Uphi na umntu - umbuzo awukude!

Ubukho be- hymen buhlukanisa abantu kwizilwanyana. Ingcaciso ecacileyo yoko kutheni kuyadingeka, ngoku akukho mntu unokunika. Kucingelwa ukuba i-hymen inentsingiselo yengqondo kunokuba ibe ngumzimba.

Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abasecaleni lobuchopho babengazi apho i-hymen, kwaye babuze imibuzo malunga nayo. Ukuze uphendule lo mbuzo ngokuqinisekileyo awukwazi, kuba intombazana nganye le nto ihambelana ngqo. Kukho abanye abameli bezesondo ezifanelekileyo, abangenawo "ngokupheleleyo" nonke. Kwabanye, ingakumbi abo baqhubela phambili kwi-cycling okanye kwimidlalo ye-equestrian, kuguquguquka kangangokuthi kunokunikela ingcamango yokungabikho kwayo. Ubukho be-hymen bunokubonakalisa ngokungalindelekanga ngexesha lokubeletha. Oku kuyinyaniso yendalo: ibhinqa elisemsebenzini liyintombi!

Yaye ukuba uhamba ngehlabathi, unokufumana malunga nale nxalenye izinto ezininzi ezithakazelisayo. Ngokomzekelo, kuya kuba kuhle ukubuza abemi baseIndiya, eChile okanye eBrazil malunga nobunzulu be-hymen, kuba bengenayo ingqiqo "yesithende". Ngalisa? Ewe! Kodwa inyaniso.

Kwaye kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba kule mimandla i-mummies inene kakhulu inzondelelo ekuhlambulukeni kwamantombazana amancinci. Ngokukhululeka ukuhlamba umntwana, oomama bamtshabalalise nje ebusaneni bakhe. Yaye ukuba ukutshiza kuqhubeka kuze kufike ixesha lokuba atshade, ngoko yonke into ejikeleze yona kunye nomyeni omncinci kuqala kuqala ukugweba abazali bomtshakazi. Emva kwayo yonke into, kwiingcamango zabo, ubukho be hymena busenokuthetha ukuba le ntombazana yayihlanjululwe kakubi ebuntwaneni bakhe, yahluma ingcolile, kwaye yayingeniswa ngokuchanekileyo.

Eli bali libonisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuliqhawula umthi kunye nomnwe, kwaye, ukulifaka ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Ngoko umgama onjani? Oogqirha bathi indawo yalo ixhomekeke kwi-heredity, kwiimpawu zomzimba zomzimba. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo lo mda uhlala kwi-1.5 cm ukuya kwi-4 cm. Nangona, njengoko sele kukhankanywe, kukho ukuphambuka.

Ukunyuswa kobuntombi-inqubo yokuphula ifilimu yomdaka. Ngako oko, oku kuhamba kunye nokuphuma kancinci. Nangona ikwazi ukudlula ngaphandle kwayo. Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, ukuphuma kwamanzi kungavulwa kakhulu kangangokuba kufuneka uhambe kwi-ambulensi, ingakumbi ukuba le ntombazana ingazalwanga ngokupheleleyo.

Emazweni aseArabhu naseMiddle East, kukholelwa ukuba isenzo sokuqala sezesondo somntwana ongenatyala kufuneka senze noThixo Wothando. Ngoko ke, emva kokufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-13, le ntombazana ixhomekeke kwinkqubo yokuchongwa kwezinto zokufakelwa. Kule njongo, sebenzisa umfanekiso okhethekileyo kaThixo "nesigqeba esincinci" kwisimo sokumiswa. Ngokuqhelekileyo lo mfanekiso unomthi.

AmaArabhu abazikhathazi ngombuzo wokuba phi i-hymen. Benza ukuba uThixo abe "ilungu", ngokulingisa umthamo omncinci womntu.

Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kukho iingxaki: amanye amantombazana emva kokuba le nkqubo inegazi elininzi, abanye bangaphumeleli ngokugqithisekayo ngesisini, kuba umxeli weenkuni akakwazi ukuguqulela ngokuzenzekelayo ngokuxhomekeke kwiingcingo zesini somfazi. Kukho izifo, ngenxa yokuba le nkqubo "in-line": intombazana enye ivuka, abaphathiswa baqinisekisa ukuba igazi liye lavela, umfanekiso uhlamba "ngamanzi angcwele" kwaye intombazana elandelayo ifakwe.

Kodwa umbuzo wendawo apho i-hymen ikhona khona ayikho into engenzi lutho. Engazi ukuba ingafumaneka ngokusondeleyo kumnyango wesini, abantu abatsha, ababandakanyeka ekubambeni, ukuthintela iirabi ngezandla zabo, bangonakalisa i-hymen.

Nangona oogqirha abanako ukutshela ngqo apho i-hymen ikhona. Kunzima ukukubona, ngoko izazi zezintsholongwane zisoloko zibuza izigulane zabo ukuba ziye zalala ngesondo okanye cha. Kodwa nakubani na, sinokuhlala sisinyulu kuze kube yilapho ubusuku bokuqala bomtshato buya kumkholisa umntu kwaye ukwandise ukuzithemba kwakhe. Emva kwakho konke, kuhle ukuba uzibonele! Ubuncinane kwithuba elithile ...