvakalelo yakhe, unokunyuka ebomini bokwenene. Ungesabi xa, xa udlala needodoli, umntwana wakho uya kulungiselela umngcwabo kubo. Ngaloo ndlela, usebenzisa amava afumanekayo.

Emva kokundwendwela amangcwaba, musa ukumvumela ukuba umntwana akhohlwe ukuba unomhlobo osondeleyo. Xoxa kwizinto ezithandayo, xelela ngezinto ezithandekayo zobomi. Ngosuku lokukhumbula ukufa, tyelela ibandla kunye nosana, uze kumangcwaba eeholide zeeholide. Yaye uzama ukuphendula ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngokunyanisekileyo imibuzo evela kumntwana ngokuphila nokufa, ukuba ivela.