Indima Isini - kukuba ... iindima wezeSini amadoda kunye namakhosikazi

uluntu Modern babeqhele ukucinga stereotypically kwaye wabelane iindima ngokwesini. Ukufumana Ukwazi behlanganisa uluvo lokuqala abaninzi niphazamayo, ekubeni elinye iqela ukuze bathi abo iimpawu wenza, ngaphandle kokuya nokuba anazo kubo. Zonke isekelwe kuphela imboniselo eqhelekileyo. Ukunikela ingqalelo sub-iiphatheni, unako ukuyilawula kubo, khon 'ukuze kuthintelwe ifuthe kubomi bethu kunye kwimbono yehlabathi. Enye clichés kakhulu zixhaphakileyo ukuqonda ukuziphatha eqhelekileyo ababhinqileyo kunye abangamadoda. indima Isini - yinto nemvukelo, nanzo senziwa phambi kwiindima zentlalo, nto leyo umahluko ezisisiseko kwi psyche nabakhonzazana, nabakhonzi kunye nemisebenzi yabantu. indima ebalulekileyo kule edlalwa nenkcubeko yoluntu.

engaguquki

ukwazi eziqhelekileyo kubume bayo kuyinxalenye yentlanganisela - engaguquki. Ngamanye amazwi, esebenzisa amava ezihlangeneyo, umntu ubomi bakhe ufumana icebiso ethile ngexesha loqeqesho kunye nonxibelelwano, ngokusebenzisa ngawo kamva swi ebomini isenze yokuziphatha kwabo kuluntu. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba iindima ngokwesini eluntwini kwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo kunye namaqela asekuhlaleni zahluke, ngamanye amaxesha kakhulu. kuvela Zonke ezi clichés ngokusekelwe iindima kunye nesimo ekuhlaleni. Oko kukuthi, ngenxa kwezi iingcinga kukho norm kwabasetyhini kunye namadoda indlela kufuneka aziphathe kuluntu ethile. Kwaye xa sibona oku okanye kubonakaliswa ubume boluntu, siya ngokuzenzekelayo usithelekise umbono zabo iindima isini womntu.

umahluko ngokwesini kunye nabantwana

Kukholelwa ukuba, ngokuxhomekeke besini womntwana, abadala akukhathalwa eyahlukileyo. Ngamanye amazwi, wabonakala efanayo yokuziphatha yomntwana iya ziqondeka abadala ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kuxhomekeka ukuba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana phambi kwabo. Kwaye ngokunjalo, umntwana elinde ukuba ukuziphatha ethile kunye nezenzo, kuxhomekeka ubuni balo. Ngenxa yoko, kukho isiphakamiso lomntwana, njengoko kufuneka, zaza zanyanzelisa ubuxoki, ukucinga beyenza. Oko kukuthi indima ngokwesini - beyenza ndicinga ukuba uphefumlela umntwana ngexesha imfundo elihle kwezentlalo.

bobulili

Eli gama ubonisa zobuntu yoluntu okuluphawu ukususela kwindawo ethile imbono kunye ukubonisa ukuba ulilungu iqela lamadoda namakhosikazi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yindlela umntu aphonononge ngokwakhe, yaye kwenzeka njani ukuba ukufundiswa koluntu yayo inkcubeko ethile. iimpawu ngokwasengqondweni, ezentlalo, ezenkcubeko kunye zokuziphatha kunye zimele umgangatho nasengqondweni. Xa unabanye nabanye, kwaye ngexesha lokugcina kubo, umntu ubeka iimbono zakhe malunga iqela yena yoxwebhu ingaphezulu kokuthandayo. Kwaye ngenxa kweziphumo zayo, uye akhethe ukuziphatha kwabo kunye nomdla iqela ukuba lisondele. Ngoko ke zihanjiswe iindima ngokwesini ekuhlaleni. Ngelo lixa njengokubonisa okanye iingcinga ezisoloko lwenzeka kuzo zonke izigaba zophuhliso. Nkqu nabantwana yobudala uthole sele angagonywa Umbono ukwahlulwa ecacileyo ngokwesini-ngqo. Ngoko ke, unxibelelwano phakathi amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana angaphantsi eqhelekileyo kakhulu kunokuba ejingayo abantwana besini esinye, kunye nomdla nabo ekwabelwana, umntu kufuneka angene kwenye, enye - enye. Ngoko ke, thina badla lula indima yokuba iingcinga ngokwesini ekubunjweni zobuntu kunye inqubo. Xa, kwiminyaka kamva, amadoda kunye nabafazi bayathanda ukuncokola, abayiqondi omnye nomnye, izinto zabo diverge.

IziTayile zokuziphatha zentlalo

Xa sigcina ukwahluka unxibelelwano phakathi kwamalungu kwisini ezahlukeneyo eluntwini, uya kuqaphela iintlobo ngeentlobo ubudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Ngamanye amazwi, ngokuxhomekeke injongo yonxibelelwano phakathi ngokwesini, ukuziphatha zombini ziya kwahluka kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuba abantu bathi iimpawu mandatory ezifana msebenzi, ukuba ndlongondlongo, ucikizeko, ukukwazi ukucombulula iingxaki. ukuba abafazi babe ngokweemvakalelo, zezenzi, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba unomdla - yinto ubudlelwane, hayi akunjalo. Abaphengululi bafumanisa ukuba akukho mahluko indlela yokuziphatha phakathi kwiintsana, kodwa sele kungavela ubudala. Yaye omdala umntu, kokukhona zibonakala. Iindima isini kwabasetyhini kunye namadoda zisekelwe kuphela kwiimfuno oluntu, kodwa nokuvavanya ngokwakhe umntu, anikwe ezi mfuno, yaye aluthathi ukuhlangana ipateni iqala ukuqwalasela ngokwakhe unobubi ngaphezu kwabanye. Oko kukuthi, iimpawu zokuqala umahluko ngokwesini ezifana kuvela kuphela xa umntwana efunda ngemfuneko ngokuba khona kwabo. Ebabonisa, senza nje inkqubo kwangaphambili. Kodwa ngoxa abafana ubonise kakuhle wemiqondiso amantombazana, kunye vice versa. Lilonke, bekubonakalisiwe ukuba into ephambili eziphembelela umahluko ngokwesini, le elihle kwezentlalo.

abantu Ukuthobela imiqathango ngokwesini

Ngokutsho uphando ngu IsiShona Berna, kukho iintlobo ezintathu ukuzithoba babantu nemigangatho zentlalo. Okokuqala - oku ukuthobela, ukuthi kuziveza njengento endorsement lomntu engamkelekanga ukuba izithethe zentlalo, eyakuthi kubo ngenxa bokuphepha olugwebayo, sisohlwayo nethemba zokuvunywa ukuziphatha kwayo eluntwini. Okulandelayo na imvume, oko kukuthi sonke isivumelwano wabazisela umntu nemigangatho ngokwesini. Uhlobo lwesithathu - ukuchongwa umntu osebenza ngokuthobela ngokupheleleyo izityholo kuye njengomzekelo nendima yokuziphatha eluntwini.

ERetreat evela engaguqukiyo

uluntu Modern alibonakali kanje le ukungaphangalali Lungisa. Ngoko ke, indima ngokwesini mihla - yingcamango ungapheleli. abafazi abaninzi bafumana umsebenzi wabo umsebenzi elidume eyindoda, oko kukuthi kwezoshishino, kwinzululwazi njalo njalo. Kwaye abanye madoda ukulima, abantwana bazibandakanye, ubuchule kunye neminye imisebenzi, ngokwenkcazelo abafazi. Uluntu wavuma ukuba amadoda nabafazi kwahluka nje kuphela inkangeleko, kodwa bengqondo. Ukuba imbono ukungaphangalali ngayo imithetho, ngoko ke umntu phantsi nokungaqondi kwicala izalamane, nto leyo eza ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kuphuhliso ubuntu.

Nefuthe elibi engaguqukiyo

iisayikholojisti abaninzi namhlanje bakholelwa ukuba kugxininiswa umahluko ngokwesini ngokufanelekileyo. indima Isini - ikakhulu ngokubeka iimfuno zoluntu ngaphandle ngokumalunga iminqweno ngamnye kunye neenjongo. Ngamanye amazwi, umahluko phakathi kwamadoda nabafazi akabaxwa, hayi luluvo ngenxa meko ngakwicala yoluntu. Ngoko ke, ujonge kwenye kunye nesenzo efanayo, umfazi kwaye umntu kusabela ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Oku ayilunganga, njengoko iingcinga khange kwenzeke kuphuhliso ngqo ubuntu, abalinganiswa kunye nokuziphatha kwayo. Ukongeza, ukuba ibenefuthe kuphuhliso iimpawu ezithile neeyantlukwano kwiindima ngokwesini amadoda kunye nabafazi, uphawu zibe nabanye anqanda ifihlakale. Umzekelo, ukuba ngaba wenza inkwenkwe ukufihla iimvakalelo zakhe, kunye ubudala, yena uyakwazi Unokulibala ukuthatha ngayo, kwaye uqale bemkhanyela engakuqondi iimpawu zazo kubukho babanye abantu,. Oku kucingwa ukuba umntu ngamnye ekhethekileyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba isini sabo. Oku kuya kuvumela ukubuyisela imeko ngokwasengqondweni, ibe nemveliso ngakumbi ukuba benze umsebenzi wabo ivumelane. Ngelishwa, nangona nezimo iimbono mihla, abantu abaninzi nzima ngaphakathi wena, kungekuphela clichés zentlalo, kodwa kunye iimbono zabo.