Ukuziphatha ... Incazelo kunye nencazelo yegama elithi "ukuphefumula"

Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngento engokomoya. Leli lizwi lithandwa ngabantu bobabini abaqhelekileyo kunye nabathengisi. Ngoko, kunye naye abantu banamava anemvakalelo. Kodwa masingathethi nje ngoku, kodwa nangomxholo ohambelanayo-ngokomoya. Kuthetha ukuthini namhlanje kwaye oko kuthetha ntoni kuwo.

Ubungqina bengegama elingatshintshi kwezinye iilwimi

Umxholo awukho umvuzo kwizinto ezifashiswayo ngoku "iRussia," ngokuchasene noko, yinyaniso yeelwimi. Kwaye yonke into yokuba ngesiRashiya kunzima ukuchaza intsingiselo yokuphefumula, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuzama. Ngoko, ukunyaniseka kukuguquka ngokunyanisekileyo komnye umntu. Inomdla wokwenene nokungathandekiyo kwindawo yokujonga okanye iingxaki zomnye umntu. Umoya unemida. Lo mgangatho uyanandipha ngamadoda kunye nabasetyhini nabantwana, kodwa ininzi yabo yonke, mhlawumbi, yokugqibela, kuba bayinyanisekileyo, abazange bafunde ukukopela, ukuxoka, ukukopela, banike abamnyama abamhlophe kunye abamhlophe abamnyama. Kakade, inkcubeko ithi abafazi banokomoya ngakumbi, kodwa oku akunjalo.

Ukuze uqiniseke ngokunyaniseka kwabantu, unokukhumbula ifilimu ethi "Irony of Future, okanye nge-Easy Steam!" Kuyo, amaqhawe agubha uNyaka omtsha. Ngokufanelekileyo i-podnabravshis, bacinisa ingoma "Ngaphantsi kwephiko lendiza." Kwaye baqala ukucula ngetekisi, bakhala kakhulu. U-Lukashin wathi kubo: "Abafana, ninyanisekileyo." Kwaye ngoko nangoko bonke baqonda oko kuthetha. Yaye bayayifumana le nto ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ukucula ngokunyanisekileyo, ngononophelo, ngokucophelela. Ngegama, ngokunyanisekileyo. Njengoko kubonakala nakubomzekelo, umxholo onombuzo ungatshintshwa ngamagama ahlukeneyo. Makhe sixoxe ngezivumelwaniso ngokwahlukileyo.

Indlela yokuchazela oko kukukholwa ngokomoya, umfokazi okanye iRashiya engaziyo? Iimpawu ezifanayo

Uninzi lwazo zonke, njengenye indlela "ukuphefumula", igama elivela kwimiqondo yengqondo - "uvelwano" lufanelekile. Oku kukwazi ukuva novelwano kunye nomnye umntu. Kodwa uvelwano luyinkimbinkimbi. Enyanisweni, akukho tshintsho epheleleyo yegama elithi "ukunyaniseka" ngesiRashiya. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba sisichaza njani amagama, asikho nanye isifanane esifanayo. Kukho into ekudibeneyo kwezandi kunye neleta ... ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye kusele kwizithunzi zonke ixesha. Ubungqina buyimfihlakalo.

Ngokomzekelo, ukuba kuthengisa bathetha ukuba isiselo esinjalo sinyanisekileyo, ngoko umbukeli, ukuba ungumntu othethileyo wolwimi lwesiRashiya, uyaqonda kuphela intuitively ukuba oku kuthetha ukuthini. Ukuba sizama ukutolika, siza kufumana ngokukhawuleza imeko, ngokuba isichazi "sinyanisekileyo" (ukuba sisiselo) "esihlwaya", "esitsha", "esomelezayo" kunye nokunye okuninzi okuza engqondweni, kunye kunye Ngomnye into ongenakulinganiswa nolwimi lweempawu, kodwa uqondwa kuphela ngaphakathi.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umfundi uyasibuza ngokukhawuleza: "Uthetha ukuthini" umphefumlo "? Amagama angabonakaliyo anokonyulwa ngeli gama okanye akunjalo? "Siza kunika ngokunyanisekileyo uludwe:

• Ukunyaniseka.
• Ukuvuleka.
• Inomdla wokwenene.
• Ukwazi u ku velwano.

Umfundi, xa eqonda ukutyekela ngokubanzi kweelwimi zokutshintshwa kweengcamango zengqondo "yokuphefumula," kulula ukudlala lo mdlalo. Kwaye lixesha lokuba siqhubeke.

Ngaba unokuhlakulela umphefumlo ngaphakathi kwakho?

Ewe, xa uphendula lo mbuzo, umntu unokunamathela kwiimbono ezimbini zokujonga. Okokuqala: kunjalo, bathi, impawu ezingenasisiseko, kwaye akunakunceda ukufunda. Mhlawumbi, le mbono inabalandeli, kodwa kukho enye imbono. Ingqungquthela yesibini: umntu akanalo uhlobo oluqinileyo, olunzima, ngoko phantse wonke umntu angafunda nantoni na, afuna nje. Ukunyaniseka ngumsebenzi wemihla ngemihla ngokwakho.

Kunzima ukuqonda omnye umntu, kuba oku kubonisa ukuba khona kweempawu ezithile zobuntu, umzekelo, ububele, ukunyamezela, ukunyamezela. Ukuba umntu ofuna ukufunda umphefumlo wobubi, ukuzingca, ukunyaniseka, ngoko kungabikho kokuzalwa kwangaphakathi, ukuxelisa kuphela kuye, ukulinganisa ukunyaniseka, nangona kunelungelo lokufezekisa iinjongo ezithile.

Izindlela zokuphuhlisa umphefumlo

Ukuba sithetha ngeendlela ezithile kunye nobuchule, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuphumeza ukuveliswa kwengqondo:

• Ukufunda kweengcamango.
• Ukuqwalaselwa kwabantu.
• Ukuphuhliswa kwengcamango kunye nefantasti ngesihloko sento efana nokuba njalo-njalo-njalo. Ewe, ukongeza okubalulekileyo: ayikho malunga namaNapoleon, kodwa malunga nabantu abaqhelekileyo, mhlawumbi abaqhelana nabo nabahlobo okanye abamelwane.

Zonke ezi zindlela ezilula ziza kuvumela umntu ukuba aqonde umlingane kunye nokwandisa uluhlu lobomi bakhe.

Iingxabano ngokomoya nangokwethembeka

Kutheni umbuzo wokudityaniswa kokomoya kunye nokomoya okwenene? Okokuqala, ngenxa yokuba ezi ngcamango zisetyenziselwa ukusetyenziswa ngokufana, kwaye le yimpazamo. Okwesibini, kuba uqobo ngokomoya luqondwa ngokuchanekileyo, kuphela kwiinjongo zenkolo. Siza kuhlangabezana nale ngcamango.

Umzekelo, ukunyaniseka kwintsebenziswano? Kwaye sinokuthi oku: "ukomoya ngokwenene"? Impendulo: Ukwahlula kokuqala kuyaqondakala kwaye kuzwakala ngesiRashiya, kwaye okwesibini kuya kuvezwa ngokungaqhelekanga. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba ezi zinto azifani.

Xa indoda ithi yena nomfazi bakhe babe nolwalamano oluhle ngokomoya, abahlobo okanye abahambahamba nabo abaqhelekileyo baqonda ukuba abafazi bahamba kakuhle, bahlala bekulungele ekhaya kunye nasekubhedeni.

Ukuba umntu ofanayo uthi: "Sinobudlelwane bokomoya nomfazi wam!", Abanye baya kuqala ukumkhangela baze bakrokre okubi. Yaye yonke into yokuba olo hlobo ludlelwane alubandakanyi ngesondo. Ubudlelwane bokomoya kunye nePlatoki bafana. Kodwa, ukusuka kumbono wolwimi, kulula ukwenza iphutha apha, kuba intsingiselo yelizwi elithi "ukuphefumula" yinto enye, enye enye intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukomoya". Ngale nto kufuneka uqaphele ukuba ungahlali kwi-galosh.

"Umoya" yiyona nto inqulo?

Impendulo yombuzo kwisihloko esithi: "Akunjalo!" Umoya nayiphi na imveliso engeyiyo. Umoya uthatha zonke iziganeko zobuntu bendalo - kwisayensi ukuya kwinkolo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le ndawo ibandakanya iincwadi. Ngoku kukho igama elithi "unqulo lwangokomoya", oko kukuthi, unqulo. Kodwa oku akunjalo ngokupheleleyo, kuba zonke iincwadi zomoya. Umbuzo kukuba, kutheni kukho ukukhohlisa? Kulula kakhulu. Ngoku kukho amakholwa amaninzi, kwaye unqulo lwenkolo luyahluke kakhulu kwilizwe. Umzekelo, owokuqala ukholelwa ukuba inyaniso iyinyani kuphela isebe lakhe. Kwakhona, abantu benkolo, kwanamaKristu, bahlala besona ngokungahambisani nomntu womntu kunye nokubonakalisa, ngoko ke bakholelwa ukuba ukuba uncwadi okanye ubugcisa budibaniswe noThixo, ke ezi zinto zenziwa ngokomoya, kwaye abanye bayayenqaba kule ndawo.

Inqaku likwaso ukuba igama elithi "ukomoya" linomfuno omkhulu, kuba abantu abaninzi banomdla kwi-Orthodoxy. Kodwa, ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka, abantu, usebenzisa igama, ungakhathazeki ukubheka kwisichazamazwi. Ukongezelela, yindalo yomntu ukuphosa. Kwaye uFrancis Bacon wabonisa iintlobo ezine zeziphene zesifundo ekufundeni ihlabathi. Akukho mfuneko yokuluhlula zonke ezine, sinomdla kuphela kwi "zithixo zecandelo leemakethe" - into eyenza ukuba abantu bangacingi ngamagama, kwaye ngamnye ubeka intsingiselo yakhe kubo. Oku ke kunzima kakhulu ukuqonda. Ngokomzekelo, sinokuthatha intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukomoya": umntu onokholo uthetha omnye, kwaye umntu ongeyena unqulo uyahluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngokudabukisayo, abazange bavumelane.

Ngethamsanqa, intsingiselo yegama elithi "ukunyaniseka" ayibangeli abantu ubunzima obunjalo. Kusabandakanyeka kwingqondo yomntu ngento enhle nefanelekileyo. Siyathemba ukuba umfundi wethu akayi kudibanisa iingcamango ezinxulumene nazo. Wonke umntu ofundayo kufuneka awazi umahluko phakathi kwemiqathango "yokomoya" kunye "nokunyaniseka", ewe, ukuba ufuna ukuthetha ukuba uyakwazi isiRashiya.