Ngubani na lo nonina-ngamnye?

Ngenxa yokungenela umshado ebomini yonke mfazi utshintsha kakhulu. Ukongeza uxanduva olutsha ngokunxulumene nomyeni wakhe, naye ufumana ngexesha elifanayo kwintlaninge nezalamane entsha, ikhokelwa ngu eyona ibaluleke ngakumbi kuzo - ku-mthetho. Lo gama kuthathwa phantse igama indlu kweli lizwe. Ngokuqhelekileyo, unina indoda yomfanekiso, kwakunye nonina umfazi, ngoko nangoko kuvela anecdotal, ngendlela ebaxiweyo, abangaqhelekanga, kwakudala. Kodwa ngubani na lo uninazala kubomi umfazi oselula kunye naye nendlela ukuze ndiphilisane ngoxolo nemvisiswano?

Ngokwahlukileyo koko inkolelo ethandwayo malunga intiyo wendalo enokubakho yintombi-nonina yabantu abatsha mihla, ingakumbi abo bahlala kwizixeko ezinkulu, abafazi progressive. Ukuba phambi kokuba umbuzo wokuba ngubani na umama-in-ngobungqola lula lichazwe udadobawo abadala kunye iingxowa umtya, ezo rhoqo ukrokrela intombi ukuba ubakhathalele unyana ezimbi, kodwa ke yonke into ngokwesiseko engalunganga. Hayi amadoda ivamile nonina, abo musa ukudlula nje kuphela kubomi kwabantwana babo, kodwa tsakela ukuqala ukuze kuxhotyiswe yayo kamsinya emva krovinushku wakhe: ukuba Wakhula umntwana phezulu, eqhotyoshelwe ezandleni elungileyo, kwaye uyakwazi ukucinga ngokwabo. Ezi omama musa soyike ezintsha oomatshini adla esebenzayo, unobomi umdla ecacileyo kwaye abe intombi yakhe into yokuba umhlobo wam osele ekhulile, okanye, kwi okubi, umhlobo olungileyo lowo uyakwazi ukuthetha kwi-Skype iresiphi ukuba ipayi omtsha okanye movie entsha .

Okwesibini, kukho umfazi kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umyeni wakho, lo mfazi - nonina, uninazala, yena kuphela kuwe kuphela xa usenjenjalo uzibeke isimo sayo. Uninzi amantombazana emva kwethutyana ukuqala ukuphatha bakhe engumama yesibini kuye.

Ukuze siphendule lo mbuzo, "Ngubani na lo uninazala" ngaphandle okubi, landela le migaqo:

- ugcine umgama wakho zokujongana nayo kwaye, kakade, intsapho yakhe. Kodwa ugcine kumgama efanayo malunga nabazali babo. Umyeni wakho nawe - oku "seli yoluntu" bakho, amalungu entsapho aseleyo kufuneka ubuncinane kancinane, kodwa umgama, kwaye ngokufanayo ukuze bandiqumbise Nekhwele;

- musa ukuzama nangoko nabitsya abahlobo. Imizamo ukuba ubukeke ngcono kwaye nobubele kunawe, akayi kuzuza - ubudlelwane obuhle ukuphuhlisa ukuzila ukutya, kodwa ihlala ixesha elide kwixesha elizayo;

- musa ukuzama ukusombulula ingxaki kwihlazo. Nokuba umama-in-mthetho, kwaye kufuneka nakulwa, ngenene, ejolise kuyo nayiphi na imeko ukubambelela ukuthoba isandi in incoko siphephe imvakalozwi kokumgxeka xa nayiphi simo;

- ngokufuthi izipho. Trivia, yondlalwa yi yezizathu ezilula, kodwa kubalulekile, unako bayinyibilikisa intliziyo kwanabafazi kakhulu aqumbe. Kwaye unina eyona inzima uya kakuhle intanda ngenyameko unyana wakhe, ngubani owaziyo ukuba ukukholisa njani yinto emnandi.

Kwaye ulawulo kakhulu-le nto ibalulekileyo: khumbula ukuba ngubani lo uninazala. Lo mfazi, unenze isipho kakhulu - wazala yaye wamvusa wakho omthandayo. Kakade ukuba yedwa ifanelwe intlonelo enzulu kunye nembeko.