Ze yomtshato okungaqhelekanga, apho abantu ukuze bakholwe

Imitshato zitshintshile kakhulu xa kuthelekiswa oko kwakukhangeleka ngaphambili, kodwa umnqweno ukwenza yonke into ngokugqibeleleyo, kukho indawo yokuqala. Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo, abantu izimvo ezahlukeneyo malunga noko kufanele kwenziwa nokuba yintoni kufuneka ukuba nikwenzileyo unanamhla ebalulekileyo waya kakuhle kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Nkqu umtshakazi mihla landela amanye amasiko ubudala, ezifana enxibe ilokhwe emhlophe kunye isigqubuthelo. Nangona kunjalo, apho wenza eli siko? Ezinye zazo iingcambu zawo iinkolelo kunokuba engaqhelekanga. ngcembe isithethe crazy yaphela, kodwa ezinye zazo zisaxhathisile.

ring

On komshado aphakathi imali eninzi kakhulu ingqalelo imihlola zokufa. Nkqu zinto nibe ezifana uwe ezandleni umsesane umyeni luvo kaThixo, zaye alubonwanga ezichaphazela luvo, kwaye ngumqondiso ocacileyo wayeza ukuba afe kuqala. Ukuba ijikazi iwela esesandleni umtshakazi, kwakuthetha ukuba uza kufa kuqala.

Ngoko ke enye yezona ndlela iqinisekileyo kuwabhuqa isimo wonke umntu kumtshato. Kodwa akayeki. Ukuba ring iwisiwe ngaphandle umyeni okanye umtshakazi umntu, le nto walatha into omnye kubo kuqala, kuphela ukuba umsesane lo liqengqiwe ukuya lengcwaba.

Ukuba kuye kwabonakala ukuba isangqa ecaleni Lingcwaba ngofileyo, umtshakazi uya kufa kuqala, kwaye ukuba abantu - umyeni uyafa kuqala.

May

Ke kaloku kumtshato ngoMeyi yile othandwayo kuyo nayiphi na enye inyanga, kodwa kwaba njalo njalo. Abantu abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba umtshato ngoMeyi - aphumelele nabo satshata ekuhambeni kwale nyanga, ngoko uya kukhunjulwa ngokukrakra ngaloo mini.

Le ezeni kuye khona ukususela kumaxesha ungumRoma, nangenxa ngoko Lemuria umthendeleko, xa bedumisa abafileyo, ebanjwe ngoMeyi. Ukungaphumeleli ukutshutshisa abo batshatayo ngoMeyi. Esi sibini unabantwana okanye hayi, okanye ukuba wayeza kuba nako ukukhawula umntwana, ke wazalwa abagulayo. Kwelinye icala, umtshato ngoJuni kwakuthetha ukuba ahambe kakhulu, yaye ngoSeptemba - ukuba uza kuba sisityebi. Ngoko ke ngaloo mihla exabisa ukuba alinde inyanga okanye ezimbini.

ngoMgqibelo

Ukuba uyakholwa lwemveli IsiNgesi, ngoMgqibelo - Lusuku olubi umtshato. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, yenye iintsuku ezininzi ezithandwayo, ukuze atshate, kodwa ke abantu ngaphambili akhetha ukutshata ngoLwesithathu. NgoMvulo njengoko imini ilungileyo impilo, ngoLwesibini - butyebi, ngoLwesithathu Yayi ngamaxhesha onke, ngoLwesine yakhokelela ekulahlekelweni Friday - ekufeni, nesabatha ingqalelo asiphumelelanga ngokupheleleyo.

Kumaxesha yeVictorian, izinto waba nzima kakhulu. Ke abantu baqala ukukholelwa ukuba ufuna ukutshata kwangolo suku lweveki apho umyeni ezelwe, nokuba ngaba ngoMgqibelo.

umakoti

Kuyamangalisa ukuba kumaxesha amandulo, umtshakazi ngokubanzi utshatile, ucinga ukuba izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo ziye ingqalelo yimpazamo embi. Namhlanje, bonke uqhelene namasiko, njengoko apho umyeni kufuneka ubone lomtshakazi ilokhwe yakhe womtshato ngaphambi komtshato, kodwa ngemihla yamandulo kwakufuneka ukuzimela ngaphezu isoka lakhe nje. LITHILE izihlabo embi ukubona ihagu, umvundla, ogrunjiweyo engcwabeni, umfazi omithiyo, inja, isikhova, inyoka, kunongendi okanye indela.

Kwakhona kwakukholelwa ukuba umtshakazi nakanjani ukuba uya kuliva izwi yalila ngemini yomtshato, kwaye xa wadibana nenye awayeza kutshata. Noko ke, nangona ikati emnyama osibonayo esitratweni kugqalwa umqondiso Ukungaphumeleli yonke, ukuba umtshakazi wabona ikati emnyama ngosuku lomtshato wakhe, LITHILE uphawu elungileyo. luck Kwakhona negobo, amasele, umnyama, yanye imvana emnyaka kunye itshimini engacimekiyo, ngoko abanye oomolokazana itshimini engacimekiyo wabizwa ngosuku lomtshato.

umbundu

Ukuba sithwale umtshakazi embundwini womnyango - na isiko emnandi, akunjalo? Yintoni niyathandana ngaphezu abantu ababini uhambo joint ebomini, ebonisa ukuba baxhasane kwaye ziyancedana?

Noko ke, imvelaphi yesiko na impikiswano kakhulu ngakumbi. amabhinqa aseYurophu ayifanelanga ukunyanga ngesondo ngothakazelelo, ngoko umyeni bathi umtshakazi esililini somtshato ukubonisa titsongahata intombi yakhe.

igama

Xa kuthathwa yimpazamo embi ukukhonkca isiphelo wabo umtshato umntu ogama lakhe luqala ncwadi efanayo neyakho. Yathi ukuba umtshakazi ukutshintsha amagama ngaphandle kokutshintsha unobumba wokuqala kwakuthetha ukutshintsha akusingisi kokhona kulungileyo; kusingisa kokhona kubi.

spider

Ukuba ufumana isigcawu kwi ilokhwe yakhe yomtshato ngomhla emsithweni; musani ukoyika. Yena yimpazamo elungileyo. ze Ancient ithi ukuba ufumane yesigcawu onxiba lomtshato, uya kukuzisela wena amathamsanqa.

amhlophe

Uninzi oomolokazana mihla, ubuncinane kwi-West, ukutshata kwi ilokhwe emhlophe. Kodwa ke, eli isiko mihla kakhulu. iilokhwe ezimhlophe umgangatho de era yeVictorian, emva kokuba Queen Victoria batshate ilokhwe emhlophe ngo-1840. Ngaphambi koko, umtshakazi ayenxiba emtshatweni iingubo zabo okusemandleni, kodwa kwangaxeshanye akufuneki basebenzise imibala ezithile. Black embi luck emva ngaloo mihla. Ezinye imibala ezingathandwa ingamahashe, abomvu, omthubi, oluhlaza kunye ezipinki.

Into ubudala, into entsha

Enye isiko elithandwayo mihla kubonisa ukuba umtshakazi kufuneka baphathe ngayo into ubudala, into entsha, into ezixakekileyo into eluhlaza. Old ubhatala ngokumalunga elidlulileyo, nqwelo elitsha elizayo, unikwe umntu lixakekile ngubani na nditshatile, ndonwabile ukuba adlulisele ngakumbi ulonwabo lwakhe, nemisonto emsi imele ukunyaniseka kunye nothando. oomolokazana amaninzi ukubamba imigca yokugqibela-ulibele, apho Kuvakala ukuba umtshakazi kufuneka kwakhona ibe lwemali isihlangu. Imali kuthetha ukuba le yezihlangu uya ubutyebi kusapho.

imimoya emibi

Ukukholelwa Akhe iye yaba negalelo elikhulu kakhulu emtshatweni. Kuyo yonk 'indawo abantu babekholelwa ukuba imimoya emdaka ukuwutyhalela ulonwabo umtshakazi nomyeni kude. Kuba eminyaka, abantu baye benza konke okusemandleni abo ukuze uzikhusele imimoya emdaka kwaye ukuvumela ukuba ukuphembelela abo batshatayo kunye ikamva labo. Uninzi lwezi amasiko aye alondolozwa unanamhla. Umzekelo, zabakhaphi zivelile njengoko kokuloba: kwakucingwa ukuba xa kwesibingelelo uya kuba ezininzi amantombazana aselula, bathi noomoya abakhohlakeleyo edidekile yaye akayi ukuba nguwuphi na kubo umtshakazi. A ikhuselo Kwakhona lusetyenziselwa ukudida ngakumbi noomoya abakhohlakeleyo ukuze bakwazi ukubona ubuso lomtshakazi.

iintsimbi

iintsimbi Wedding kwakhona indlela ukuze uzikhusele imimoya emdaka. Xa abantu ixesha elide sasikholelwa ukuba iintsimbi wayenamandla ezingcwele, nto leyo ubagcine kuyo imimoya emibi. Kangangeenkulungwane ezininzi, imibhalo ezintsimbi ibhekisela ababenako ukuba azigxothe imozulu embi kunye nemimoya emdaka. Xa zisetyenziswa ngexesha lomtshato, banalo injongo ezimbini. Asikuko nje ukuba uqaphele ukuba isiganeko onwabe, kodwa undoqo Yek ububi okuya kwenzakalisa abo batshatayo.

Yonke into dingi - olu uthando

Kwi kwinkulungwane yamashumi amabini ananye, abantu abaninzi abakholelwa iinkolelo neenkolelo lixesha. Unako ukulandela izithethe ngenxa ngokokuzithandela kwabo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akukho mfuneko ngaphezu ukuqokelela izinto ezahlukeneyo, uzisa amathamsanqa, uze uzame ukuba siphephe le ndiyigqala ezimbi. Konke kufuneka wenze lomtshato libe yimpumelelo yaye onwabile - oku luthando. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna ukunxiba ezimhlophe okanye uthathe iifoto kunye nabo ubathandayo ngaphambi komtshato, kubalulekile nje ukuba ungayibopha ngeqhina lomtshato kunye nomntu omthandayo.