Cha - ngubani na: a realist okanye angalahlekelwa nto?

azikho izinto ezimbi njengoko unokuthelekelela, yonke into mbi kakhulu ... Le ayingomdlalo kodwa yinyaniso kufuneka itshintshwe abantu gqolo ukudangala-nye. Kutheni? Makhe lokujongana: cha - ngubani na? Realist, abanemibono kufuneka weva, okanye isiphukuphuku ayinyamezeleki, ukubeka intonga ngomlomo kwi ivili bonke nobuganga ukuthatha isigqibo?

Ukuqalisa ukuchaza ingcamango "cha". Ngubani na lo? Man eneempawu iimpawu kunye neempawu, leyo ichazwa ngendlela izigwebo ngokuyimfuneko embi ngayo iziganeko zobomi. Ngolwimi Russian, eli gama liye kufika nge Latin. Pessimus lithetha "ezimbi."

Okubi - jonga kwi ubomi kwindawo ethile, elimxinwa kakhulu abone ngayo, xa nayiphi na uphuhliso kuthatha indawo, ngokutsho kwenye indoda le meko obukhulu kakhulu.

Pessimists luphawulwa nazigqibo, uloyiko yokwenza impazamo apha - isimo sengqondo kakhulu kumanyathelo abantu ngeenxa zonke kuye, imbono embi ezisingqongileyo. Ezi mpawu kwaye amisele inkqubo yokubala ngentloko yomntu ojongene ngqo ngenxa yezenzo yomntu ngamnye. Xa umntu ukholelwa ukuba inkathazo kuye - ziganeko kwangaphambili udidi "njalo" nempumelelo - "never", sibaphathe ngendlela iimeko abasisigxina, oko ngokungathandabuzekiyo cha. Ngubani na oya kundikhanyela mhlawumbi bafumana nje wena umfanekiso embi, kodwa nabuganga ukuba ayamnkele.

pessimists Ukungaphumeleli ukunika, ngokwesiko lakhe, nayiphi na ingcaciso jikelele, lo gama i-amashwa kwenzeka ngokupheleleyo kwindawo ethile. Ngokomzekelo, into efana: "Bendisazi ukuba, ndisoloko yonke zingahambi kakuhle, kungenjalo ayikwazanga kuba ...".

Eenzululwazi, akukho byi: i cha, ngubani na - a realist okanye angalahlekelwa nto. Lo umntu ngokwenene kunokwenzeka ngakumbi ukuba ukujongana nobunzima, kodwa icala ongenathemba engalindelekanga.

Ngoko ke, okokuqala, ukuxinezeleka ukuba haunted cha aziyi kunyikima, kodwa ngenxa yokuba umntu ohlala yokukhathazeka rhoqo. Okwesibini, negativistov, nokuba yingqondi, kunzima kakhulu ukuba ukuphumelela naliphi na ishishini ukuba wenziwe. Ukwehluleka Icandelo lesithathu cha - ngenxa izinto zangaphambili. Ukudelela luvo kunye nempilo enkenenkene, yaye mhlawumbi ngaphezu umntu unokukholwa.

Yethemba okubi bahluke ngendlela eyahlukileyo yempilo. A abantu abangenayo i-nye 70% lula ngakumbi ukuba isifo sentliziyo ngaphezu lokuhle. A nokufa ngaphambi - 60%. Phakathi kwezinye izinto, okubi esisigxina maxongo na, nkqu imeko elula kunenye uxinezeleko abajongene zonke bexesha lakhe. Kwaye kunokuba ngendlela ekhubekisayo ichaphazela kakuhle-ntle: in an kwenani egazini ziye kuphoswa phandle i hormone cortisol kunye iadrenaline, nto leyo ekhokelela ukwanda koxinzelelo lwegazi kunye viscosity negazi. Kwaye ukuba imiqathango sokuphuhlisa isifo sentliziyo.

Uliyeke ukutshaya cha kuba nzima ngaphezu lokuhle, ukuba kakhulu ayenzi abantu ezikhuselekileyo nesempilweni.

lokuhle oLuntu, njengoko enjalo, kuba negalelo sihlale ngokoqobo kwabanye. Kodwa icala flip imali ezinkozo, kwakunye uninzi ingqondo aphezulu umntu ongenathemba, akufanele ixabiso, wabeka emva kwakhe. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uthathe ithuba ncedo ngokunxulumene ndicinga izakhono zabo inzuzo - themba umgangatho unako kwaye kufuneka bafunde nanini na ubudala.