Kutheni liphupha uqhwithela? Ngaba ndiya kunkwantya ngabani na phupho?

Mina, ndiyamthanda element. Kwaye ngexesha esiphangweni, nesiphango, nekhephu kunye ebhudla ngamandla kwimimoya kum iyakhweba esitratweni. Kutheni? Kunzima ukuyiphendula. Mhlawumbi, oku lifana avuthayo umnqweno ukuba kokulwa yezinto. Maxa wambi ukuze nabrodishsya, vymoknesh, yenza amakhulu imifanekiso emangalisayo, nokuba ebusuku uze kwemvula kunye iintlekele zemvelo kubona. Kwaye ukuba ucinga ngento amaphupho storm okanye nje izandyondyo zemvula? I uthandabuze ingaba iphupha onjalo bangawuhambeli.

Kutheni iphupha uqhwithela: ukutolikwa jikelele

Bona isaqhwithi ephupheni lakhe, njengako abaninzi incwadi abacwangcisi iphupha, bajamelana neengxaki ezininzi, amaxhala kunye neengxaki. Noko ke, xa ujongile isaqhwithi ukusuka kwi window kwikhaya ephupheni, ngoxa kufudumele, intuthuzelo kunye nokhuseleko, uya kufumana kakuhle-ntle, ukuba woyike imbandezelo kunye nosizi akukho mfuneko kwixa elizayo.

Kutheni iphupha kukho isiphango, umbane? A flash okuqaqambileyo lungena ikhaya lakho ngumqondiso wokuba ulindele iindaba, kuyi- ngokupheleleyo, nako leyo iniqubule. Ukuba umbane ukukoyikisa, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba ntoni ukwenza ubomi bakho yobulungisa ngakumbi, elikholekileyo amagunya awongamileyo. Semvula, ngokungathi ukuhlamba kude zonke iingxelo ezimbi malunga yokuba ungquzulwano, elide kunye nezintsonkothileyo, ekugqibeleni isonjululwe, ukuzisa uxolo elide ilindelwe.

Ukutyityimba iindudumo utshayelela ukonakala iindaba zenu, kunye intswahla ezingenasiphelo zisongele iinkathazo kunye ooyeha. Ukuba ngokuxokozela unamandla kangangokuba Ulogungqisa ihlabathi, oko lo nesilumkiso ilahleko nelinye enzima ndinyuka kakhulu. Ngokubanzi, ukoyika noqhwithela uyavakala ephupheni kuthetha ukuba uhlawula imeko enzima kunye neengxaki ezininzi ingqalelo kakhulu ngaphezu kwabo bafanelwe ngokwenene.

Kutheni iphupha uqhwithela: ubudlelwane

Ngokutsho uSigmund Freud, apho ndabona ephupheni, okanye Zakwe iindudumo storm zisichazela ngesiquphe inkanuko ngakwicala elide neyaziwa kakuhle kuloo mntu ukuziphatha engalindelekanga leyo yothuse kwaye ukoyikisa. Xa uphupha ibhinqa eliselula ekhangela ukukhuselwa esiphangweni kwi nesithandwa sakhe, enyanisweni, yena akanayo ngokwaneleyo ingqalelo, isisa nothando.

Kuphephe umsindo sikweni ngakwicala yolawulo, esebenzisa ubuchule obuthile, ukuhlakanipha wit, ziya, ukuba ephupheni uya kukwazi ukuhlala owomileyo kwiindudumo, ngoxa kukho izandyondyo zemvula. Kodwa iindudumo nemibane ephupheni ngokuqhelekileyo zinto zingumqondiso impixano, wembambano, zonke iintlobo ukuphazamiseka.

Kutheni iphupha uqhwithela: ukutolikwa azixhaphakanga

Iphupha elo nentsingiselo Islamic ekutolikeni ephupheni malunga isaqhwithi esekelwe iziganeko zangaphambili kunye langoku. Ukuba ubuthongo uhlala eninzi, kusongela ubuhlwempu, ukungabikho kwemali, okanye ungonakala. Ukuba iphupha umbono umntu osisityebi, ubomi bakhe uya kutshintsha, uya kufumana indawo intloko yayo, kwaye zonke izibonelelo ezinxulumene nayo.

I Wang odumileyo kwincwadi yakhe ephupheni uchaza iphupho kweendudumo ukuziqengqa kuloo mvula yayigalela, ngolu hlobo lulandelayo. Ukuba nezikhukhula indlu, indawo kunye Ngulotshangazisa imbuqo, yinto intwasahlobo iintlekele zemvelo kunye neemeko ezinkulu, sithwele umonakalo ebalulekileyo, inkathazo, ukuphoxeka nokubandezeleka, hayi nje umntu oyedwa, kodwa abantu ngokubanzi.