"Sasiyimpilo!": Kubaluleka kokubuliswa kwintlalo yanamhlanje

"Sasiyimpilo! Sawubona, Sawubona! "Sasihlala sibingelela, kodwa akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo ukuba le ndawo yavela phi kwaye nokuba kuyimfuneko ukunibulisa nonke.

Iphi na isithethe sokubingelelana?

Mhlawumbi, akukho mithombo ngoku. Mhlawumbi, esidlulileyo, ukhokho wethu, engakulunganga kakuhle, wadibana nendawo yokutya ngexesha lokuvuna amaqabunga e-congenitor kwaye wakhupha ukukhala. I-Kindred yamangaliswa kwaye yaphendulwa ngomsindo ofanayo. Kususela apho, kwaye nanamhla, siqhubeka sibingelela.

Ukubulisa kuyindawo ebalulekileyo kunye nendima yokunxibelelana kwabantu. Ukuba ukhangela inkcazelo echazayo, igama elithi "Sawubona!" Lithetha ukubonakalisa uthando okanye izinto ezintle. Amagama athi "Sawubona!" Okanye "Sasiyimpilo!" Akubhekiseleli kuphela ukubulisa, kodwa kubonisa inhlonipho. "Iinguqulelo" yangempela la magama ithetha ukuba "Ndiyathanda ukuhlala kakuhle".

Ukubulisa njengombonakaliso woluntu lomntu

Ukubaluleka kwamazwi okuqala athetha kwintlanganiso okanye kwintlanganiso kunzima ukugqithisa. Khawucinge ukuba abantu ababadala badibene nabo. Ukuba omnye wabo akayi kumnceda, akayoluki isandla sakhe, ukuze okwesibini uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba abafuni ukuthetha naye.

Ukutshintshwa kolwazi lokuqala kuxhomekeke kwizibonakaliso ezingezozithethayo. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba badibana "ngokwezambatho," kodwa xa ubumba ubunzulu, udibana nombono wokuqala, kwaye ukhula malunga nomntu ngokubhekiselele ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Khawucinge ukuba umhlobo wakho omtsha uyakubongela ngokungabonakaliyo, ngokungekho mlomo ovulekileyo, ukhangele kude kwaye ungamamotheka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kucinga ukuba lo ngumntu ovaliweyo, ongeyithandeki kuye. Ukumemeza okukhulu "Siphilile!", Ukumamatheka okuvulekileyo, ukujonga ngokuthe ngqo kwangoko kufuneka kuthethane.

Yintoni ukubulisa

Unokuthi ubabalo kubantu abahlukeneyo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa kufuneka ube nengcamango ecacileyo yokulungelelana ngokufanelekileyo ubudala nobukhulu bendawo.

• Ukubingelela kusemthethweni. "Sawubona!" - ngoko unako ukusebenzisa naliphi na ixesha losuku kubantu abadala, abanomdla, abomelwane, abantu abangaqhelekanga ngabo ongaboniswanga ngokuthe ngqo. Ngokwenza njalo, hamba nobuliso lwakho olunobungqina ngokubukeka ebusweni bomhlobo, ukumomotheka. Ukuba abantu bakubingelela, bahlala behamba ngokubulisa ngesandla sokubambisana.
• Ukubulisa ngumhlobo. "Sawubona! Ukubulisa! Babenempilo! "- oku kuthetha ukubulisa okufanayo njengokuba kusemthethweni, kodwa kushushu. Ngoko sibingelela izihlobo, izalamane, abo sithetha nabo "Wena".

Unokwazi ukuthetha ngezandi ngezindlela ezahlukeneyo: uthetha amagama amaninzi, umomotheka okanye ungabikho, gesticulate uze ugubungele isandla sakho okanye udibanise. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba "ukuthetha ngoxolo" kuthetha ukuthanda impilo, kwaye ke unqwenela ngokuzonwabisa kubantu bakho abaqhelekileyo.