Incoko kunye nabazali kwi "umntwana wakho"

Phambi kokuba afikelele ebudaleni wabantwana abathathu bachitha ixesha elininzi basondele umama. Yeyona abazali abandakanyeke ixesha lokuba bafumane uqeqesho yamalungu elizayo oluntu. Xa umntwana esiya abancinane, ukunceda umama kunye abazali beze nabanonopheli babantwana. Esikolweni ngokuthi indima ebalulekileyo edlalwa ngootitshala. Ukususela intsebenziswano eyiyo phakathi kwamaqela ixhomekeke kwindlela umntu esiya ekhula, uya sibaphathe ngayo abanye. Thetha nabazali - ifomu ebalulekileyo lonxibelelwano, nto leyo eza kunceda ukuchonga iingxaki entsatsheni. Kunye notitshala okanye kwisayikholojisti, umama kunye notata benza yonke into sophuhliso eqhelekileyo umntwana.

Ukuziqhelanisa for enkulisa

Ukutyelela enkulisa - isigaba esitsha yaye kunokuba nzima kubomi wosana kunye nabazali bakhe. Indlela kakuhle umntwana uya kuthatha ixesha hlengiso, kuxhomekeke kuphuhliso olungaphezulu kunye nonxibelelwano kunye noontanga. Ngoko ke, incoko yokuqala kunye nabazali bakhe enkulisa mawuqwalasele ukuze yokulungiselela ikamva umntwana Ukuya epriskuli. Ootitshala kunye kwengqondo kufuneka ukudibana oomama kunye abazali kweenyanga ezimbalwa phambi kokuba umntwana aqale ukuya abancinane.

Ekuqaleni ootitshala uthole kufuneka sifumane ukuba uzimele, nelebhokhwe elinye. Xa nursery umntwana kufuneka ukuya embizeni, ukuba akwazi ukubamba ngecephe. Xa iminyaka emithathu, asingabo bonke abantwana abakwaziyo ukuthetha. Kodwa ukwenza izakhono ezisisiseko - Umsebenzi abazali. Kungenxa yoko le nto incoko kunye nabazali bakhe enkulisa ebanjwe kwangaphambili. Ukuba umntwana lowo akanako ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese okanye akakwazi ukondla ngokwakhe, kufuneka afundise unina wakhe.

Ezibaluleke kakhulu kwakhona ekulungiseleleni nasengqondweni. Umntwana kufuneka azi apho iziko uya khona. Zengqondo ukucebisa ukwazisa usana ukuya nursery kwangaphambili. Unakho ukuza kwisiza e pre-school, ixesha ku tirhisa apha guys abadala. Kwakhona, abazali kufuneka bathethe nabantwana babo. Omama kufuneka ndithi kuni kuya kwakhiwa ngayo Usuku waBantwana, xa uza kuqala ukuya abancinane. Akukho mfuneko ukufihla into yokuba usana ukuchitha ixesha kwiziko ngaphandle umama.

abazali amaphutha

Abanye abantwana ngokukhawuleza apha naphaya preschools, abanye unyaka ekhala, nje ibinzana elithi "enkulisa". Kwaye ngenxa kwimeko yesibini, abazali bayavuma eziliqela iimpazamo zokuzilungiselela yomntwana ubomi obutsha. Iingxoxo kunye nabazali kwi kokuya esikolweni kufuneka kukugubungela izihloko ezinxulumene indlela mhla usana. Ukuba umntwana oqhele ukuya kulala 23:00 kwaye ndivuka ngentsimbi 10:00, kuya kuba nzima ukuba ukufunda ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ndakuva ukunyuka ekuqaleni umntwana uya kuba abangenazigqibo, kwaye iinkampu egadini uya enxulumene nale yindinisa. Lungelelanisa indlela umfundi kokuya esikolweni elizayo kuyimfuneko iinyanga eziliqela.

iintlawulo Fast - enye impazamo abazali mihla. Omama sokukholelwa ukuba ukwenza into elungileyo, ukuba unike umntwana wakho ithuba waya kulala kwindoda elidana kusasa. Noko ke, uninzi amaziko pre-school kuyimfuneko ukuba sifike 9:00 kusasa. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka khawuleza ukunxiba usana. Luvo, kungekuphela nje usana kodwa unina. Ngelo xesha nye akanaxesha ngenxa yokuba iling'awukazi, nto leyo usana oluyimfuneko ukuze ngaphambi yokulahlekelwa kunye nabazali babo ukuba imini.

Ngexesha iincoko kunye nabazali, iisayikholojisti bacebisa ixesha kunikwa ukuba umntwana kusasa. Oku kukuvumela ukuba uyitshaje iibhetri zakho ngenxa imini, njengoko umntwana kakhulu nonina. Isisa - into ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso evumelanayo ubuntu.

Ukusebenza kunye neentsapho ezihlelelekileyo

Iintsapho kunye ebezikade ekuhlaleni, apho amalungu abadala ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo abakwazi ukumelana noxanduva lwabo, zithathwa ukuba namfundo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, ikakhulu kuchaphazela abantwana. Ukuba itakane uqala ukuya kokuya esikolweni, ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuchonga ngokulula phakathi kwabanye. umntwana vurhongo, iye onombilini ultra-high, lukhona. Amaxesha amaninzi aba bantwana i amanyathelo ezimbalwa emva kuphuhliso, musa ukubonisa izakhono zobomi, andazi ukuba ukuthetha ngayo.

Kukho iindlela ezininzi ziphembelela oomama nootata abangenazo ukumelana noxanduva lwabo. Umsebenzi kuphela lootitshala pre-school, kodwa iinkonzo zentlalo. Incoko kunye nabazali kakuhle - indlela eziluncedo impembelelo. Ekuqaleni, iingcali ukukhuthaza izithethe ezixabisekileyo zosapho kunye yokuphila esempilweni. Qiniseka ukuba ukuxelela abazali abahlelelekileyo, yintoni ukungahoywa ngakumbi kuphuhliso yesiqhelo umntwana kunokubangela. Ukuba iingxoxo abanjalo ukunika iziphumo ezidibanisayo, "embi" oomama nootata wathumela kunyango ezinyanzelekileyo kakubi kweziyobisi kunye notywala, ukuba zikhona iingxaki ezinjalo. indawo yokugqibela - le ukuhluthwa amalungelo lobuzali.

Lidla kukho iimeko xa abazali nabaphila yokuphila esempilweni, kodwa ngenxa yeemeko kunye imeko yemali abakwazi ukunika umntwana imfundo ngokupheleleyo. Ekuqaleni, ootitshala kunye kwengqondo zamaziko zabasakhasayo kuyimfuneko ukucacisa imeko apho ukuba intsapho. Thetha nabazali kufuneka kwenziwe kube mnandi. Umama wam Ekuphela kwendlela bephupha ngayo ngengqondo. nentlupheko musa ziyenzeka. Ingcali lubonisa indlela umntu ukuphucula imeko eziphathekayo. umthetho Russian ibonelela ngoncedo kwezo ntsapho zinengeniso esezantsi. Ukongeza, abazali kunikwa amalungelo.

Umntwana uya esikolweni

Xa umntwana agqithe kumgca ezintandathu, iqela iingxaki ezintsha. Baby kwasekuqaleni ukulungiselela esikolweni. Kwaye apha incoko kunye nabazali kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwengqondo uthi, yintoni ebonisa ukuba kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo indawo yokuqala. Abantu abaninzi ngempazamo abakholelwa ukuba phambi kokuba ukuya kwibanga lokuqala umntwana kufuneka bafunde ukubhala nokufunda. Enyanisweni, azikho ezi zakhono ibalulekile. Around uya kukwazi ukufunda esikolweni. Kodwa ke ukulungela nasengqondweni ludlala indima ebalulekileyo. Esiza ibanga lokuqala, itakane kufuneka ngenkuthalo, ngenyameko. It has a ixabiso intlonelo katitshala. Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba ngubani ukucela uncedo xa kuyimfuneko.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, incoko iqela aselula abazali enkulisa kuchaphazela imiba geqe. Esikolweni, umntwana kufuneka azi indlela ukuya kwindlu zangasese, apho ukuhlamba izandla zabo ukuba babambe njani ngecephe. Noko ke, ukuba iimpazamo benziwa ngabazali kwixesha elidlulileyo, umntwana akakwazi ukuba izakhono ezisisiseko kunye kwibanga lokuqala. amaninzi kakhulu kwimeko enjalo ntoni xa umntwana abangazange beze epriskuli. Ngoko ke, incoko kunye nabazali-ugrade yokuqala elizayo kufuneka kuchaphazela imiba geqe.

inkuthazo efanelekileyo yokufunda - isitshixo empumelelweni. Umntwana kufuneka abe nomdla ukudlala entsha okanye ukuya isekisi, uze ufumane ulwazi umdla. nkomfa Umzali Psychologist kufuneka kulungiswe isihloko lokukhuthazwa abantwana phambi kokuya esikolweni. Yingcali uza kukuxelela ukuba ufuna ukwenza umama kunye oyise, ukuze umntwana ngovuyo waya kwiklasi yokuqala. Kwaye indima enkulu apha idlalwa ukulungiselela pre-school. Abazali kufuneka ukufumanisa kwangaphambili ebonelela inkqubo yokufunda. Itakane iza kuhamba, inzala elahlekileyo, ukuba uya kuba nako ukwenza ngaphezu afunda nabo.

Nceda wasekhaya

Njengoko sele kukhankanyiwe ngentla apha, ukuzimela - isitshixo empumelelweni. Oku iingcali ukuthetha nabazali enkulisa kunye kwisikolo sabaqalayo. Ukuba ekuqaleni ekufundiseni izakhono ngobomi zokuphila umntwana wakho, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kwixesha elizayo. Ezibaluleke kakhulu apha ukulungiselelwa efanelekileyo wasekhaya. I-kid izolo nje uxanduva encinane, kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba kusetyenziswa wasekhaya yonke imihla. Ukuziphatha echanekileyo lwabazali idlala indima enkulu. Motivation kuzakuvumela ukuba accustom ndingusisi imisebenzi emitsha.

Iingcali zengqondo zithi nayo nayiphi na imisebenzi abantwana bamelane ngcono ngexesha lasemini. Ngoko ke, izifundo zoqeqesho kufuneka kusala kuyo ngokuhlwa. Ukongeza, ukuba senze yonke into ngendlela efanelekileyo, uyakwazi ukulawula ukuhamba nabahlobo bam okanye yiya kwi ipaki yokonwabisa. Le yenye yezinto ezifunekayo ezixhasayo. Musa ukulibala ngophawu. Ukuba wenze umsebenzi wesikolo ezilungileyo baya kuba nako ukufumana wayemthanda emihlanu. Ke lithuba lokuba ume ngaphandle, ukuba abafundi kakuhle apha eklasini.

Kumanqanaba okuqala umama inceda umntwana ukuba enze umsebenzi wasekhaya. Itakane awukwazi ukumelana ngokwabo. Ukuba uvumela izinto uthathe indawo yabo, umntwana uya kuqalisa kuwa ngasemva. Ngenxa yoko, ngokubanzi ezilahlekileyo umdla ekufundeni. Thetha nabazali eklasini yokuqala kufuneka kulungiswe isihloko "Indlela yokufundisa izifundo na umntwana?". Oomama nootata kufuneka ube nomonde. Kufuneka ukuchitha iiyure ezimbalwa zokufunda. Yenza izifundo kubafundi abaselula kuyo nayiphi na imeko akunakwenzeka!

Ukuba umntwana lingakhuselekanga

Njengomthetho jikelele, udidi yesithathu guys sele aqhekeza isikolo kumaqela anomdla. lula ootitshala bakwazi ukuchonga abakhokeli, phezu koko, abantwana engakhuselekanga. Abanye abantwana ukuba babe nabahlobo, babe nesizungu ivalwe ngokwabo. Abantwana ezinjalo kuwa emva kwizifundo zabo. Ukucacisa meko, utitshala kwindawo yokuqala ibanjwa incoko kunye nabazali babo. Family - elithile. Ukuba kukho ingxaki (umzekelo, abazali umtshato), wolahlekelwa kuqala umntwana.

Utitshala kufuneka ngobuchule ukufumana abazali yintoni ngukumkani nempahla ekhaya. Utitshala okanye kwisayikholojisti isixelela ngendlela umntwana uziphethe kwiindonga esikolweni. Abantu abadala kunye ukufumana izisombululo kwiingxaki. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba imeko apho indlu kulungile, kodwa umntwana eklasini kuhlala ezivaliweyo. Oku ngenxa ukungaphumeleli ukuthabatha usana kwi qela. Mhlawumbi abafundi abancinane mpawu zimbi (ukunyoluka, wengcibi yokuluka, ukuzingca), apho musa ukuvumela ukuba ukwenza abahlobo. iingxaki ezinjalo kufuneka ukuba silwe, Ngokusebenza kunye nabazali. Xa abantwana, iintsana negunya oomama kunye abazali. Emva koko uza kukwazi ukucacisa ukuba ufanele ukuyenza.

Thetha nabazali babantwana ezinzima

I ekhulile umntwana iba, iingxaki ezininzi zingenzeka ekukhuleni bomntwana. Nokuba izolo, intombazana elithozamisayo izaphetha, namhlanje - intwazana esisifu oyaziyo okuninzi lwamagama ezimbi kwaye uyala ukuthobela nezicelo. Kutheni abantwana ukuze wancipha zatshintsha? Iingcali zengqondo zithi le ngxaki iya kunceda ukusombulula udliwano ngamnye kunye nabazali. Ukuze ufumane iimpendulo, kuya kufuneka ukuba ukwemba nzulu ngokwaneleyo. Ebuntwaneni, umntu ethintela ufana imfunxa, elungileyo nje kuphela kodwa ezimbi. Nakuba kwixesha elidlulileyo intsapho kwafuneka ukuba sigqithe kwixesha elinzima, kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kuchaphazela indlela yokuziphatha komntwana kwixesha elizayo.

Ngu isigaba esahlukileyo kuquka elivisayo abavela kwiintsapho ezihlelelekileyo. Amaninzi ke oonyana abo imfundo oomama nootata bangabi inxaxheba kuwo onke. Guys efuna ingqalelo kwicala, qhagamshelana ngokwesondo ekuqaleni. Iingxoxo kunye nabazali kakuhle ngexesha elinye kubalulekile. Ukuba ixesha na ukusombulula iingxaki ubomi umfana uya baphanga. Ingqalelo nothando - ukuba abazali kufuneka banike abantwana babo. Kule nkalo, kwaye kufuneka wenziwe incoko zengqondo.

Psychology umfundi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo aphezulu

Guys ababhalise kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo - kuba abadala Owadala ubuntu. Ukusebenzisana abazali intsha lineqela bokuqonda. Kwi indlela baziphathe kakuhle umama kunye notata ngekamva lokuba umfundi eluntwini. ingxoxo Psychologist kufuneka zibanjwe kunye nomntwana abazali 'kunye umzali. " Into ebalulekileyo ulwalamano kunye nabafundi - ngokuzithemba. Ukuba yenziwe ngendlela eyiyo, abafana ziya uthethe nabazali malunga bevuya kunye nokusilela. Omama kunye oyise, kuya kuba nako ukusa amandla unyana okanye intombi kwicala elifanelekileyo. Ngoko ukwazi ukuphepha umntwana oluwe beziphethe kakubi, ukukhulelwa kwangethuba.

Iingxoxo kunye nabazali esikolweni kufuneka kwenziwe qho ngamnye. Kwiintlanganiso jikelele lichatshazelwe yi yingxaki eqhelekileyo (yokusebenza, iziganeko elizayo). Ukuze ukusombulula imiba ngamnye kwengqondo babe ukuqeshwa kamva.

abantwana abaneziphiwo bafanelwe ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Nabazali aba bantwana kwaye utitshala kufuneka ubambe ingxoxo. Amaxesha amaninzi omama kunye abazali musa uqaphele iitalente abantwana babo ngokuthumela ukuba kufunda umsebenzi umntwana akanamdla. Ngenxa yoko, abazali abaphezulu rhubaxa, aphoswe ithuba lokuphuhlisa kweli cala. Omama kunye abazali kufuneka ukuthatha abantwana babo abadala amalungu oluntu. Banalo ilungelo lokukhetha indlela yabo yokuphila.

zeengcebiso ngemisebenzi enokulandelwa

isigqibo lwekhondo - impumelelo kwixesha elizayo. Zengqondo bakholelwa ukuba umntu ukuba asebenze intsimi leyo umdla omkhulu. Ngoko ke uya kukwazi ukufumana ingeniso ethe chu kwaye okuphucula uqeqesho lwabo. Ngexa inkampani ongelilo ilungu omdala, siya kunisusa izigqibo abazali. Ngelishwa, ngokufuthi kuyenzeka ukuba umama kunye notata nge umntwana zama ukuqonda amabhongo zabo. Abazali athi imfuneko ukuya esikolweni komthetho, intatheli okanye kugqirha wamazinyo kuba nje ezidumileyo. Kulo mzekelo, umntwana akazange bayithathele umdla ingqalelo.

Xa kuziwa iingcebiso ngamakhondo, ukubaluleka inkulu ingxoxo kwangethuba ootitshala nabazali bezikolo zamabanga aphakamileyo. Iingcali Sikhuthaza oomama nootata musani kuphazamisana abantwana ukuba benze izigqibo ezizezabo. Abazali banokunceda iingcebiso avulekile kuphela. Kwaye ukuze kuchongwe ngokukhawuleza abantwana kwiziko lemfundo luyakwazi uvavanyo ekhethekileyo career guidance. Yenza enqwenelekayo kwibakala 9, umntwana kusekho ixesha lokuba enze isigqibo emva kokuqwalasela ngenyameko.

Ngamafuphi

ingxoxo zifo kunye nabazali kufuneka kwenziwe ngalo naliphi na inqanaba ubudala. I kakhulu ngakumbi ootitshala baya kusebenzisana oomama kunye abazali, abantu bayakwazi ukuba ukuseka inkqubo yokufundisa abantwana. Ukuhlela incoko, kufuneka utitshala acacise xa kuya kuba lula ukuba batyelele abazali babo iziko lemfundo. A Inani imiba kuqwalaselwa kwi kwintlanganiso jikelele. Kodwa ezinye iingxaki ingasombululwa kuphela qho ngamnye.

ukukhathalelwa komntwana ngamnye, incoko kunye nabazali ziinkathazo. Ezi oomama nootata badla ngokuba madolw 'anzima nokuba ukuya iziko lemfundo. Kulo mzekelo, ababandakanyekayo ntle. I ingxoxo kuqhutywa ekhaya ngenkani. Ukuba iingcebiso utitshala kunye wengqondo indiva, kukho umbuzo ukuhluthwa amalungelo lobuzali.