Ukuvuyisana ngemini yomtshato, abazali bomtshakazi nomyeni.

Ubomi bentsapho nganye kukho imicimbi ekhunjulwayo ebomini. Kwaye umtshato ungomnye wabo. Ukuba kukho idilidi ephasayo, apho izihlobo kunye nabahlobo, abasondeleyo nabathandekayo balapho, ngoko njani ukwenza le mcimbi ibe yikhunjulwa kubo bonke? Kuya kuthatha isigqoko se- chic kumtshakazi, i-suit okanye i-tuxedo yomyeni, imoto yomtshato, ivenkile yokudlela, iziqhamo kunye nomhlobiso weholo. Kodwa akukho konke. Kungekudala, iintetho ezivuyisayo, ewe, iintetho, nokungabikho, ezichazwe ngabazali, abasandul 'ukutshata kunye nabamemile abantu, bathandwa kakhulu.

Unokufumana ukuvuyiswa okwenziwe ngomhla wakho womtshato. Bazali, bahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo mabacelwe ukuba batshwankathele kule ngxaki, ukuze ekubhiyozelweni kwakungayi kuba nokuphindaphinda kunye nentukuthelo. Kungcono ukuqamba imeko apho kuya kubhaliwe ngokucacileyo ngubani na omelayo. Ungayibhala ngokwakho, ngokuba ngoku kukho izithuba ezaneleyo kunye nokuncoma kunye neentetho ezahlukeneyo zemikhosi.

Kodwa enye yezona ntetho ezibalulekileyo zonkqonkqo yintsikelelo yabazali. Emtshatweni, kuthethwa ngexesha lokuthengwa kwexabiso lomtshakazi kwiintombi zeentombi, xa uyise nonina bebongoza umntwana. Kwaye intetho elandelayo yabazali emtshatweni iyaxhaswa ngumama nomyeni womyeni kwisidlo. Ngexesha leentlanganiso kunye ne-caravan kunye ne-champagne. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuphinda uhlaziyeke okuncane, kuba le mcimbi ukuba kulula ukulahleka kwaye udideke "kwiimvakalelo".

Umyeni ulungele ukulungiselela intetho encinci apho uya kubonisa indlela awajonga ngayo abazali bekamva elizayo. Emva koko, ubudlelwane noninazala kufuneka bakhule ngokukhawuleza naphakade.

Ukuvuyisana ngemini yomtshato, abazali bomtshakazi:

Umama wesibini, ndikubulela,

Ndiyabulela ngentombi yakho entle,

Ndiyathemba ukukubona ngexesha lokutyelela imihla ngemihla,

Kwaye i-borschtner yakho enqwenela ukuzama,

Uyonwabile intombi yakho iya kuba kunye nam,

Ngoko ke, ndamthabatha ekhaya. "

Kuba ngumkhwe-mkhwenkwe, kukulungele ukubhala intetho enokubonga ngayo, kodwa encinane njengomntu. Ngomnye amaxesha ukuba ubaba anike enye intombazana yakhe kwintsapho, akayi kuba buhlungu kunokuba unina.

"Othandekayo (uTata okanye i-IO), ndifuna ukubonisa ukuba ndiyamkela ngokunyanisekileyo imfundo yale ntombi enhle, ongeyena nje umfazi onobuqili kwaye ohle, kodwa naye unomfazi omhle. Kwaye ndiyathemba ngokukhawuleza ukuba uya kuba ngumama obalaseleyo wabantwana bethu kunye nabazukulwana bakho bokamva. Ndiyabulela ngokusuka enhliziyweni kuwe konke,

Ukubamba naliphi na isiganeko esixakathekileyo sidibene neengxaki ezintle. Kodwa abantu abatsha kufuneka balungiselele ukuvuyisana ngosuku lwabo lomtshato. Abazali bafanele babulelwe. Kungcono ukuba kukho intetho apho abasandul 'ukutshata baza kukubulela ngenxa yokubhiyozela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, amagama amaninzi avela entliziyweni, kodwa kubaninzi ukuba bathethe ngexesha elincinci kunzima kwaye ngoko kubalulekile ukubhala kwangaphambili.

Ndiyakuvuyela ngosuku lwakho lomtshato:

Bazali, sivuyisana kwaye sibonisa ukubonga,

Ngobo busuku unina ongenabuthongo kunye nomonde kuPapa,

Oko bakufundayo, baphatha, kwaye sasithandwa kakhulu,

Oomama nabathandekayo bam, ndibulela kakhulu kuni nonke. "

Abazali abathandekayo nabathandekayo, sinomvuzo kuwe namhlanje. Ukuba iminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, ngamnye wenu wayengekho ngexesha elungileyo kwindawo elungileyo, ngoku ngoku kuya kuba yeholide enye isibini. Kwaye ngoko siyanincoma ngokwenene kuni, ngokuba ngenxa yenu sakwazi ukudala intsapho yethu, ezayo iyakunika abazukulu. "

Kwaye into enjalo, into ephambili kukuba amagama ayenayo kwaye aphuma entliziyweni. Kwaye kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba nabani na, nokuba negama elingaphantsi, lingathintela ngakumbi ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nezihlobo. Kwaye ngoko, emva kokubhala intetho yakho eyamkelekileyo, kuyafaneleka ukuba ufunde umfazi wakhe okanye umyeni wakhe, ukuze uqonde ukuba kuya kukukholisa njani abazali. Ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo, uthando nomonde!