Umthandazo ukubuya sisalamane Nikolayu Chudotvortsu

Nesithukuthezi - kungekhona vice, kodwa kungenxa iimvakalelo kunye nokungakwazi ukulawula inkxalabo yabo jikelele iimpazamo ezininzi kwenzeka ebomini bethu. Umsindo, ndlongo, ukudinwa, isithukuthezi, ikhwele - ukuba izizathu ukuba umlilo futhi krwada encinane? Ukuba ufuna ukubuyela omthandayo, ukuba uthe waba buthathaka eyeyomzuzwana ezichongiweyo Asiyiyo indlela ndingathanda ukudlula, imali zoncedo kwiimeko ezinjalo.

Kwakutheni ukuze ashiye

Abantu ezahlukeneyo, yentlanganiso ukwenza isibini okanye usapho, nazo ithemba lokuba baya kuhlala kunye kwakunye njengokwemihla ekuqaleni ubuhlobo. Kodwa iimvakalelo aba buthelezi; kuba amandla imikhwa kunye neemeko zobomi, neemvavanyo ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu khangela amandla ubudlelwane. Umntu owaphula, umntu wayesoloko buthathaka, kwaye nexesha amhluba loo imaski, uye wabangela ukuphoxeka, umntu nje inkanuko ubhideke kunye nothando, kwaye "chemistry 'emzimbeni uzigqibile zonke izibonelelo, yithini, njengoko kanti, ababini kubo omnye komnye yaye lutho. Kwaye abantu ashiye.

Kodwa ke eyahlukileyo xa libizwa kufanelekile kwezinye kakhulu, umsindo nganye embakraza umnyango sele, intliziyo yam ibuhlungu rhoqo. Oku kungenxa yokuba abantu ngokwenene akwazi ukuvakalisa indlela iimvakalelo zabo, nendlela obunexabiso omnye komnye, uqonde kuphela emva kokudlula kwi ilahleko.

Indlela soyise ezi mvakalelo

Iimvakalelo - amandla endalo, nto leyo kufuneka sihlale phantsi kolawulo. imvakalelo Positive unako ahlula nabani na nanto yakwenza nalo, kodwa ezingakhiyo ngokubanzi bekukho ezininzi iingxaki. Le psyche zabantu kangangokuba walungiselela ukuba imbono iimvakalelo usoloko kwenzeka, kodwa abaninzi bayakwazi ukulawula flow iimvakalelo zakho, khon 'ukuze abantu basabela, ungenza njalo bazi. Nangona ke akazange athethe nto, loo nto ayithethi ukuba akazange eve, akazange aqonde. Kodwa ke impendulo ezibonakalayo, apho bekuhleli iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo ayikwazi ukulandela. Ngamanye amaxesha, ubanjwe akho iimvakalelo zabo, kwaye umenzi wobubi akayi ukuyeka ide inikezele ngaphandle.

Ukuba ucango sele livaliwe, ukuba rezanula iintlungu ngamandla nokuswela nokuba libukhali ukumemeza, lokulwela, wafunga, ukuze ayeke. Ekunene kule ngcaciso imfutshane. Ukosulela ekugxilwe kuzo, yaye zonke iindlela kunokwenzeka, nto leyo eya kubenzakalisa nokuba le meko okanye nxaxheba, ukuba iNTSHOLONGWANE uxinezeleko. Nilile - yaye kutheni kungenjalo, ukuba wayiqokelela? Bona comedy. Thenga into emnandi (itshokolethi, kwaye konke kwaba iqiniso eyaziwa, kuphucula isimo), enze yiyo kancinane. Ngokufutshane, ukuze uzenzele into entle, simlungele kakuhle ngenjongo - ndizole. Kungcono ukuba andinakwenza nto de uthathe ishawa ixesha elide kakhulu yaye lokuphumla (namanzi kwakhona iye iipropati anti-stress) kwaye musa ukulala ngokwaneleyo ngokusuka entliziyweni. Amaxesha amaninzi novalo breakdowns kwenzeka abantu nje ukudinwa.

Ngoku ke cinga ngento eyenzeka kwentloko yakhe, zipholile utihshimi (nokuba nje kancinane) iimvakalelo.

Andikwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwakhe

Ngamanye amaxesha buhlungu kabuhlungu kusinda emva Enyanisweni, kungekhona yokuba eneneni lo mntu ubaluleke kangaka. Wena nje Kufuneka ukufumana amandla ukuba ayamnkele. Kodwa kwenzeka (kwaye, yeha, asinto ingaqhelekanga), oko kwandikhathaza abantu abasondeleyo omnye komnye, engazi phula ngaphezu nto. Ikratshi okanye inzondo ukoyisa iimvakalelo iphazamise, solo ukondla ngamnye enye, ecaleni ubonakala isihlwele labacebisi kunye nemfesane ngokungummangaliso - iqela lenkxaso, okwenza kukhule kuphela yonke le nkqubo. Ke ukuba lonke ukwahlulwa esifanayo ngenxa linye, intliziyo iyabanda ngumsindo neemvakalelo bephila abanyanisekileyo.

Uncedo oluvela phezulu

Abo kwabahlambulukileyo entliziyweni, yaye esulungekileyo ngeengcinga. Abantu abanqwenela ngentliziyo yam yonke ukubuyisela umntu omthandayo unokuba abanaluncedo kwi abangcwele phambi kokuba uzama ukubuyisela umfi. umthandazo onyanisekileyo ukubuya ngumntu omthandayo ekhaya, evela entliziyweni, uya ngokuqinisekileyo kunceda. Ikholwa ngokuyimfuneko ukufumana uncedo, kodwa lowo wokuqala ukuhlangana ngesicelo abangcwele uncedo, ukuba kukhuza, ukufumana uxolo lwengqondo yaye siqiniseke ukuba yonke into aya kuba ngokokuthanda kukaThixo, yaye ngoko ke ithemba lakhe (ngethemba) Ngale ndlela unxibelelwano phakathi kubathengi zasezulwini kunye nemeko yobomi, nto yeza kuba nzima kakhulu ukuyisombulula.

Umthandazo ukubuya umntu omthandayo uya kunceda wonke

Ukuba umntu wena ngokwenene ukuba ndibhenele nemithandazo yabangcwele, leyo ukholwayo, okanye iteknoloji ukunxibelelana indalo (oko kukuthi, enyanisweni, enye efanayo ebizwa ngokwahlukileyo), abangcwele uncedo unokuza ngokohlobo izimvo kunye nezisombululo kwezinye ezinxulumene ngxaki ukuqonda ubuchule buthe qelele kunye amazwi afanelekileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo, nenzaliseko entliziyweni yam, ukuze xa intlanganiso oyintanda, wabuva amandla iimvakalelo - uthando, ubukrakra, ukuzisola. Hi ndlela leyi, ezi iindlela ngokulinganayo okulungileyo kubantu amadoda namabhinqa. Xa ebusweni bukaThixo kunye indalo bonke bayalingana, ngoko, ukuba usebenzise isixhobo ezifana umthandazo yokubuyiswa omthandayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba wonke. Amadoda ngokungeyomfuneko buhlungu nabafazi babo badla ukubhenela kuzo kuba ikhethe ukuthintela inyathelo lokuqala ukuya kuxolelaniso umphefumlo nokubila of isithukuthezi neentlungu. Amadoda nzima ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo kodwa ukulungisa le meko - kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha umthandazo yokubuyiswa umntu omthandayo isebenza kuphela ukuba bambathe ngengqondo isicelo sam amazwi Abantu beva nje mna ngokwam, yaye ekugqibeleni waqonda ukuba ufuna ngokwenene. Ukuba bekukho impendulo amazwi lomthandazo entliziyweni yam ukuba isicelo bamazulu uncedo sakhe asinakufumana okulingene ukubuyisela - lo ngumqondiso oqinisekileyo wokuba lo mthandazo kuya kunceda.

UNikolay Chudotvorets kunye nemithandazo ukubuya komntu othandekayo

Ngu Nikolayu Chudotvortsu njalo ngayo. Le ongcwele kanye wahlala kummandla waseLikiya (ngoku kummandla Turkey), wanceda nomphefumlo abaninzi abakhala kuye, wasebenza imimangaliso ezincinane amahlwempu, axhasa amahlwempu nabaxhwalekileyo, ukwenza izipho abantwana, ngoko ke udumo lwakhe lwaya kulo lonke ihlabathi emva kokufa. A lot of ubungqina bokuba uNikolay Chudotvorets njengengcwele wanceda abo uncedo waza wacela kuyo. Ejongene naye umthandazo ngenxa ukubuya umntu omthandayo qiniseka lokumanyelwa, ukuba avela entliziyweni. Iinketho kuba inkangeleko yakhe kunene. Unako ukufunda kontakion akathist phambi ngokuqhagamshelana kunye nesicelo njengesiqhelo ngamazwi akho ukuya Nikolayu Chudotvortsu, kwaye uyakwazi ukusebenzisa olu khetho:

• "Owu Yehova Thixo wam, uMama ungowokubongwa Virgin ne St. uNikolay Chudotvorets ugodniche uThixo, ndithembele ngawe! Nceda umphefumlo wam kuxolelwa ndibuyele intanda yam, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama). Amen. Amen. Amen. "

Nawuphi na umthandazo yokubuyiswa ngumntu omthandayo omnye Nikolayu Chudotvortsu uya kuba lulutho xa ufaka ikhandlela phambi i icon kwaye ingqalelo isicelo yayo.

Umthandazo ukubuya ngumntu omthandayo omnye Matrona of eMoscow

Kuyenzeka ukuba ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, intsapho waphula phezulu. Kwaye isizathu, kakade, ezingabalulekanga kakhulu xa umntu nje ukutshintsha okanye ubukrwada. Kuyenzeka ukuba intliziyo ingxaki kukungakwazi ukuba babe nabantwana. Kule meko ibhekisela Matrona of eMoscow. Gcina ukuthandaza kuya kunceda ukubuyisela oyintanda umntu, owomeleleyo nesebenzayo. Iinketho mthandazo embalwa, nantsi enye kuzo:

• "Mother Holy Matrona, kukunceda! Buyela umendo umkhonzi wam abaziintanda zikaThixo (igama), ngoko sonwabile, asinike umntwana. Ndinike uthando abathembekileyo lwakhe kwaye womelele. Amen. "

Nawuphi na umthandazo yokubuyiswa ngumntu omthandayo Matrone omnye iyakuviwa kwaye ziqondwe, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ukucela ukuba abo kohlwaywa, ngenxa yokuba umntu wajika ingxabano entsatsheni (umzekelo, ngokuba enembuyekezo yinkosikazi) - UThixo sele uyazi ngubani esohlwaya kwaye ukuba.

Dzhozef Merfi nezingqiniso bakhe

Somlomo kunye nombhali Dzhozef Merfi, njengamanye ootitshala abaninzi kummandla kwingcingane uLawulo അഡ്മിനിസ്ട്രേറ്റര്, ezikhona kunye izinto ezifihlakeleyo, wabhala iincwadi eziliqela ezinceda ukunxulumana ngokwazo kunye sekuba wendalo kwaye ubone yonke imiba ezingqonge umntu kwinkalo eyahlukileyo. Ekuthiwa- umthandazo Dzhozefa Merfi ukubuya ngumntu omthandayo, enyanisweni, utsho kunye inkcazelo ukusuka kwindawo yokuziphatha nangokwasengqondweni ngenxa yonke imicimbi enxulumene ukuvuleka. Usifundisa indlela ukucinga ngayo wena nabanye, ukwakha indlela, Musa ukuchitha, ukuhlalutya uthabathe ubomi oyinto ngayo.

Ukuvumelana nolonwabo

Kwabo nezifuna self-ulwazi, indlela ayikho nzima kangaka kunye izixhobo ezifana incwadi Dzhozefa Merfi, Kozlov, Sinelnikov, Sviyasha kunye nabanye abaninzi. Qonda ngokwabo ucazulule meko, nezo nazamkelayo, indoda ecoca amandla akhe (okanye karma okanye umphefumlo), yaye ukuba oko kukhatshwa umthandazo yokubuyiswa umntu omthandayo, isiphumo kufuneka neziphumo kuphela enyanisweni, kodwa utshintsho kwakhona enkulu kwicala elincumisayo kwisibini.

Ezinye iindlela ukubuyela othandekayo

Nokuba oko kubonakala njani ingenamsebenzi unakho, umthandazo ngenxa ukubuya ngumntu omthandayo - hayi zonke kufuneka ukuba uyenze ukuze abuyele ulonwabo. Ukuba sinikele ingqalelo imbonakalo yazo bemke ukucinga ngoko kwenzekileyo, ukuze uhlaziye kwiimpazamo zabo baze bamkele ukwahlukana isifundo bya.

Ekubeni athathwa kuyo izigqibo ezichanekileyo, akukho ukoyika ukuba le meko iya ukuphinda ngokwayo. Ngaba kakhulu amgxeke wena uze ukhumbule iimpazamo zabo - oko kuya kuba lula ukuqonda isizathu sokuba ekhohlo kaThixo ozithandayo ozithandayo okanye. Ngokuzibeka wena endaweni yakhe, zokwazisela kakhulu sele uqonde ukuba yintoni na ukuthetha naye kwintlanganiso, ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuhlaziya ulwalamano, yaye ukuba kunjalo, njani baziphathe kwixesha elizayo yaye yintoni ukuthintela, nokuba, phezu koko, wenze umthetho. Umthandazo usinceda Tune nje ukuze kuhlolwe kakuhle lo mcimbi yaye wayenqwenela ukuba ukubabhida umnqweno okwenyaniso ukuba kunye ziimfuno njengesiqhelo, mkhwa, okanye, nokuba mandundu, obstinacy ikudika.