Ungubani. ungubani abalulutsha

Ngexesha kwawo, wonke umntu eye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwithuba kakhulu, nto leyo enokuthi ikhatshwe lithemba, ingqumbo, singenamandla, kwaye maxa wambi ngumsindo. Izinto ezibangela iimeko ezinjalo inokuba ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ixhaphake kakhulu imbono zesimo ngemeko apho abantu efanayo ukuqonda iziganeko ukuncwasa ezahlukeneyo ngokweemvakalelo.

Psychology lobunzima

Ingxaki ekufumaneni indlela yokuphuma imeko emaxongo i kwiminyaka yakutshanje weza kwindawo ephambili ngokubaluleka in bengqondo. Izazinzulu nje kuphela benza ekufuneni izizathu neendlela ukuthintela uxinezeleko, kodwa kwakhona nokuphuhlisa iindlela ukulungiselela loo mntu utshintsho kwi imeko wobomi.

Ngokuxhomekeke kwiimeko, leyo zibangelwa ntshikilelo, ukukhululwa enjalo iimbono zakhe;

1. uphuhliso kwentlekele - kuba neengxaki sizibandakanya nguqulelo umjikelezo olupheleleyo uphuhliso ukuya elilandelayo.
2. nengxaki traumatic esinokubakho ngenxa yeziganeko ngequbuliso okanye kakhulu ngenxa yelahleko impilo ngokwasemzimbeni ngenxa yesifo okanye ingozi.
3. ilahleko okanye ngokwahlukana crisis - wabonakalaliswa okanye emva kokufa ngumntu omthandayo, okanye umsebenzi ngokwahlukana ngenkani. Olu hlobo uqinile kakhulu kwaye kuthatha iminyaka emininzi. Amaninzi eyenzeka kubantwana umtshato abazali. Ukuba bantwana ukufa lobunzima ntsapho kubi ngenxa vangama kokusweleka kwakhe.

Ubude nobushushu imeko nganye ngxaki kuxhomekeke iimpawu ngamnye volitional womntu kwaye iindlela kwisimo sakhe.

ezifa- ubudala

ukuphazamiseka Faka yobudala kukuba ixesha elifutshane uze unike zesiqhelo ekuziphuhliseni.

isigaba ngasinye lu dityanisiwe utshintsho uhlobo olungundoqo lomsebenzi kwesi sifundo.

1. Intlekele eyehlele i-usana ezinxulumene kukhubazeko nokulungiswa umntwana ebomini ngaphandle emzimbeni sikanina.
2. unyaka 1 ntlekele sigwetyelwe ukubonakala usana ukuba iimfuno ezintsha ze kwandiswe umthamo wayo.
3. kwiminyaka 3 kuvela Le ntlekele ivela imizamo umntwana ukwenza uhlobo olutsha ulwalamano nabantu abadala kunye yabe yayo "I".
4. kweminyaka esi-7 lobunzima ebangelwe ukuvela uhlobo olutsha lomsebenzi - ukufunda, kunye nezikhundla umfundi.
5. nengxaki Pubertal ukugwetyelwa inkqubo ukufikisa.
6. Intlekele eyehlele i-engama-17, okanye ungubani zobutsha kuvela imfuneko self-determination ngokunxulumene ukukhululwa omdala.
7. Intlekele eyehlele i-kwiminyaka engama-30 kubonakala abantu abaziva yokungabikho ukuphunyezwa kwesicwangciso babo ubomi.
8. Intlekele eyehlele i-engama-40 kunokwenzeka neengxaki ebalaseleyo ezithe zavela ngexesha elidlulileyo notshintsho olukhulu.
9. Crisis umhlala kwenzeka ngenxa yokunqongophala kwemfuneko iimvakalelo zabantu lo gama kugcinwe ikhono layo ukusebenza.

impendulo Human kwintlekele

Ubunzima kulo naliphi na ixesha kukhokelela ekuphazanyisweni kwenkqubo kwisigaba ngokweemvakalelo ezinokubangela iindidi ezintathu reactions:

• Kukuvela iimvakalelo ezifana ukungakhathali, isithukuthezi okanye ukungakhathali, nto leyo kubonisa isenzeko lukarhulumente edakumbisayo.
• Ukuvela iimvakalelo etshabalalisayo ezifana ndlongo, umsindo, kunye isiphoso-ngobekuphandwa ngako.
• Kungenzeka kwakhona ukuba anyamekele kubonisa iimvakalelo yanto, nathemba, ngamampunge.

Olu hlobo yokusabela kuthiwa ubulolo.

phuhliso lolutsha

Ngaphambi ukhetha ugqabazoQXml ixesha yobudala kufuneka baqinisekise ingqiqo ngokungqongqo elithi "igama" ukususela kwiminyaka eli-15 ukuya ku-17. ULutsha kunye crisis - oko phantse amagama njalo, kuba iimeko ejongene umntwana kweli xesha, kufuna ukuyazi imisebenzi emitsha kunye neentlobo asabela ngayo le meko.

Identity - le ekuzichongeleni vukhongeri namaqela eentlanga,, zobungcali okanye abanye abantu. Ngoko ke, ingxaki ungubani, esizibonakalisa elivisayo, ibhekisela unciphiso okanye ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo yehlabathi okanye indima yayo kwezentlalo.

Adolescence lubonakala ngokwanda nokuzeyisa ukuzeyisa, nto leyo ekhokelela ukuba sesichengeni ngenxa uvavanyo kakhulu ngenkangeleko okanye ubuchule babo. Eyona Umsebenzi eli thuba - ulwazi lwehlabathi, kwaye okona kubalulekileyo nethumba - ukukhethwa msebenzi.

Ukubonakalalisa ungubani

Kuba ukuqonda ukuba yintoni ingxaki ungubani, kuyimfuneko ukuba siqwalasele iimpawu ngexesha esakhula:

1. Uloyiko ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu, ukuzeyisa ikheswa, ukuyilwa ulwalamano olusesikweni kuphela.
2. Ukungaqiniseki kwimikhosi, nto leyo ebonakalisa mhlawumbi xa ukulahlwa ngokupheleleyo sifundo, okanye inzondelelo ngokugqithisileyo yona.
3. Ilahleko ukuvumelana namaxesha. Wabonakaliswa ukumoyika elizayo, umnqweno ukuphila kuphela namhlanje okanye njengeminqweno kuphela ukufika, ngaphandle cinga ngeli xesha.
4. Ukunqongophala ngumnqweno "Mna" ekhokelela khangela zizithixo ngokulondoloza ngokupheleleyo.

ungubani

Ngokutsho bengqondo ezininzi, ukufikisa ubunzima sigwetyelwe ukuvela bulumko engqondweni. Ngeli thuba, yonke isenzo sikhatshwa eninzi kokuthandabuza nentandabuzo loo msebenzi sibetho.

Ichaza nengxaki ungubani, aphumela wathi yena isigqibo ukuyilwa ubuntu.

Ukuba phantsi kweempembelelo izinto ezintsha zentlalo zebhayoloji, abantu abaselula ukuchaza indawo yabo kuluntu, ukukhetha umsebenzi elizayo. Kodwa izimvo zabo nje kuphela ukutshintsha ngeenxa kakhulu uhlaziye isimo sabo amaqela asekuhlaleni. Oku akagwetyelwanga na inguqu ebonakalayo imbonakalo nabafikisayo komzimba.

Kuphela ungubani for aphumela iqinisekise ukuyilwa umntu wonke kwaye ukudala isiseko kokukhetha umsebenzi ohlawulayo kwixesha elizayo. Ukuba, ke, kuba enkalweni kweli xesha abadalelwanga iimeko ezifanelekileyo, oko kusenokuba nawuphi umphumo lusenokungamkelwa. Oku kuzibonakalisa ubutshaba kuse ongqongileyo kwezentlalo n'wina. Ngelo efanayo ungubani kubangela inkxalabo phakathi kwabantu abatsha, kwaba nomonakalo kunye bodwa kwihlabathi lokwenene.

ungubani National

Kwiqela zonke kwezentlalo kwinkulungwane yokugqibela lonke nengxaki kubonakala ngakumbi ungubani yesizwe. Uhlanga yenza umahluko ngokwawo phezu yesizwe umlinganiswa, ulwimi, iinqobo kunye nezithethe zabantu. Le ngxaki ziya kuboniswa kule ngamnye, yaye bonke abantu kweli lizwe.

Phakathi ezibonisa eziyintloko intlekele ekuyo i-national identity kufuneka kwabiwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

1. Ayaziswa elidlulileyo zembali. Ifomu kakhulu kule kubonakaliswa iye mankurtism - ukuphika imiqondiso yesizwe, iinkolelo nezimvo.
2. Ukudideka kunye amaxabiso karhulumente.
3. iphula ukoma izithethe.
4. Kungathenjwa ncam kwamandla karhulumente.

Konke oku kungentla ibangwa yezizathu ezininzi, ezifana jikelele wemigangatho eyahlukeneyo ebomini, uphuhliso zothutho kunye nobugcisa kwakunye nokukhula yokufuduka kwabantu yhuu.

Ngenxa yoko, ukuba ungubani kukhokelela ukukhanyela abantu iingcambu abalulo kwaye kudala iimeko kokusasaza uhlanga ibe zengqwalaselo ezininzi (supranational, bezizwe ngezizwe, subnational)

Impembelelo khaya ukubunjwa identity

Eyona isiqinisekiso ukuyilwa ukuba ungubani lo mfana - imbonakalo isikhundla sakhe ezizimeleyo. indima ebalulekileyo kule udlalwa nge usapho.

Olugqithisileyo, ukhuselo okanye ukhathalelo, ukuthingaza ukunika abantwana inkululeko kukhule bangoobani ntlekele kuphela, nto leyo ebangela nengqondo. Ngenxa yokuvela kwayo abantu abatsha:

• rhoqo befuna ingqalelo ngohlobo zivunywe okanye nombulelo; xa engekho zokudumisa sikhokelwa ingqalelo ezingakhiyo, umzobo kunye uxabana nenkcaso okanye zokuziphatha;
• ukwenza uphendlo ubungqina ukuchaneka izenzo zabo;
• kufuna uqhagamshelwano emzimbeni ngohlobo wetatshi ezibanjwayo.

Ngophuhliso abantwana abaxhomekeke baxhomekeke emphefumlweni abazali babo, kuba izenzo kwisixando sokwenziwa. Baya kuba nzima ukwakha ubuhlobo eentsapho zabo kwixa elizayo.

Inkxaso kubazali umfana kufuneka ibe ukusahlula lee kusapho kunye nokwamkelwa komntwana uxanduva ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho.