Iintsuku zokuqala enkulisa: indlela yokunceda umntwana ukuqhelana

Ngokutsho komthetho Russian, ubudala abantwana, nto leyo esele kunokwenzeka ukuba ayeke baxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwi unina abe nabafundi ze enkulisa - 1,5 iminyaka. Kuxhomekeke kule ngongoma abazali kufumana isibonelelo kuba ukunyamekela usana lwakhe. iisayikholojisti abaninzi esikolweni endala nangokuthi eli lelona xesha lifanelekileyo bakuqhele abantwana abancinane, becaphula ukunqongophala umntwana lo ubudala ulwazi apho kungcono, ngoko kwiintsuku zokuqala enkulisa abanabo kangako buhlungu. Kodwa ke kaninzi usana ubunzima ukuqhelana indawo entsha.

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Nangona kunjalo, oku kudla ngokwenzeka ukuba okokuqala umntwana uza abancinane ngokuhlwa kweminyaka 5 ubudala 4 okanye. kumngcelele Long ukuba indawo yokunakekela umntwana kamasipala, ukukwazi ukuba oomama ikhefu lwabazali phambi kokuba abulawe umntwana iminyaka emi-3 ubudala, bam makhulu kumgadi-baviwa oncedisayo - bebonke badlala indima. Yaye ngexesha usana sele kwasekwa iziseko ukucinga, ubuza lo mbuzo: "Kutheni na ukuba uphile? Kutheni ndifanele kushiya umama wam? Yini na ukuba ndingade ndimthobele-anti somnye umntu? "Loo nto yenza kube nzima ukuba ukuqhelana kwi kwiintsuku zokuqala enkulisa. Noko ke, ungasoloko ufumana indlela nkulu ngononophelo ukulungiselela umhlaba ukuba abantwana baqhele ngokukhuselekileyo ubomi obutsha. Xa sele ethathe isigqibo sokuba umntwana enkulisa, kuqala uza ngalo mna, kunye nabazali bam. Ngapha koko, bazi kakuhle ukuba xa ekuqaleni umntwana wachitha lonke ixesha wakhe kunye nomama wakhe, ngendlela indlela ekulungeleyo bobabini, kodwa ngoku kuya kufuneka bakuqhele kwindawo entsha ngokupheleleyo, ukutya entsha, iimfuno ezintsha, nto leyo eyenza utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukulungele abazali kule ngongoma ngokufundisa usana lwakho ulawulo kufutshane ukuya sadikovskomu, ukutshintsha kwiimenyu kwaye kuqhuba iiseshoni zoqeqesho, lokuphinda iimeko zamaziko pre-school ekhayeni labo akunakwenzeka. Yintoni onokuyenza, ukuba ezi akaguquki aba ntshikilelo inamandla for imvuthuluka? Emva kokuba yonke intiyo eyayikho ngemihla zokuqala enkulisa, kuya kuqinisekisa sengqondo wosana ukuba bahlale kumaziko labantwana iinyanga, ukuba kwiminyaka ezayo.

Noluvo umntwana

Njengoko sinokungqinelwa nokubuyekezwa eziguqulweyo evela kubazali, kukho okuninzi kuxhomekeke utitshala, ngubani na oya kuba zokubatshintsha usuku, iintsuku ezintlanu ngeveki. Ngoko ke, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kungcono ukuba ukudibana nootitshala yeqela ukuba kubhalwe usana. Musa ukushiya umntwana egadini, njengoko into, bezama ukubaleka - oko kuya kubangela ukuba ukothuka kunye zoqhankqalazo, nto leyo iya kubeyisa sele kunzima. Baby kubalulekile ukuba bazive bekhuselekile kwaye uqiniseke ukuba akayi kuyekwa. Kufuneka ngengqondo ilungiswe amabali apho wayeza kuhamba, ukuba akukho ukulinda. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana ukuzama ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga babo, ngoko oku kuxoxwa zingaba inkuthazo zokufuna ukuba khona.

Ngemihla zokuqala enkulisa kuhle ukushiya umntwana nje phambi kwesidlo sasemini: kokuba uyakwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye abantwana ukudlala zokudlala ezintsha, kodwa akazange abe ixesha ukuphoswa umama kunye notata wam. Kwezinye eziguqulweyo ukuba abazali iintsuku ezimbalwa usana wayehleli entsimini ngayo. Ngoko ke Ndingathanda ukuthatha uhambo oluya egadini njengoko uhambe rhoqo kunye nomama wakhe - kuba nayo njengenye enokukhethwa ukuba lithathelwe oluyimpumelelo iimvuthuluka.

Iintsuku zokuqala umntwana enkulisa uya kubanjiswa amathuba amatsha, abahlobo abatsha, kwaye ukuba abazali ngokuchanekileyo nangokukhuselekileyo kuya kumnceda ukukuqhela, imiso ngemiso yonke, akuyi eziqala bawuphanga isimo yona, yaye abantu abadala.