Domesticity

bambalwa kakhulu abantu ehlabathini abo ngokuzithandela uhlala wedwa. Uninzi iza kudala kungekudala usapho, ukukhulisa abantwana kunye nabazukulwana. ubomi Intsapho yaye azifani kulo nakweliphi na ibakala. Ukunyulwa komntu akuxhomekekanga ekuzithandeleni kubudala abantwana kunye amaqabane ngokwabo. Kusoloko kukho imiceli-mingeni kunye nemiqobo. Noko ke, mizuzu ulonwabo novuyo angayilungisa zonke izinto ezimbi kwaye anike amandla ubomi elizayo.

Kubuhlungu, kodwa sikhula. Endaweni Iimvakalelo nangomdla kuza ubomi bentsapho cwaka. Oku ngakumbi xa abantwana abadala ashiye ikhaya, ukuqala ubomi ezimeleyo, ukutshata kunye atshate.

yobudala Old eza zifihlakele. Yinto ukumiswa. Kodwa ke kwiminyaka - akukho konke oko kuzisa emntwini. Kumiwe neyomsebenzi, impilo enkenenkene, abakhubazekileyo - wonke ekuso abantu abadala. Ngeli xesha, ubomi osapho kunye nakwabo basenyongweni uqale ukuthatha okubaluleke nangakumbi.

Kunye umhlalaphantsi umntu sakhulula elininzi ixesha reflection. Kule minyaka, amaninzi aqalile uhlaziye ezinye zeziganeko kunye ukushwankathela. Kwaye apha iindlela ezimbini: ndonwabe ebomini bakhe ngaphambili, yaye vice versa.

Kwimeko yokuqala, umntu uyayixabisa umsebenzi wakhe. Yena lanelisekile ubomi bakhe, abantwana bakhe injabulo abazukulwana, ezihlonipha yena nabanye. Abantu abanjalo kusoloko mood elungileyo amandla ngenxa yempumelelo ezintsha. Zonke iimvakalelo HIV ichaphazela enibathandayo. Ubomi bentsapho iyaqhubeka. izithandani ngolo hlobo amaninzi zifumaneka nepaki kunye esitratweni. Besebancinane, ubambe izandla omnye komnye, yaye kubonakale, bonwabile.

Ngelishwa, kukho ezinye iimeko. Baphazamiseka umsebenzi wakhe, iingxaki zempilo, ungonwabi ubomi lobuqu kwenzeka ngenxa yabaninzi. Kuyinto embi kakhulu xa umntu onjalo oza iziphumo zokwaluphala. Aba bantu abadala baba nomsindo kunye iguquguquka. Kunzima ukuvana nabo, nkqu ukuvala izalamane.

Xa kunjalo, abantu zokwaluphala zifuna ingqwalasela kunye nokhathalelo. Ayifanele intlonelo kwaye ufanelwe yobudala happy ubudala.

Ubomi bentsapho - ukuba nje kuphela ubudlelwane indoda nomfazi, kuba kwakhona ubudlelwane phakathi kooyise nabantwana. Kokuba nzima ezahlukeneyo iimeko kunye nomahluko. Oku akufuneki angqamane abantwana ukunyamekela abazali babo.

Abantu e umhlala kukho imfuneko bazive bebalulekile uze ezibalulekileyo. Bazama ukunceda abantwana ngokwezimali, wasekhaya, nomntwana.

Nangona imidala injalo yakhe, ubomi bosapho owalupheleyo akukho ngaphantsi umdla. Yokuba ubuhlobo oneentloni ngakumbi kwaye echukumisayo. Bayaqonda enye nenye kwaye kuba zifana. care ngcono kunye nengqalelo kunokucaciswa kukoyika yokuphulukana omnye.

Maxa wambi, enye isibini lijongene lilolo. Society akuthethi qaphela abakhulileyo. izizukulwana ezilandelayo baxakeke kakhulu umsebenzi kunye zobuqu imicimbi, abayi kusibekela iingxaki abanye abantu. Ukuba umntu ebudaleni luhlala zonke ndedwa, kwimeko engcono ukuba ulinde kwikhaya lokonga.

Ukunganeliseki kunye nobomi ibandakanya nokuguga ekufuphi elibonakalayo, leyo ikhatshwe yi ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo. abadala Lonely kangako ukuzinakekela kwaye emakhayeni abo.

Abantu abadala baqonde ingqalelo nenyameko. Kubo, i ulwalamano ubaluleke kakhulu. Nokuba abantwana Ndikhohliwe, ngenxa yaso nasiphi na isizathu, Ngokufuthi abazali, imfuno yokugqibela ukuze uqiniseke ukuba akukho nganto yaye bethandwa. Inika nemfezeko nokuzithemba. Kubo, oku ke umvuzo liphezulu.

Abo bagqiba ekubeni bayeke kukunyamekela ngabazali bakhe, kubalulekile ukukhumbula esengumntwana, xa umama wam, wakwenza umgudu nexesha, wamthanda, wondla, enxibe, wahlamba, njalo-njalo. Kwakhona, musa ukulibala ukuba abantwana uthabathe nawe umzekelo, yaye yintoni isiphelo ukuba balindelwe ebudaleni ikwandim, ungakwazi ndiyaqikelela.