Ukuba umntu niziingqondi, oko correctable okanye akunjalo?

Omnye wabalinganiswa, edlalwa Al Pacino kwi movie odumileyo "Igqwetha I lukaMtyholi", uthe esi sivakalisi silandelayo: ". Amampunge - ozithandayo kwam izono" Ngelishwa, ngexesha lakalokunje phantse wonke umntu, ukuba akunjalo wokuzingca, ezinkulu. Awu, oku kunjalo. Yintoni le vice kwaye yintoni na uhlobo wayo?

Amampunge luhlobo lwe self-isiqiniselo kunye self-yokuphakanyiswa umntu emehlweni abanye. Ukuba umntu niziingqondi, oko kuthetha ukuba kukho imfuneko enkulu indumiso yobuntu bakhe.

Abameli Abefundisi banike uhlolo zicacileyo enamabhongo nekratshi, bebanika ngabo izono ofayo. Noko ke, bathi xa umntu yanto, oko mayilungiswe: kudingeka nje ukuba aguquke phambi koThixo ngenxa yezenzo zabo zobubi.

Kufuneka igxininiswe into yokuba, ukuba umntu uziva nomnqweno yokuzilungiselela ngokwayo, inqanaba yoxinezeleko yengqondo lasinda. Kule meko umntu ngandlela zonke efuna ukuba afumane igunya phezu kwabanye. Ukuba indlela loo njongo sihlangana imiqobo kunye nemiqobo, kuba nokuba nobundlobongela nangakumbi kunye nabangendawo. Ngaye kunokuthiwa umntu niziingqondi? Mna ndinguye lowo akafuni ukwamkela ubunyani, kuba iingcinga zakhe kugxininisa kakhulu koku kulandelayo: "? Yintoni bacinga ntoni kum, nento endiya kubenzela umbono"

Kakade ke, umntu ngamnye ifomu enye okanye omnye ohluphekayo namabhongo. Noko ke, sibonise esidlangalaleni wathi vice kubantu engaqhelekanga. Kungenxa yoko le nto indoda yanto - nguye ngocoselelo efihla konke ukuba ufuna ukwenzelwa yakucengacenga nendumiso. Iingcali zengqondo zithi umntu ngokwangaphandle ukubonisa titsongahata, ekufuneka lithathwe kungekuphela nje elinye iinguqulelo wazifihla namabhongo.

Ngokukodwa, umntu kuba lilize kunjalo, ukuba ngokoluvo lweZiko usapho kunye nabahlobo ngokupheleleyo akuthethi nto kuye; ize eyesibini, phezu koko, ufuna ukuba acele inkxaso kwabanye, ukuqhubeka uthathe ithuba.

Kufuneka kugxininisiswe ukuba ngamabhongo athathe ifomu kakhulu eyingozi. Akuphelelanga apho, mntundini ungento uqalisa inxaxheba kwimisebenzi ephuthileyo enjongo ukuze umntu akhe, kwanyanzeleka ukuba bacinge malunga nezilangazelelo zabo, akazange ayikhathalele malunga nendawo zabo. Ngaphezu koko, liyayeka namabhongo ukuqonda ixabiso lokwenyaniso kobudlelwane nabanye, umbono wakhe koqobo uba zobuxoki.

Ayikho enye onesiphene ukuba basika nenkululeko engenkqubela-phambili yobuntu, abenze babe luchuku. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba namabhongo nangoku akukho namnye okulungileyo. Kuthetha ukuthini engeyakonto? Igama unika ukutyhilwa kwale isono esikhulu ngokwenene abantu. Oku "engenanto", udumo "engento". Indoda lokufuna awukwazi ukuphila ngaphandle eqinisekisa ukongama kwawo. Ngenxa yoko, uyayeka ukuba bahlole ngokwaneleyo ixabiso indima yabo kuluntu.

Kakade, esi sifo kufuneka zipheliswe yonke, ukuze bajongane nayo kunokwenzeka kuphela kodwa kuyimfuneko!