Wedding ngo-2012: umhla na nazanachit engcono?

Omnye umshumayeli waseMelika, edume uqikelelo sele eziliqela ngesiphelo sehlabathi ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, iye undimisele enye apocalypse ngoSeptemba 26 kunyaka ophelileyo. Kodwa ke kwangaphambili isiphelo sehlabathi zange yenzeke kwaye kwakhokelela ekwandeni beza ngo-2012. Kwaye ngoku, abantu abaninzi uthando ochaphazelekayo nzulu malunga nokuba umtshato nga bazuze-2012 onwabe?

Kukholelwa ukuba nyaka omnqakathi ayikho wonwabile, kwaye ukuba ngeli xesha lokuba ukudlala emsithweni, intsapho ekugqibeleni iba. Mhlawumbi oku ze yobuyatha, kodwa izibini abaninzi abaselula ukuba bacinge nzulu umhla lomtshato. Abanye, umzekelo, baba olukhawulezayo ndatshata ngo-2011, enye koko, wagqiba ekubeni nikhawuleze silinde ekuqaleni kuka-2013, xa phambi kokuphela elandelayo zehlabathi.

Kwaye gqo ezahlukeneyo kakhulu ukusuka kunyaka omnqakathi kwesiqhelo? Ewe, into yokuba imini enye ngaphezulu. Kuko konke. Ngoko ke, ukuba lo mtshato icetyelwe ngo-2012, ngoko elinye ixesha de amaxesha ngcono yayo ikufanele.

Kukho ubungqina bokuba ngemihla yamandulo ngomnyaka omnqakathi, la mantombazana akazange enze umdlalo. Kodwa ke isizathu ukuba konyaka omnqakathi unelishwa, kodwa leyo umyeni wakhetha umtshakazi nomyeni wakhetha indoda kulo nyaka. Angavumi xa umnika wayengekho.

izenzo afanayo kwamanye amazwe aseYurophu. Ngokomzekelo, kumazwe afana eNgilani, eSkotlani kunye Ireland ngomhla St Oswald kaThixo, oko kukuthi, Februwari 29, amantombazana ukuba enze isithembiso kulo mfana.

Kodwa asingabo bonke abantu abasandul ukoyikisa ikhethe ezindala kunye neenkolelo. Kukho ezininzi izibini abafuna ukuba zisayine echasene konyaka omnqakathi. Yintoni umtshato olungileyo ngo-2012? Okokuqala into yokuba i-ofisi yobhaliso akayi kuba emgceni enkulu, yaye okwesibini - ngenxa iinkonzo ephantsi imfuno iifoto, toastmaster kunye neemvumi iya kunyothulwa kakhulu. Ukongeza, kulo nyaka le khalenda yamandulo elisempuma ke umnyaka Dragon. Oku kuthetha ukuba abo batshatayo abathandanayo enye ngenene, kunyaka ozayo uya kuba yingenelo kakhulu.

Kuhleli kuphela ukuba bakhethe usuku kakuhle kuba kukho imibhiyozo kunye nemitshato ngo-2012 uya konwaba! Khetha usuku kuyimfuneko ukuba abantu neenkolelo, kungenjalo abasayi kuba nako ukulala ngoxolo. ERashiya, uye waphila ixesha elide ikhalenda iintsomi yomtshato. Ukuba sijonga oko, sinako, sithembele kubulumko abantu ukuba bakhethe kakuhle iinyanga yamsitho. Kukho lomtshato ikhalenda kwenyanga.

Ngokusekelwe kule mithombo, kwakunye uqikelelo izazi nga ngezinga eliphezulu okuchaneka ukwazi uya kuba yintoni na iintsuku ezininzi zivume emitshatweni ngo-2012 Ezinye izibini ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna nditshatile umhla omhle. Le mihla, i kufika ngo-2012 nje iphuphume. Beautiful umhla - umhla apho kukho umdlalo emini leyo, inyanga nonyaka, uthotho amanani, njalo-njalo. A lomtshato, njengaye nawuphi na zithethe lukhatshwa ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kuthatha. Kumtshato isetelwe ngokoqobo yonke into, wonke umntu, nditsho eyona ingabalulekanga xa uqala makangakhohlisi. Ngokomzekelo, imozulu.

Ngekhephu okanye imvula ziye ingqalelo yimpazamo elungileyo. Ke ukuba imini lomtshato yaba umoya, ngoko intsapho Kuza kuba nomoya. Izipho kwakhona hlomela kubaluleke kakhulu. Awunako, umzekelo, ukunika roses ebomvu okanye iifolokhwe neemela. Ukuba entsha phambi kokuba iwele u-ofisi yobhaliso wendlela - oko waziqwalasela umqondiso embi. Ukuba umzekelo, omnye umfana endleleni eya zincwadi sakhubeka, akukho mfuneko yokuba umyeni okanye umtshakazi akaqinisekanga iimvakalelo zakhe. Ke ukuba umtshakazi lehla umsesane wakhe - ukuba kwakungeyomfuneko ukuba silinde ngonaphakade nesililo ukuba umtshato uya kuyichitha, okanye ungene ngokwenene kuzaliseka. Konke oku akufuneki baqhoboshele kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bacinga ukuba le miqondiso imele izaliseke. Kwaye ke imiqondiso yomtshato ngo-2012 - kungekho ngaphandle.

Kukho kwakhona inani elikhulu athathe ngaphambi komtshato. Umzekelo, ukuba indoda iza nemitshato ezimbini njengengqina, ngoko umtshato wesithathu ukuba ibe yeyakhe. Okanye ukuba umfana okanye intombazana uhleli etafileni kwikona, ngoko kwiminyaka esixhenxe ezayo, abazange batshate. iimpawu nemiqondiso, kodwa musa angamisela inqaba umtshato, yaye iimvakalelo ezikhoyo phakathi kwabantu abanothando.