Eyona mfanelo lolwaphulo-abantwana: ezisisiseko neempawu

Abafikisayo ngaphantsi kweminyaka eli-18 ubudala, baye nalapho umbono, ke ngoko, kwesistim yefowuni ephathwayo kakhulu imilinganiselo yokuziphatha. Ngenxa yezizathu ezinxulumene-ubudala yokungeniswa umntwana ngasekunene kunye nokuziphatha ke nangoku kuphela kwinqanaba ngamazwi, yaye nabalawuli oluzenzekelayo kwindlela umfana. Okwangoku, ingqalelo kwisizukulwana esitsha njengangoku ekufuneka ukonyuka okuphawulekayo, ingakumbi ngokubhekiselele ekunqandeni ulwaphulo-mthetho kunye impixano, nto leyo kwezinye iingingqi ekubeni frighteningly abukhali. Ngoko ke, imfanelo injongo abantwana kuba kulwaphulo mithetho kukho unxibelelwano. Namhlanje, liyanda inani amazinga aphezulu iintshukumo zolutsha sikweni zivulelwe ngamandla ukuya kumaqela athile yabemi (ezifana ubuzwe). Akukho nosizana kangako ikhangeleka umfanekiso amacala yi isencinci ngeenjongo zokuzingca, ezifana ubusela, ukuphanga, ukuphanga.

Urhulumente wethu ukukhuselwa ngokukhethekileyo abo zazingekafiki yokuzalwa kwakhe 18, kodwa nangona oku, imfanelo lolwaphulo-kubantwana phantsi Criminal Code (1996), kwenzeka sele xa ulutsha isikhumbuzo 14 th-. Ngenxa yobume nemimiselo abantwana bengqondo yabantu yaqalisa icandelo elahlukileyo, ezizezi, iSahluko 14 (Amanqaku 87 ukuya 96). Imfuno imithetho ezizodwa kunye nemimiselo ngokunxulumene abaphuli-mthetho abangabantwana olubangelwa siseko nobuntu kunye nobulungisa ngqo.

Iimpawu ze nobutyala kunye nesohlwayo sesono abantwana

Of izahluko 87, siyabona ukuba abantwana zibonakaliswa ngabo baye ndandineminyaka eli-14 ngexesha na ikhomishini ezenzo mthethweni kwilizwe lethu. Abantu abadala nabo ingqalelo abantu abatsha, ukusukela kwiminyaka eli-18 ubudala - izaphuli-mthetho kweli qela lobudala sele uxanduva ngezenzo zabo, "omdala". Yaye abantwana abangquzulana nomthetho ongaphantsi kweminyaka eli-14 musa ukuhlangabezana umthetho ngokuba azenzileyo.

Nayiphi umoni minor phambi kwakhe uya kunikwa isivakalisi ethile ihlala uviwo lwasenkundleni ngokwasengqondweni nasengqondweni. Olu phando entsonkothileyo nzima kakhulu ukuba ufuna izicelo zonyango ezifana nempilo jikelele, ulwazi ezizodwa kakhulu ngokwasengqondweni (Social Psychology, elivisayo pathopsychology kunye nabantwana). Ngenxa isiphelo wenziwa esekelwe kwiziphumo zoviwo enjalo, kuya kuvela umbuzo wokuba ingaba zoLutsha phambi kwenkundla ukuba wayephethwe isifo sengqondo ngexesha zolwaphulo-mthetho, okanye yena engathethekiyo ngokubanzi. Kwimeko yokugqibela, elivisayo kungenzeka ukuba mazithunyelwe unyango kwiziko abagula ngengqondo.

Le nobutyala ngayo abantwana: iimeko ezizodwa

Ngexesha lophando, imveliso kwecala amatyala olwaphulo yi ubuso abantwana, ingqalelo ngokukodwa ukuba uthathele ingqalelo elucidation imeko efana:

• ubudala-mthetho;
• iimeko zobomi bakhe;
• iimeko zemfundo;
• unobangela kunye neemeko ebangele ukuba kwizenzo ezingekho ngabo;
• ubukho bezinye nxaxheba kunye baphembeleli abadala.

Eyona mfanelo lolwaphulo-abantwana: iintlobo zezohlwayo ukuba ulwaphulo-mthetho

Fair mthetho ngayo umntwana kuthathwa ukuba kunazo wokulungiswa yayo. Noko ke, izohlwayo xa kufuneka ibe ngqongqo kakhulu kuyo. Hi ndlela leyi, elona thuba lide ukuba ungafumana umoni abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-18, kwilizwe lethu engama-10 (ngokwe isenzo, kwaye ngokupheleleyo).

Izohlwayo nxamnye njengomoni ongumntwana:

• kakuhle (it kuphela zabelwe ngokunxulumene nomoni, ukuba imivuzo okanye ipropati ezizimeleyo);
• nokungalali ilungelo ukwenza imisebenzi ethile;
• umsebenzi odingekayo;
• umsebenzi loluleko ;
• ukumbamba;
• ukuba entolongweni sexesha elimiselweyo.

Eyona mfanelo lolwaphulo-abantwana: ukusetyenziswa amandla kunye zemfundo amanyathelo

Ukuba umntwana wophula umthetho ukuba okokuqala ngqa ebomini bakhe, kwaye abangafakwanga kuhlelo lwee njengenkulu kwaye enkulu kakhulu, i elivisayo ukuze nabutyala mthetho, xa siqonda ukuba ukulungiswa isicelo kuyo ifuthe lemfundo le miqathango, ezizezi:

• kuthintelo;
• ukudlulisela phantsi kweliso abameli kwezomthetho (abazali okanye abo ukubuyisela kubo, ingakumbi, urhulumente yokukhathalela umzimba ezizodwa);
• ngokubanik umsebenzi ukuze abuyekeze / wokulungisa umonakalo;
• yokunqongophala zokuzonwabisa;
• ukumisela iimfuno ezithile ngenxa yokuziphatha.