Ubuntu yimikhuba egadeni

Engawucaluli umgangatho ngamnye - orientation ngokubeka iimfuno ophezulu nabani na, nantoni na, musani kuba yiloo nto unayo.

Lifuna ngokwabo - le yenye iintlobo ezininzi yekratshi. Umntu unako ukubeka ibango kwimfezeko kunye yize. Kule yaye kwelinye icala, pretentiousness wakhe ikratshi kwandile. Ukuze uvumo kuza umfazi uthi: Owu! Mna kakhulu awileyo bonke abasetyhini. Eyona uwe! Kwaye ke yiva impendulo: Uze ukuba yokuba iingangamsha zibhuqiwe. Wena nje uwe!

         Ukuntsonkotha ukuqonda indlela ofuna ubuntu wacaciswa yokuba ukuthi kuziveza ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo abantu ukulunga, uthando kunye nokungahoyi. Ngenxa yoko izigqibo uphikisana kunye nohlolo abantu ubuntu ngokukhawuleza ngenkani. usikelelwe umntu, ingqiqo ebalulekileyo inkonzo nokuzincama ebantwini, uthi: "yimikhuba - kukunqongophala inceba!" Ububele kuba yena - lembombo. Kuyo, ulinganisa iingcinga kunye nezenzo zakhe. umntu Beneficent bathi umntu ukufezekisa ulonwabo ngokusebenzisa iinjongo ezibonakalayo. Kufuneka kudana, okanye kamsinya nje umnqweno izinto lizaliseke, okanye ekupheleni kobomi, xa athe wamkhulu, imilwelwe, kwaye akukho mntu kufuneka.

Ulonwabo komntu akuxhomekekanga ekuzithandeleni ifanitshala, impahla, tsatsek, amagumbi, elwandle akhawunti zebhanki. Ulonwabo ungowomoya, oko ohlala enzulu lokungazingci unxibelelwano,, yothando, kodwa hayi kwi ngokwanelisa neminqweno zabo eziphathekayo. Ukufuna kokomoya eziphathekayo bubudenge njengoko ukwenza uphando kubukho unyulu phakathi namahenyukazi. Billionaire ngexesha lokudla ubona amehlo engxamele abantwana nezalamane kwi ikomkhulu lakhe. Nabo, kakhulu, amabango ayo, nokulunga kwalo. Cinga "wayeza njo amaphiko Kunoko, uMtyholi endala." Uthando, ukunyaniseka nobubele ayikho emehlweni, ngoko ndifuna ukuthanda kwakho, yaye hayi izityalo zakho neenqanawa. Enye Billionaire abakhulileyo wakha wathi: "Mna iintyatyambo ukuba abafazi kungekho ngaphantsi kwezigidi ezihlanu zeerandi bachitha kuphela. Ezinye imali echithwa ilize. "

Befuna abazali - a ukukrwitsha kwi bayahlelwa oonyana. usikelelwe umntu, ukukhulisa umntwana, ucinga ngokuyintloko malunga ekuchongeni injongo yaso, indawo iinkalo zobomi, nto leyo efihliweyo emva italente umntwana. Lesihlanu kwaye deuces kuye kangako. Yena uyaqonda ukuba ufuna ukufundisa abantwana ngokomoya kunokuba ulwazi ulwazi. Ukuba kuyivusa a ubuntu elungileyo, izakhono, wayesoloko uya kufumana xa wafumanisa umdla wakhe kwezinye uhlobo yengqesho. Hayi, le ndoda ngokoqobo wasikhangela umntwana, ezama ukufumana i "isongo" esiya kucacisa indlela yophuhliso yayo engaphezulu. Ukuba inkqubo yemfundo le nkwenkwe - troechnik bafumana iimpawu ezifana sobuntu uxanduva, ukuzibophelela, ukuzimisela, nokuzingisa, ukunyamezela nokuzingisa, yena ngokukhawuleza bafumane izakhono zobungcali xa ishishini lakho oyithandayo. Ngelo xesha, i Zintle, phantsi befuna ngabazali, amabango abo ngokubaxwa kwaye ngokufuthi ikhula diffident kwaye ibandakanyeka ishishini engalunganga. Ngako oko ke akukho ukufuna nantoni na, kodwa ubunzima kuphela okukhethekile okhethiweyo ngokungachanekanga.

abazali befuna - into tell ukuqonda kwabo ulonwabo. Abaninzi ezinkulu amagcisa kunye abaqambi zooyise wathi: "Uya kuba igqwetha, njengam!" - "Tata, kodwa Andinamdla. Ndifuna ukuba ... "-" Hayi! Uza igqwetha kunye ingongoma. Ndiza kukuthumela eNgilani. Mamela Utata - uya kuphila ". Abazali ubambe ingqiqo neqhayiya ngayo ulonwabo, bakholelwa ukuba loo nto iphambili ukunika umntwana uqeqesho yobugcisa. Thumela ukuba kwilizwe lasemzini. Kwiminyaka embalwa kamva Uyeza abazali bemvelo kakhulu umntu ongamaziyo. ngebengabanga bayinyusa, akazange ukunxibelelana naye ngokomoya, akayibeka kuwo entliziyweni umphefumlo. Waba utyalo of capital - ixabiso ezisa ixabiso. Bazali, ungamthandiyo esaphuma uyamdelela okanye ayithiyileyo. Yonke into apha ezingeyonzalelwane yalapha, ezithiyekileyo.

Ukucinga ukuba abazali bahlela umntwana wabo kwindawo efudumeleyo. Kodwa ukuba unalo lawulekiyo, maxa nawuphi na umsebenzi ukumosha neentlobano kwabasemagunyeni bakhe kunye noogxa. Ukubonisa ukungathembeki sengqondo onengxabano, uya wonke banyanisile, ukusika elimsulwa, ukuze aligwebe abasemagunyeni na, nibadanisa abangaphantsi. , Akayi kuba rhoqo ngumsindo naswona nako ukulawula abantu. Nangona ukubunjwa elite, isakhiwo, njengayo nayiphi na inkqubo eqhelekileyo, oko kukucekisa element njengeyingozi. amagosa abasebenzi abanamava bakhetha iingcali, kunye nabantu iimpawu ezintle ngamnye. Bayazi ukuba baya kuzuza izakhono zobungcali ngokukhawuleza ngenxa yobuchule bendalo. Yiloo nto abantwana kunye nemfuneko ukunika imfundo yokuziphatha kunye ulwazi, hayi nje ukuba amanqaku ulwazi oluninzi imemori awukabi ulwazi ngokoqobo.

Indoda ukutshiseka ibonisa inqanaba zamabango abo ngokusebenzisa degree of nobunzima umsebenzi walo. Ukuba kunjalo, "Ndifuna" yaye "Andikwazi 'ukudlala kakuhle omnye komnye, oko kuthetha ukuba umntu ukusa kumkhamo ezilibhongo kunye ngokoqobo. Amaxesha amaninzi, umgangatho amabango angathabatheki abantu umiselwa ukuphumelela okanye ukungaphumeleli ekungameleni iingxaki kuvela: impumelelo ukhetha ukukhetha imisebenzi nzima ngakumbi (ukunyusa umgangatho amabango), ukungaphumeleli - phezu koko, elula. Abantu abaninzi ukhathazekile, ukuze uphumelele, yaye ukuze uphephe ukusilela.

Ilula nje umgangatho lobuqu - ukukwazi ukuba ngokubeka iimfuno ophezulu nabani na, nantoni na, ukuze sibe yiloo nto unayo.

Indlela abaphantsi inkamela, kodwa nobushushu bakhe pyatidesyatigradusnaya ahlukunyezwe. Ngokulambisa kokutyhutyha entlango, eya kumkhawulela ukubaleka idonki aphilileyo. Ikamela wambuza: - Nenza ntoni na baleka Songa, ngokuba ubushushu ntoni? - Ewe, ndiza ukubaleka, yaye umoya yaye litshisa kakhulu. Ikamela wacinga nendlela vtopil ... Idonki kwi wabaleka ukuze ubone kwi ngohlangothi eyintlango kumaBedou ngeenxa zonke. esile Ifanele ukuba omnye wabo wathi: - Kwenzeka ntoni? A esenjalo waphendula wathi: - Ewe apha, inkamela bekubanda!

Engathandi ufuna ukufikelela endodeni, nabalulamileyo kwabanye nzima phezu kwakho. ubuntu onegunya. Feel ukuba lusesazulwini inceba, sahlala singabangenakumbi, ukunyaniseka, ufumanisa ukuba abantu izihlobo kunye ukunganeliseki, indlela acinga ngayo, akamkeli mvakalelo xa ekugwetyweni kunye notshutshiso kwabanye.

Ilula ngokunxulumene kwabanye abantu - enye imifanekiso kwikhompyutha ububele. Ilula akukho twatse ukwenjenjalo ngokuthobeka kwentliziyo, ukuba inikwe ubomi esiqhelekileyo, kodwa hayi kubhuqwa, nokubanjwa kwezinto, kwezono kwaye ikhulisa kuye. Kuyinto yayintsha ukulalana komzimba. Ngokuziphatha ngale ndlela, elula ukuqokelela imikhosi ukuba aphendule ngokufanelekileyo kwiimeko zobomi kunye nezimvo zabanye abantu. umntu egadeni phezu ngokwakhe waqonda ukuba kunzima kangakanani na ukuzisa iingenelo nokuba kunzima kangakanani na ukuba bashiye amakhaya abo propensities ekrakra. Kuthatha ixesha, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuqonda ingqondo ukunambitha olunye ulonwabo. Ngoko ke, yena amanqaku ephisa ngawo iintsilelo zabanye. Nabani ubuya kuziva uvelwano umntu ngobubele iphendula yonke ezingathandekiyo zawo iingqondo, livelana karhulumente wangaphakathi. Ukongeza, malunga enjalo obufana ukuba ubomi babantu kuyo yonke indawo yaye uhlale, bechwayitile, okuchwayitha, yaye bonwabile.

I inzuzo elikhulu egadeni - akukho ukubandezeleka kuzisa nako - pretentiousness. Ngokomzekelo, enye indoda ophansi watshata yaye, emva kwethutyana, ndabona olukhulu kakhulu, njengoko fun of the simpleton nangoko umfazi wakhe uba namabhongo, yimikhuba ihlazo. Yena umntu wabetha i-alam, esithi kuye ukuba umfazi kaThixo, yaye uyaqhubeka ukubona iimpawu ezintle isimilo sakhe. Njengoko obufana abanye indoda elungileyo Ngokwengcaciso, lujolise ukutshintsha ngokwayo kwicala elifanelekileyo. uyayiqonda athi: "Ukuba asikwazi ukufundisa umfazi wakhe indlela baziphathe kunye nam, uya akusoze wonwabe. I zitshintshile, yaye uya ukuyitshintsha. "

Umzekelo eliqaqambileyo egadeni - inkokeli yokomoya kunye nentloko intshukumo ukuzimela Indiya, Mahatma Gandhi. Umpeyinti Pol Gogen kwiminyaka 53 uyahamba eTahiti, apho kwindawo ongayazi ngokupheleleyo kuye iimeko kudala yobuciko. Curies wenza bakufumeneyo ebalaseleyo koovimba kunye nophahla oluvuzayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, bangathanda ukuba ilebhu nice ohlayo, kodwa bengenandawo ngcono, aneliseke okubi. Ngamanye amazwi, indlela elula bubuxoki ukubona kumxholo psychology intlupheko. Ilula - oku kuphika kobutyebi, kukukwazi ukuya injongo, nangona isilela iimeko ezifanelekileyo. Yimikhuba - i "iNkosazana kunye ertyisi." Ilula - it uDiogenes kwi umphanda, apho ubona inkwenkwe osela ezivela ezandleni zakhe waza waluphosa nendebe, wathi: "Lo mntwana, usuke waba phambi kwam ongaziphakamisanga."

Ilula - le ngokobungqongqo ukuya ngokwakhe nokunyamezelana kwabanye. Ukubonisa ukuzeyisa nokuqonda xa usebenza nabantu, elula kubantu zipeyintwe emehlweni abo, iithowuni amanene. Oku kuyinyaniso, ngokuba ebona okuhle ebantwini, wenze into elungileyo nokuba ezifunwa engqongqo phezu kwakhe, elula uyangena esiqhumeni ngentliziyo enkulu.

Ilula kuthetha ukuqonda imithetho yobomi. Kweli hlabathi akukho nto ngengozi. Umthetho yentsimbi iphela - umthetho unobangela kunye nesiphumo isebenza iyazeya kuzo zonke episode zobomi. On zonke isiphumo enesizathu. indoda egadeni uyaqonda ukuba uhlala kweli lizwe, kule ntsapho, kwaye akukho ngengozi. inqanaba yanamhlanje sezingqondweni ihlabathi onegunya ukunyanzela ukuba ukuphila kule meko. Oko kukuthi, yena uhlala nabantu nokusingqongileyo, efanele. Sula ingqondo yakho, izakutshintsha incasa ulonwabo, kwaye ngokungathi umlingo, ubomi buya kuqalisa ukutshintsha. Uya kuhlala izihlobo zabo, apho kuya kubakho iminqweno ezintsha. Ilula ukholelwa ukuvisisana zehlabathi, ngenxa umthetho iphela yaye, ke ngoko, kukuba Seyiseke ngokupheleleyo ukuba uya kufumana ubomi kangangoko kusifanele.