Izilungiso ngokubhekiselele kuHeringer - enye yeendlela zengqondo

Kwi-psychotherapy kwiminyaka engama-90 yenkulungwane yokugqibela kwindlela entsha eyabonakala, eyayibizwa ngokuba "ilungiselelo ngokubhekiselele kuHellinger." Emva kokufumana igama layo ngenxa yomsunguli, lisetyenziswe ngempumelelo ngongcali namhlanje. Ngaphezu koko, unyaka wonke ujabulisa ukunyuka kwenyameko, kuba isicelo sayo, ngokungaqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo, sinokukhangela ekusebenzeni kwayo. Kukho abalandeli, iingcali ziqeqeshiwe.

B. I-Hellinger ngexesha elilodwa laphulaphula kwaye lwazi indlela ye-psychoanalysis, unyango lwentsapho kunye ne-gestalt. Ukuqulunqa ulwazi lwakhe kunye nezakhono, yena (kunye nabantu abanjengengqondo efanayo) yenze indlela yokulungiselela iBert Hellinger, esekelwe kwintsebenziswano yazo zonke iimeko zengqondo.

Wayekwazi ukukhetha iipatheni ezikhokelela iintsapho kwiinkqubela ezonakalisayo. Le ndlela isetyenziswe ngempumelelo elinganayo kwiqela kunye nomsebenzi ngamnye. Abaxhasi banokuba ngabantu abangaphezu kweminyaka eyi-14 ubudala, abafuna ukufumana izicombululo kwiingxaki zabo. Akuyimfuneko ukuya kwiiklasi ezinjengezinto ezinqwenelekayo, kuba into ephambili apha kukukhuthaza, kungekhona ukuzithemba. Izilungiso zeHeringer zikunceda ukujongana neengxaki zolwalamano lwentsapho, zisebenza kakuhle phambi kwezifo eziphathekayo, xa zisetyenziselwa ukulungisa iingxabano kwiqela. Ngethuba usebenze kule ngxaki, ingqalelo ekhethekileyo ihlawulwa kwimfihlo, kungabonakali kolwazi olufunyenwe ngexesha lotyando. Le ndlela yindlela yokusebenza kwengqondo ye-psychotherapeutic, kumsebenzi wayo isetyenziswe ngabo bafumene uqeqesho olufanelekileyo, ekubeni ukuchazwa kweziphumo kunye nelungiselelo ngokwayo kuxhomekeke kwikhono lobuchule kunye namava ochwepheshe.

Izilungiso ngokubhekiselele kwiHellinger zilandelayo: Okokuqala, umxhasi we-psychotherapist evela kwiqela labantu ukhetha abo, kubonakala ngathi, bafanelekile ukusebenzela imeko ethile.

Emva koko uyazilungiselela kwindawo egcinelwe umsebenzi, njengoko intsingiselo yakhe iyamxelela. Ngokukhawuleza nale nto, umsebenzi uqala. Abantu okanye amanani (ukuba kufike kwi-psychotherapy ngamnye), ibekwa ngumxhasi kwisithuba, kukubonakalisa umfanekiso wesincinane kwimeko yengxaki.

Inkqubo eyenziwa yiHeringer ifumene igama labo ngenxa yokuba iingxaki zesistimu zisebenza, iintlanganiso ezimbalwa ziqhutywa kwixesha elide. "Umtsalane wentsapho" - elinye igama elichazwe yile ngqondo yengqondo - yile yentsapho eyadlulayo (kwihlabathi jikelele - lonke intsapho, kwintsapho eyongezelelweyo) ayizange iphele. Inkumbulo yamadlozi ilawulwa ngoku, njengoko ifuna ukugqitywa kweshishini elingapheliyo. Ngenxa yoko, inzala iya kutshabalalisa ukugqiba into eqalwe ngookhokho. Oku kuhamba kulula ukuyiqonda - kwenzeka xa kukho umzamo omkhulu wokufezekisa enye injongo, kodwa akukho nto iphuma. Umzekelo, umntu ojongisisa kakuhle impilo yakhe uhlala egula; Lowo ongakuyeki nawuphi na umsebenzi, akanako ukufikelela kwimigangatho.

Kuyamangalisa ukuba iinqununu (abantu abakhethwa ngumthengi ukuba bahlele) badlale indima yendoda engabani na ukuba bayayazi malunga nabo, kodwa nangona kunjalo bavelisa ngokuqinisekileyo iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zomntu abatshintshayo.

Izilungiso ngokubhekiselele kuHeringer - indlela ekhethekileyo kunye engaqhelekanga, isebenza, nangona kubonakala ngathi i-pseudo-scientific and shades ye-esotericism.