Yintoni ligosa likarhulumente

Ingcamango womtshato kwiminyaka yakutshanje uphulukene intsingiselo yawo yokuqala. Kule steel iphathwa olova, ukusa kumkhamo othile, kukungakhathali. Yintoni umtshato waseburhulumenteni, ngoku ezaziwa ezimbalwa. Uninzi siphambanise le mbono kunye nobhaliso esemthethweni lobudlelwane. Noko ke, oku akuyonyaniso.

umtshato Civil - a ngokuhlalisana amadoda kunye nabafazi, indlu eqhelekileyo. Kulo mzekelo, enyanisweni, bengengabo indoda nomfazi. Abantu abaqhelekileyo kubabiza ilizwi elibi "uhlala nabo."

Kutshanje, imitshato ezo wamcekisa kwaye ingqalelo ingaba sisingcikivo isibini. Namhlanje, abantu abaselula abacinga norm zabo. Ngokutsho manani, yonke umtshato yeshumi ngoku abangekho yaye inani labo liyanda minyaka yonke.

Amaninzi lwabasunguli ubuhlobo obunjalo abantu. Ngokungafaniyo abafazi, bayaqhubeka bazive bekhululekile kwaye ezizimeleyo.

Yintoni umtshato yoluntu kumfazi? Nayiphi na besini fair ezinzulwini amaphupha umphefumlo yenkulu, ilokhwe emhlophe, enemisesane yegolide iholide. Kuba abafazi abaninzi baba na umfazi kubaluleke kakhulu. Noko ke, ebona ukungabikho ngokupheleleyo umnqweno mutual kwi umntu amthandayo, uyavuma ukuba bahlale ndawonye ngaphandle isiqinisekiso somtshato.

Enye yeengxaki ezinkulu kumtshato aseburhulumenteni ukuzalwa komntwana. Kulo mzekelo, abafazi ukoyika ngenxa ikamva labo wayisingisela mandikhethe: nokuba umtshato okanye nobudlelwane esiphelweni. Ngokutsho Code Family, abazali wazalelwa emtshatweni abantwana ngokuzenzekelayo abe ngumyeni nenkosikazi. Kungenjalo, umfazi kuya kufuneka ukuba ubonise lukatata. Ukongeza, ukuba angala ukuqonda uyise womntwana naye yakhe, yaye nokuzithintela ekubeni. Kulo mzekelo, umntu kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba ukungqina amalungelo abo ukuba lo mntwana uhlalutyo DNA olungephi kungenziwa kuphela ngemvume unina. Ngenxa yoko, amadoda kunye nabafazi, phambi kokuba kwakhiwe ubudlelwane, kufuneka wazi ukuba umtshato yoluntu, noko neziphumo.

Xa unxulumano evulekileyo zinezibonelelo yayo. Ukuba banyulu kubantu abaselula kakhulu akaphumelela 'ukuma' ukwenza imali njalo njalo. Babenalo ithuba lokufunda ukuhlala ndawonye, ukuze bafunde omnye komnye, ukuba baqonde nokuba bakulungele kulo mtshato. Kwimeko yokusilela, abantu abaselula angaya basaba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngaphandle umkhuba ezingeyomfuneko.

Njengomgaqo, uthando olomeleleyo nothando akemi uvavanyo ubomi kunye nenkxalabo. Kwathi Iimvakalelo, kwaye xa umntu ozithandayo uba kabi ngisho ikudika. Kwaye ngokupheleleyo musani ukuba nobuhlobo okanye civil umtshato. Ukuchaza izinto eziphambili kunye neenjongo ebomini kuya kukunceda ukuba uphephe ezinjalo iimpazamo.

Ukuba abantu bazithemba iimvakalelo zabo baphila ixesha elithile kunye, abadani omnye komnye, akuyi kufuneka uqhubeke ukubhalisela uviwo elisemthethweni yonxulumano. Ukusuka kwindawo esemthethweni lwembono, inikeza ezininzi benefits xa kuthe mtshato:

• Yonke impahla yakho iya kwabiwa kwisiqingatha (kungakhathaliseki kwinqanaba bengeniso amaqabane), ukuba wenza ikhontrakthi lomtshato okanye ikhontrakthi enika ngenye indlela;
• amaqabane banelungelo yolondolozo Kwimeko yokugula;
• ukuba abantwana ababezalelwe emtshatweni, lowo lowo ihlala emva komtshato, unelungelo lokufumana inkxaso umntwana kumntwana ngamnye.

Ukwazi oko Umtshato waseburhulumenteni, wonke umntu unelungelo lokuba isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi indlela ukukhetha. Xa kunjalo, akukho ngozi iya kuba ekhuselekileyo, kwaye ukugqiba isivumelwano. imithetho ekhoyo ikwavumela ukubhalwa kweentsapho ngaphandle komtshato. Kule meko, onke amalungelo kunye neemfanelo ezimiselwe isivumelwano, nto leyo qiniseka ukuba kuqinisekiswe izivumelwano. Kukho nâzo yonke imithetho ngazo ukuhlala usapho, ngaphandle kokuba imeko mtshato kunye nokwahlula kwepropati, kwaye kananjalo esicacisa iimbopheleleko iya kwabelwa amaqabane xa kuthe ukuzalwa komntwana lowo.