Yintoni ton mauvais xa inkcubeko yaseNtshona yokuziphatha

Iminyaka mabini, njengoko USSR yanyamalala balizalise lonke elimiweyo, wawa "ikhuselo yentsimbi 'yaye lengcinga' scoop" ekhohlo. Kwaye ke amalungu ale "scoop" kaninzi kubonwa kumgama kude. Nantsi iperi isitalato eqhelekileyo isixeko zesiqhelo yaseYurophu: oko - isuti ngu Voronin, zezihlangu ukhanye isilungiseleli seglosi, oko - in an ilokhwe ngokuhlwa evela Gucci, amaqhosha ebhutsi desyatisantimetrovyh kunye handbag NOHERMES. Zombini oluphahlwe iidayimani, ezifana iKrismesi imithi yeNyoka. Kubonakala ukuba kusefashonini abanxibe, ukucoceka, izityebi, ekhangela emva kuphela sekufika abadlulayo ukuthetha ngazo - ton mauvais. Ixabiso eli gama liguqulelwe French njenge "nambeko» (mauvais ton). Akukho ngenxa yokuba aba bantu babe kukha beve iimpahla, nje musa ukuba inkcubeko kunye uhlobo lokuziphatha lamkele kuluntu elinikiweyo.

Ukuba isibini eso bebephethe ngokupheleleyo kuya kuvela ethile kwizikhewu zomthonyama ezivulekileyo, basabela yoluntu iya kuba eyahlukileyo. Bakubo ngentlonelo gu bucala, abafazi ngentumekelelo ukubona izinto ngubo ezahlukeneyo (ukusindisa kuthenga kweziqalo efanayo iliso-kokuphuma rhinestones!). Apha, aba babini khangela Bonthonneau (ukusuka amagama "nesimilo"). Enyanisweni, ukuba ukuchaza yintoni mauvais ton, inzima kakhulu ngaphezu kubonakala xa efika kuqala. Ngapha koko, iisuti amadoda lwawo evela Voronin, izihlangu Puma, kwaye lidlale Gizmos sequined Dolce & Gabbana (nangona ezinye umnxeba kule nkampani "Ibiza kwaye zizidenge") akuthethi kuthi lingakwazi ukwenza. Asinto kitsch, kodwa kwiimeko ezithile yaye kuluntu ezithile iba ezinjalo.

Kwinkcubeko yethu bekusoloko lwenziwe andinaqhayiya nobutyebi babo. Billionaire kuye, Makube lee, abayi mazingabhidaniswa ngusozigidi, yena ubhenca zonke iinkalo ngokuchuma (umxokelelwane wegolide, ngathi egadile, "Rolex" ubungakanani esosini ikofu, kunye like). Ngale ndlela abantu abafuna ukubonisa amaqabane abo enokubakho Western yaseYurophu ukuba ubume bezemali zawo yaye benqabisekile ngaye kujongwana nazo. kubukeka ihluke bokubengezela "oyibone" Western eYurophu esisityebi. Wasebenzisa ukubonisa bakhaya bakhe ukuba imali kaloku emva zokuhlula zabasebenzi kwaye akukho ndlela azikho likratshi. Ngoko ke, abantu kudla livela pullover neebhulukhe. Ngaphandle kokuba, kakade, le nto soiree, imidlalo yeqonga, ibhodi yabalawuli okanye nawuphi na omnye umcimbi efanayo. Ngale ndlela, impendulo yalo mbuzo, yintoni na ton mauvais, ngaphezu nantoni na ilizwi Russian "Ngenxa indawo kunye nexesha engalunganga."

Xa nobukhulu kwilizwe lethu elikhulu yomfazi simlahle kugwetywa kwayo "yorhwebo ingqondo." Ngoko ke compatriot marafet lubonisa, kwanokuba kuya kubalekela ukuya evenkileni elikufutshane kuthenga isonka. E Western Yurophu, eqaqambileyo make-up ngexesha imini, ukuze oko ngokuzolileyo, kuyamangalisa. Ngaphandle kokuba, kakade, musa ndingenguye subculture ulutsha (ngamaGoth, punks, emo kunye nabanye), eyeliner, isithunzi iliso, umthamo okanye false kunye bahlazeke khangela engaqhelekanga. Yintoni ton mauvais iingubo yabasetyhini? Oku kuxa zibhekiswa kakhulu kubabaze ifomu ababhinqileyo. Ngoko ke abantu abazange bacinge ukuba urhola ukuhenyuza, nje musa ukunxiba njengenenekazi umsebenzi othile, efuna "iyawadodobalisa umthengi."

Kodwa emabi kuboniswa kuphela iimpahla. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu kubonwe ukuziphatha kwakhe (ukuba akazi imvubu iimbewu ujongilanga). Yintoni imikhuba moveton? Abantu Western ubambe ezingcwele yobumfihlo kanye nobudlelwane phakathi kwabo nabanye ukugcina kude. Akukho mfuneko ukuya omnye umntu kufutshane kakhulu ukuqhwaba naye emagxeni, wathatha isandla sakhe. Imithetho yokuziphatha isebenza kude ngaphaya nokuphathwa imela nefolokhwe. Abantu bethu ukuphendula umnxeba kwiselula xa wayehleli nkampani: yakhululeka ubonisa oko umfuziselo wakhe 'opholileyo "yaye yintoni na ishishini. Kwamanye amazwe kuyinto - hayi comme il faut, oko kukuthi, akukho ngoko ayamkelwa ukuyenza.

ISithethe ukuziphatha kubahlali of Western Yurophu kukuchonga intlonipho kwabanye, nokuba epheleleyo abasemzini. Ngoko ke, kukho intetho ithuba cwaka, amehlo encume kule ntlanganiso. Akukho mfuneko ukubonisa isimo sabo kwaye ukutsala umdla ngelizwi elikhulu kunye nokuziphatha odelelayo kunye. Ukuba siya kucinga: "Olu hlobo unako ukwenza into", yaye apho uya kuthi: "Luhlobo olunjani krwada, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba amazwe asakhulayo.