Ziziphi iinkalo ekufuneka awuthwale isivakashi ezempilo?

Okwangoku, le undwendwe zempilo ngoku beye besiba yingcali, ngaphandle kabani uncedo akunakwenzeka ukuphumeza unonophelo ehlanganisiweyo nomonde, ekuqhubeni zonke iinkqubo eziyimfuneko kunye nokuqinisekisa sokubuyisa ixesha ekuphulukenwe nalo.

Begxeka enokwenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo:

• begxeka Navorozhdennyh.
• Ukusekelwa abadala.
• Begxeka zikhubaziwe.
• Ukusekelwa izigulane ezinomhlaza.

Kuxhomekeka zobungcali ngabasebenzi abanezakhono namava ibonelela ngoncedo iwadi nje kuphela, kodwa kwakhona inkxaso yokuziphatha yentsapho yakhe, echaza ukuba siziphathe kwaye ukuthatha unonophelo abagulayo ngayo.

Ukongeza, kukho iinkonzo zokonga ohlukeneyo Orthodox kunye nemibutho wesisa, nto leyo ukongeza kwiindawo eziphambili yemibutho kunceda nokuvuselelwa ngamakhoboka eziyobisi kunye izigulane ezine-HIV.

Uxanduva nemisebenzi isivakashi zempilo

Olu ndwendwe impilo - oyingcali qualified entsimini emithi oza endlwini nokuncedisa unonophelo usana (kwimeko kuzalwa iivoti) isenza iinkqubo zonyango ezilula.

Igosa lezempilo iqwalasela kuphela imeko kwiwadi, kodwa iimeko lokuhlala kwakhe. imithwalo yakhe nayo iquka isaziso kwangethuba igqirha ukutshintsha impilo kwisigulana, ukulawula ukufumaneka kunye nokwamkelwa onke amayeza afunekayo, inkxaso yengqondo ukuya kumguli nosapho neenkqubo zoqeqesho eziyimfuneko care. Uthunyelwe esibhedlele kwindawo yokuhlala abasebenzi beenkonzo zokonga kuhlawulwa ukusuka exhasayo non-ngeniso.

Ukutyelela oneziqu kubelekwa

banikwa olusanda inkqubo olusisinyanzelo ngezempilo simahla kwindawo ahlala kuyo. Ezayo sezifo ekhaya ukuphonononga usana, ukuhlolwa impilo yoomama, anike iingcebiso eziyimfuneko ukuze banyamekele wosana. Ukongeza kule ngxaki isivakashi lezempilo ukujonga ukuthotyelwa kwemiqathango yokuhlala usapho kunye nakwisihlalo usana imigangatho zonke kusekwa kunye neemfuno.

Utyelelo lokuqala wabantwana uya kubanjwa iintsuku ezintathu emva kokushiya usana kunye nonina esibhedlele. Emva koko, kwisithuba ngenyanga makhaya umongikazi izihlandlo eziliqela ukuba eze endlwini.

Kwimeko ukuthingaza abazali ukuba benze uhlolo lufuneka ukubhala ingxelo ebhaliweyo ebalula isizathu injongo zokwala.

Begxeka khehla

Xa labadala ngokukodwa kufuneka nokunonophela nokunika inkxaso omthandayo, kodwa iintsapho zokusebenza ndingabi nawo ithuba lokuba banike ingqalelo kwaye uncedo kumntu omdala. Ngoko ke, iintsapho ezininzi ukutyelela umongikazi ukuba umntu osele ekhulile iba sisixhobo sele kwenkathalo abadala izalamane.

Umntu onolwazi iya kuba liqabane elihle umntu ngeminyaka, ngoko abadinga inkxaso ngokwasengqondweni kunye nonxibelelwano, uya kukhangela emva kubo, kungekho izalamane, iya kuthatha indawo yokuhamba, liya kukubeka esweni impilo yewadi aze enze uluhlu eziyimfuneko iinkqubo zonyango.

Kwimeko efuna ngeenxa ukhathalelo iwotshi, uziphathe impilo undwendwe-umongikazi.

iinkonzo ezifana bakholisa ukuhlawulisa ngeenkonzo ezizodwa. Kukho kwakhona ukhululekile kuwo ukusekelwa imibutho wesisa, kodwa injongo yabo kukuba inkathalo nenkxaso kubantu abadala abahlala bodwa nemeko enzima ebomini ngaphandle koncedo nezalamane.

Begxeka ikhubaziwe kwaye kakhulu ugula

Kwimeko apho unyango lomntu ogula udlula ekhaya, amalungu entsapho ayisoloko nako ukwenza yonke ezintsonkothileyo iinkqubo amnyamekele, ukumelana noxinezeleko nasengqondweni ukuba kwenzeka xa ukuqonda yokungabi namandla kunye ukugula kakhulu xa n'wina.

Kwiimeko ezinjalo ke kungcono ukuba usebenzise umtyeleli iinkonzo zempilo. Xa ukunyamekela beenkonzo zokonga umsebenzi ogula kakhulu okanye bakhubazeke yenza le misebenzi ilandelayo:

• Umsebenzi wokufumana ukhathalelo nomonde, kuquka zisempilweni.
• Ijonga utshintsho imo yempilo yomguli (yomlinganiselo lobushushu emzimbeni, uxinzelelo, njalo njalo. D.).
• Eqinisekisa ubukho kwaye ufumane onke amayeza ayimfuneko.
• Yazisa ugqirha lotshintsho imo yempilo yesigulane.
• Ufundisa izihlobo efanelekileyo indlela yokhathalelo nomonde.
• inkxaso yengqondo kwisigulana kunye nezalamane zakhe.

Ukutyelela isivakashi zempilo

Xa wayetyelele umtyeleli impilo kubhetele ukuba silungiselele kusengaphambili. Kwimeko yemibutho olusanda kuyimfuneko ukulungiselela izingxobo yezihlangu, itawuli, yokundwendwela, unyango Pole. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuba ukuvuselelwa tyelelo iya kwenzeka ngexesha ezininzi ezingalindelekanga, kodwa inkoliso abanikezeli beenkozo zononophelo lwempilo kuza kusasa. Ukongeza, kufuneka luthathele ingqalelo ukuba caseworker ziya kuhlolisisa iimeko apho kukho umntwana, yaye buza imibuzo ukuqinisekisa ukuba usapho ngokukhuselekileyo.

Kwimeko yemibutho abadala okanye abakhubazekileyo xa oku igosa utyelela iwadi yonke imihla, oko kuyimfuneko kwakhona ukulungiselela Yazana nendawo yakhe. Kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba izixhobo eziyimfuneko kunye namayeza. Ngaba thethwana kwangaphambili ixesha apho undwendwe zempilo baya endlwini, indlela imini, xa uhamba nomntu omdala, iindlela ukulungiselela lokuzonwabisa yakhe.

iinkonzo zokonga Orthodox

isebe inkonzo Orthodox anokwenziwa etempileni, weemonki, iziseko wesisa ngokoluvo kunye neminye imibutho nzuzo. Iinkonzo zinikezelwa simahla, imisebenzi ziqhutywa nge iminikelo. Ukongeza kwimimandla engundoqo abasebenzi benkonzo ukuncedisa xa kwimo ngamakhoboka eziyobisi, ngokubonelela ngeenkonzo abantwana iintsapho ephantsi ingeniso kunye nabantwana abaninzi, umsebenzi abagulela ukufa kunye nakumaziko HIV.

Kwimeko nezifo ezinganyangekiyo abongikazi begxeka ezifumana unyango lokudambisa, nto leyo ibaluleke kakhulu kuthintelo ukuzibulala phakathi izigulane ezinomhlaza.

inkxaso Psychological nangokomoya, ziqhutywa ngamalungu yesebe inkonzo Orthodox kunceda ekunciphiseni imeko yabantu bamshiya kwaye abagulela ukufa.