Ukhangeleka njani?

Ukususela ebuntwaneni, abantu bakuva malunga nezingane. Ngubani na yena, uvelaphi na kwaye kutheni wonke umntu eyikayika kangaka? Yintoni ibhentshi ebonakalayo efana nayo kwaye ikhona ngokwenene? Kutheni abanye besaba ubomi bakhe bonke, kwaye abanye abesabi na? Le mibuzo neminye eminye iya kuxutyushwa kwinqaku.

Ulwazi jikelele

UBabai (kubantu abaqhelekileyo bakaBawoi) uyisidalwa esicacileyo sobusuku esibulala abantwana abangafuni ukulala. Kwabonakala njalo: xa umntu exelele ibali elibi kumntwana wakhe, apho wathi ukuba akayi kulala, i-monster eyoyikekayo, enegazi iza kumthabatha. Oku kusebenze, kwaye indlela yaqala ukusabalalisa, okwenza ibe yintando ngakumbi. Kwimihla yamhlanje, iyaqhubeka isetyenziswe kwaye ixelelwe ngayo ngabantwana abangathobeliyo.

Kuguqulelo oluvela kwiTatar, igama elithi "babai" lithetha umkhulu, ngoko ke ixesha elikhulu uBabayka limelelwe ngendoda endala endala endala, enokubangela intlungu eninzi kuwo wonke umntu oza kujamelana nayo. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunguye enye yeengcamango, kuba akukho namnye owaziyo ngokucacileyo ukuba i-babayka ibonakala njani. Ngaphezu koko, ininzi yexesha, ayimelwe konke ngokungathi ngumntu ngokubanzi kunye noomkhulu ngokukodwa.

Izidalwa ezifanayo

Babayka yindalo enkulu yaseRashiya. Kwamanye amazwe abantwana bayethusa ngabalinganiswa abahluke ngokupheleleyo, abangenanto encinci kwaye banomdla. Ezinye zazo zinikezelwa ngezantsi:

• I-Boogeyman. Lo mlingiswa usetyenziselwa ukwesabisa abantwana kumazwe amaninzi. Unokukubona kwi-movie kunye negama elifanayo.
• Beech. Nguye Boogeyman ofanayo, igama elilodwa nje. UStephen uphethe ibali elifutshane ngegama elifanayo. Nangona kunjalo, kwinguqulelo yesiNgesi ifundwa ngokuthi "i-Boogeyman", ebonisa ukungahambelani nesihloko esingaphambili.
• Krampus. Le ndalo ivela eJamani. Le ngqumbo, inkunzi kunye nezilwanyana ezinjengezilwanyana ziyabaphanga abantwana ababenzileyo, ngeveki yeKrismesi. UKrampus uzibeka esikhwameni sakhe esikhulu aze amthathe kwindawo yakhe, apho edla khona.

Babayka - inyaniso okanye inyaniso?

Ekuboneni kokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, kubonakala ngathi umlingani owakubonwayo awunjalo. Akukho mntu uyazi ukuba i-babayka ibonakala ngathi, akukho nto ecacileyo iboniswa kwisithombeni, izikhombisi kuphela, iingcamango, imidwebo, imifanekiso kunye njalo njalo. Nangona kunjalo, inani elaneleyo labantu bakholelwa kwizigodlo, iipoltergeist kunye ne-UFOs, ikakhulukazi abadala (zikhona iingxaki ezingenangqondo kubantwana). Kutheni? Kukho nje ubungqina (ngokugcwele ngokupheleleyo) bobukho babo. Kwaye ngoku asiyi kuthetha ngoThixo nangokwenyaniso, kodwa konke okuvela kwi-opera efanayo: sikholelwa kwinto esingakaze siyibone.

Ngoko, akunakwenzeka ukuphendula ngokungapheliyo malunga nenene kababa, njengoko uyaqonda, ngoko konke abantu kufuneka bayenze bakuphulaphule. Akunandaba nokuba bathini, okubaluleke kakhulu, oko ukholelwa kuwe. Uziva njani? Ukuba ufuna ukukholelwa ukuba kukho i-bamboo, akudingeki ukuba uzikhohlise ukwenza okuchaseneyo, ukhangela abanye. Le yinyani yakho, imbono yakho kunye nokholo lwakho. Ukuba ucinga ukuba akukho iilekese, ke akukho nto unokukhathazeka ngayo. Ubuninzi obunokwenzeka kwiimeko ezinjalo - esi sidalwa sinquma ukubonisa ubungqina obunjalo ngenye yobusuku obumnyama, xa uhlala ekhaya wedwa.

Abantwana kunye neBanabajka

Udidi oluphambili lwabantu abakholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo kwaye besoyika i-monster exutyushwayo ngabantwana ukusuka kwinye ukuya kweyishumi ubudala. Kungenxa yokuba abantwana banomdla kwaye banengqondo; Ngokuqhelekileyo bathabatha yonke into ebalulekileyo abazali babo ababaxelela ngayo. Eyokugqibela, bayakuvuyela ukuzama: ukuba umntwana ulale ngokukhawuleza, kwaye akayikubambana nabo ebukumkanini bukaMorpheus, ukuba abayi kumxelela. Amabali aqhelekileyo kubazali aphezulu, okumele alume umgqomo, kunye nobaba owaziwayo. Emva koko, abantu abadala baya kulala, bashiye abantwana babo baqhekeke ngenxa yokwesaba nemibuzo. Libukeka njani le bhathaneli? Ngaba kunzima, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, kungakanani? Kutheni afune ukuba umntwana aphume ebhedini? Yintoni eyayiza kwenzeka xa wayenyuka kwindawo yakhe yokucasha waza wahlaselwa xa umntwana elele? Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo zonke ezi ngcamango zixhomekeke kubantwana abaneengcamango ezinzulu kakhulu.

Ngendlela, abaninzi abantwana bakholelwa kwiSanta Claus, iFairy Fairy, i-Mermaid kunye nabanye abalinganiswa bee-fairy. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba wonke umntu uyazi ukubonakala kwezi herozi ezikhankanywe ngentla, ke akukho mntu uyazi malunga nokuba umntwana ubonakala njani, kuquka nabazali ngokwabo. Kwaye umntu ongaziwayo uyabethusa bonke abantu, kuba iingcamango zingabonakalisa ukwesaba okukhulu kangangokuba abanye abazange baphuphe.

Indlela yokubona i-bambike

Ukuhlala kwezidalwa esizithetha ngazo zidla ngokubanzi: ngaphantsi kombhede, kwii-closets, kumacangci amnyama, kwiindawo zokuvala kunye nakwii-attics. Kukho into efuna ukuyijonga. Mhlawumbi awuyi kubona nto, mhlawumbi kuya kubonakala kuwe ukuba uyaphawule into ethile, mhlawumbi unethamsanqa, kwaye uya kufunda ukuba i-babayka ibonakala njani. Enyanisweni, inhlanhla iya kuba yantlonelo, kuba ukuba uyakholelwa le ngcamango, akukho nto ilungileyo kwiintlanganiso iya kwenzeka. Ukongezelela, kunjalo, kufuneka ube nemoya efanelekileyo: ukuba ube yedwa ekhaya, cima izibane kuyo yonke indawo uze ujikeleze emagumbini ukukhangela i-monster, okanye ngaphantsi kokukhanya kwenyanga ukujonga kwiifestile, okanye ngokugqithiseleyo, ukulungele ukuphuma nanini na ikhandlela.

Phakathi kwezinye izinto, unako ukubona abantwana kwiibhayisikobho kunye neetakhathuni, kwimifanekiso, ngamaphupha nakwiingcamango. Ngokwemvelo, oku akunjalo oko wonke umntu alindele, kodwa kungcono kunanto.

Isiphelo

Ngoko, sadibana noBawoika kunye "nezihlobo" zakhe, kwaye safunda ukuba akunamsebenzi ukuzama ukufumana ubungqina bokuba khona. Nabani na odibana nesidalwa esiyingqayizivele, ngakumbi "emnyama" nobubi, akunakwenzeka ukuba athathwe ngokukodwa. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto:

• Ukungafuni ukubonisa loo mfihlelo eyoyikisayo kwaye eyingozi;
• Uloyiko lokuba abantu baya kuhleka, abayi kukholelwa baze bafumane buqatha;
• Ubudenge (emva kwentlanganiso enjalo unokwazi ukuphoqa);
• Ukufa (amangqina awayithandi kuphela ubuqu bobugebengu, ngoko akunakwenzeka ukuba isidalwa sathana esiya kuthanda ukumvumela umntu emva kwentlanganiso yakhe).

Kufanelekile kathathu ukucinga phambi kokuba udibanise nezinto ezimnyama. Ngaphantsi kweemeko ezithile, ilizwi elithi "Ongazi kakuhle-ngakumbi ukulala ngokulala" kufana ngqo.