Unokuyeka njani ukwesaba? Ukulwa kunokuphetshwa

Sonke sinoyiko into ethile, sonke thina ngokwemveli sinikwe ubuninzi besaba. Kwezinye, zibonakalisa ngokucacileyo, kwaye abanye abaze bakrokre ukuba bayesaba nantoni na.

Masithethe ngoloyiko olunjengokwesaba ukulwa. Unokuyeka njani ukwesaba ukulwa? Indlela yokuziphatha kwimpikiswano, enokuthi ibe yinto yokulwa? Unokuyeka njani ukwesaba?

Uninzi lwabantu bacinga ngendlela yokuphelisa ukwesaba ukulwa. Bangabantu abangaqinisekanga ababehlala bekhubekile enkulisa okanye esikolweni, abangazange babe nelizwi labo, uluvo lwabo kunye nobunzima babo kuluntu.

Enyanisweni, imfazwe ayikho konke isibindi nesithandane, njengathi ngamanye amaxesha sibona kwiTV. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku kubuhlungu kakhulu, ngaphandle koko, ityala lolwaphulo-mthetho. Abantu abazizilumko baye bathetha ukuba umntu ozilumko akayi kulwa, kodwa uya kufumana indlela yokuyiphepha. Kodwa ungathini ukuyeka ukwesaba ukulwa, ukuba awuyikuzithemba kuwe? Siza kuzama ukuqonda.

Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi eziza kunceda abo banqwenela ukuqonda indlela yokuyeka ukwesaba ukulwa. Okokuqala, pha kamisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Yiya kwindawo yokuzivocavoca, jonga ubuso bakho, tyelela i-salon enobuhle. Emva kwexesha elijongeyo ilanga lakho elitsha liya kukumangazela. Yintoni enokuyolonwabisa kakhulu? Ukubukeka komntu othembekileyo. Akunabo bonke abaxhaphazayo abakhetha ukungena kwimpikiswano nomntu obonakala ephumelele.

Okwesibini, funda ukumomotheka, ukhangele ebusweni bomdlali wakho. Musa ukugcoba, kodwa umomotheka. Abanye badidekile, kuba balindele ukubona ukwesaba emehlweni abo bachasayo. Ukubukeka okunokuzithemba kunye nokumomotheka okuvulekileyo ebusweni bakhe bubungqina, okokuqala, malunga nokuxolelana, malunga nesiphakamiso sokusombulula ingxaki, ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa. Okwesibini, lumkisa ukuba xa ungafuni ukuxolelana, uya kufumana oko kukuchasene ntshaba.

Okwesithathu, kholelwa kuwe. Zisoloko uzikhumbuza ukuba awukho ukuba ungesabi umntu ophambi kwakho. Yikholelwa ukuba unayo imeko kwaye unako ukulungisa ingxabano ngokuthula. Yikholelwa ukuba unobulumko. Ubuncinane kuba umntu onobuqili akayi kuhamba emxabeni.

Ungalokothi ubonise ukuba ukwesaba. Fumana amandla okumelana nokuloyika kwaye ulondoloze uxolo lwangaphakathi nangaphandle. Ukuphendula kuwo onke amabango otshaba ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo. Kuphela ngale ndlela ungamqinisekisa ukuba uyathemba ngokwenene kuwe.

Ezi ngcebiso zisebenza kuphela ukuba ulungile kwimeko, okanye ukuba ulawula ukukholisa umdlali wakho. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umchasi akazinzi kwaye unyanzela yena, zama ukuxolisa, kuphela ngesithunzi. Abantu abaninzi bayeke.

Unokuyeka njani ukwesaba ukulwa? Enye indlela-ukuqonda ubuchule bokuzikhusela okuyimfuneko. Ngexesha lethu elixakekayo, akunzima ukudibana kwindawo edibeneyo ebumnyameni obumnyama inkampani evakalisa ngayo yonke inhlobo yayo: "Asiyiki ukulwa!". Aba bantu banako ukuwahoya zonke iingxabano ezifanelekileyo, kuba baphishekela injongo ethile: "qhaqha amanqina akho." Kule meko, kunokuba kuyimfuneko ukuzisebenzisa izakhono zokulwa ngesandla. Hamba nje onamaqhawe, okwaneleyo ukubethelwa kweenkampani kwaye uhambe kwintsimi. Kungcono, okwenene, ukuzikhusela kwangaphambili kwaye uzame ukungabi ngobusuku kwimimandla emnyama.