Gadalala kwabantwana: iintlobo, izinto, uthintelo

ikamva lethu, ulonwabo lwethu, iingxaki zethu novuyo - bonke abantwana bethu ayinonophelayo esibathandayo. Kodwa soloko zikhula kwi uthando? Awu, akukho. Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana idla kuxoxwa kwimidiya kumabonakude.

Yintoni na?

Ezi mpawu ezininzi ezimbi gadalala kwabantwana zithathwa ukuba ukubethwa, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, yamngxwelerha. Kodwa ngaphandle kwabo mininzi neminye imiba ukuba uhlanga umphefumlo umntwana sesichengeni wakhe. Kuhlaziswa, ukungahoywa, ukungcungcuthekiswa ukuba sele angekayazi eyona nto engqondweni yomntwana maxa wambi iba kukwenzakala noqhekeko. gadalala kwabantwana ithetha sengqondo esibi, evumela abazali, abagcini, ootitshala - ngokufutshane, bonke abo abantu abazalana ngqo akhuliswe ngayo lomntwana.

ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kunye neentlobo zayo

Ukuziqhelisa, ukwahlula phakathi iintlobo zobundlobongela kwabantwana. Physical uthetha ukuba size kuthetha infliction ngabom emzimbeni. ubundlobongela ngokwesondo kuyehla inxaxheba ngesondo umntwana omdala okanye urhwaphilizo kunye kwemvume yakhe okanye ngaphandle kwayo. Impembelelo zengqondo kunokubangela ukuyilwa iimpawu ezingaqhelekanga wehlise uphuhliso komntwana. Amaninzi ootitshala, ootitshala, nabazali ngokwabo ngayo abantwana ukubonisa uhlobo engqondweni inkohlakalo. Umzekelo oku kunokuba ukugxeka umntwana okanye ngaphandle; ubungozi ngendlela ngamazwi; amazwi kunye nokunyelisa, leyo ehlazisayo abantwana; ukwahlukanisa ngabom; amanga ukungaphumeleli ukuthobela nezithembiso; ifuthe ngqwabalala engqondweni, nto leyo ebangela okuthuthuzela amaxhoba yomntwana. Ukongeza, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngazo ngokwayo xa ukungahoywa elula, oko kukuthi, ukungabikho ingqalelo, inkathalo, ulondolozo kunye bekhulisa umntwana.

Oonobangela zokuhlukunyezwa

izizathu ezinjalo, kuqala, umbala lwentlalo. Umzekelo, ukungabikho kwemisebenzi, usapho imali ephantsi, butywala, usapho engaphelelanga, iimeko zokuphila amahlwempu, ngokomzimba, ubudala aselula abazali nomnqweno ngenjongo yokuzonwabisa, ukuzalwa omnye umntwana, intsapho enkulu.

Yintoni abazali kufuneka bazi

Ngonya kulula ukunqanda kunokuba ukuze nibe kumzabalazo wakhe. Uthintelo gadalala kwabantwana ikakhulu kubandakanya ukusebenza kunye nabazali. Kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa kwabo bafuna ukuba uthando nemvisiswano kunye nomntwana wakho. Khumbula ukuba abantwana - ubuntu, nakuba ezincinane. Kufuneka uthando nje kuphela, kodwa bengabahloneli. Inkqubo yemfundo - indlela ogcwele yinkukuma ngamatye, ngoko ufanele ube nomonde. Musa ukwenza umntwana wakhe
ogqibeleleyo. Oku kungenzeki, usana bonke wayesazi kakuhle ayikwazanga ngokulinganayo. Mdumise into uyakwazi ngcono kunabanye, yaye musa ityala ngenxa yokuba engenakufunyanwa ezinye izinto. Ungaze yenza uthelekiso abantwana babo nabanye, cinga impumelelo abanye guys kanye ulwazi. Musa kuyena umntwana amabinzana afana "Ndazama kuwe, uze nawe ...". Eli lilinge embi shame umntwana wakho. Abantwana abaninzi besamkela mazwi, nto leyo wacela ukuba babe nazo. Ukuba isimo esibi kwenzeka phambi abasemzini, ngoko musa ukuqala ukuthethisa umntwana nangoko. Mthabatheni ekhaya kwaye achitha incoko ngaphandle amangqina. Musa ukuba neentloni ngayo nabantu abangabazi. Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - uyamthanda umntwana wakho, ngokufuthi ukuthetha naye ngalo, pat no Siyakudumisa. Olu lolona khuselo lungcono abantwana ekuphathweni gadalala.