elide Kuye abantu yesikali sikhulu kwaye liphawula ukuzalwa emtshatweni. A christening - oku kuza kube kubhiyozelwa yokuzalwa, kodwa ke ubukho Amaqhawe sihlandlo. Yaye uhlala azole ezinzulwini umnqweno ienjini kulo msitho ukuqokelela elona nani likhulu labantu etafileni kwaye yonke into yesikali ubuninzi. Sathi sakubaleka ke zonke izalamane kunye udaba olulodwa embi ukuba ufuna ukuba christening intombazana okanye inkwenkwe. Nangona yi amaqhawe kwimibhiyozo azisoloko ufuna mbhiyozo ebanzi kwaye kuyakhathaza hlobo. Sithetha apha ngento kufuneka azilungiselele kunye nendlela ukwenza isigqibo esisiso.
Kanye emtshatweni, christening yahlulwe ngezigaba ezibini: kumsitho ebandleni mkhosi. Ndimele ndithi ukuba inxalenye esemthethweni ikakhulu ixhomekeke odolo, imithetho kunye neminqweno ngabefundisi uyitempile apho uceba ukwenza isicelo. Kwaye apha kuziwa le ndlela ngamanye amaxesha izichasi. Ngoko ke musa ukuba wonqena Buza ngqo kwi umbingeleli, lowo uya kwenza umthendeleko, zonke iinkcukacha, iimfuno kunye neminqweno. Musa ukuthandabuza ukuba sikucela ebandleni yonke into efunekayo ukuze intombazana christening. Musa ukuba kakubi, ukuba uya kwamkela umbingeleli kunye nokufakelwa zokomoya, kwakunye nengcaciso malunga isiganeko ezayo, ngenxa yokuba phantsi amasiko ekhazimlayo zifihliwe izinto ezinzulu kakhulu kwaye kakhulu, nokuqonda leyo kwandisa impumelelo kubeka sengqondo ilungelo lokuphila komntu omtsha. into kokomoya ibhityile kakhulu: ayikwazi ukwenza ngenkani, kodwa ukugoba kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kakhulu yezimo kwaye ngokuzenzekelayo.
Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, oluninzi ingqalelo ehlawulwa iimpawu zangaphandle. Ngoko ke, kukholelwa ukuba eyona nto iphambili ukuba kuyimfuneko kuba intombazana christening, u ta va u isinxibo chic ukuba sana godparents bakhe, nabo bonke abakhoyo, ngokunjalo izinto zexabiso kunye nezincedisi. Icawe sivame kule ngongoma: kuvumela iilokhwe curvy ukuba christenings, iminqamlezo zegolide isakramente zokudubula. Kodwa kukho ezinye sengqondo ayencokola: umntwana ecaweni kufuneka banxibe nje, elula ukusebenzisa izinto eziqhelekileyo, nalapho ke kuphela, unako akuyibhiyozeli le holide into ofuna nendlela ufuna. Phambi koThixo ngenxa yokuba bonke bayalingana, yaye umnqamlezo negolide iya kuba amandla ngaphezu zezobhedu. Kodwa ke isimo ikhoyo yengqondo nga kuchaphazela wonke umntwana ubomi bakho kangangoko ngaphezu nayiphi lesiphumo, iifoto kunye okuvelayo ababelapho.
Xa sijonge yonke le nto, kunye namava ethu, ndithi ukuba kakhulu ukuba ukusebenzisa i ihempe ukubhaptizwa. Kungcono noko, ukuba bathe zibambene phakathi kwemilenze. Kulo mzekelo, zonke iindawo eziyimfuneko Xelela umntwana evulekileyo kunye uphawu lomnqamlezo Kulula kakhulu ngakumbi ukugcina umntwana kangangethuba elide. Kwaye emva kokugqitywa namasiko kwaye banxibe umntwana, kwaye ukuncedisana yangasese uthanda nezincedisi.
Enye imfuneko le christening ntombazana? Ibandla kwambatha iminqwazi, izihlangu kunye nezacholo angafanele ngayo. Kwaye ngoko baye bacela ukuba ukususa. Kodwa ke ukukhanya enkulu kufuneka nje itawuli. Nceda qaphela ukuba intombi yakho iya kuhlala ubomi. Ukuba umntwana mncinane kakhulu, uyakwazi ukubeka phezu iikawusi emhlophe kunye cap ukukhanya. Ukukhetha odezhku umntwana, ucinga ukuba godparents nga ngokukhawuleza nangokulula ukususa yonke loo nto. Ayifane wafumana namhlanje, isithethe ngokuntywiliselwa ngokupheleleyo womgca uulefwaya womntwana, kodwa imilenze, iingalo, intamo, nentloko ukuze wazala zonke ii-akhawunti. Gcina oku engqondweni godfathers zilumkise ngeengxaki kunokwenzeka.
Kwaye okona kubalulekileyo - musa ukukhathazeka. Nabefundisi - abantu izolile kakhulu, nomonde kunye baqhele ukuba zonke ezi nkqubo. Nokuba wenza into akubonakali, unina okanye ezinye abancedisi ukunceda, elikhawulezileyo nesandla ngandlela zonke. Amaxesha amaninzi, nkqu nezinto ezifunekayo - iminqamlezo, amatyathanga, imifanekiso, njl zingathengwa apha kuloo ndawo. Kodwa izihlabo inkolo, ndizama ukuthatha kuyo buqu kwaye musa ukukucebisa. Awukwazi akusoloko nefuthe iimeko, kodwa acaphuke ngayo Awonakalise isimo omnye ayikho imfuneko.
Lo msitho eyinhloko phezu. Ngoku uyakwazi ukuhlala ukhululeke njengomongo intliziyo. Cwangcisa yonke indlela kakuhle ukuba wena nomntwana wakho. ithamsanqa!