I-Taboyi yokwesaba isigwebo ngokubanzi

Ekuqaleni, intsingiselo yokuvinjelwa yayinqulo. I-Tabo yinto engenakwenzeka ukwenza izinto ezithile phantsi koyiko loothixo. Into enqatshelwe kukuba sisono. I-Taboo iphelele, ayichazwa ngokucacileyo "engenakwenzeka." Umyalelo ophezulu, unyanzelekile kumntu oqhelekileyo.

Imvelaphi yombono

UJames Cook wayengowokuqala ukuhlangabezana nale nto ibalulekileyo kakhulu ngo-1771. Abantu basePolynesia bamzisa kwizithethe zabo ezisisiseko, phakathi kwazo kwakuyi "tab". Kwamshukumisa kangangokuthi iimbali malunga ne-oddities ye "savages" zazide zenziwe kwaye zadlula emlonyeni ukuya emlonyeni. Ukuhlanzeka kokomoya kwabantu basekuhlaleni, abanokholo olunyanisekileyo nolungenakuphikiswa, mhlawumbi luyinto ebalulekileyo echazwe kule ngcamango. Ukunqanda ukukhuseleka, inqabileyo engokwenyama, ukuphulwa kwezinto ezinokubangela ukufa ngokukhawuleza nokungafanelanga. Oko kwakukho amandla okholo lwabo!

Ukusetyenziswa kwamhlanje kwegama elithi "taboo"

Umthamo kunye nobungaphantsi kwegama elithi "taboo" ngokwenene lathande inzululwazi. Yiyo Kancinci wangena kwinzululwazi, kwengqondo kunye nezinye i-sayensi. I-Taboo yinto "engcwele", "ukuthintela". Iingcali zenzululwazi zandisa kakhulu intsingiselo yayo, ukwakha kabusha kwisakhiwo esiyinkimbinkimbi, ukudibanisa kunye nokudibanisa zombini iinguqulelo kwixesha elide elininzi, ekugqibeleni lifumana iinguqu ezingakumbi. Into eyona nto, ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuvalwa. Kodwa ingaba nemibala emininzi kunye neziseko ezinxulumene namanqanaba angaphantsi kweengqondo zobuntu.

Inzululwazi, i-tab-ayiyiyo inqatshelwe inkolo, kodwa imilinganiselo yokuziphatha ngokubhekiselele kwizinto okanye izinto ezinje. Ingxenye yomzimba okanye ubuntu ingaba engcwele okanye ingavunyelwe. Kukho incwadi ethi "taboo" okanye ulwazi, elinezizathu ezithile ezingasebenzi kwiindawo ezininzi.

Taboo kwimfundo

Le ngcamango ifanekisayo. Iingcamango zethu zidibanisa nayo nayiphi na into enqatshelweyo, engekho efanelekileyo, ngezizathu ezithile, ukuchaza. Umzekelo, kunzima ukuchazela umntwana omncinci intsingiselo yamagama angcolileyo. Abazali kaninzi abakwazi ukuphendula umbuzo wokuba kutheni abantwana bamele bangasebenzisi lamagama - abadala abakwazi ukuzikhawulela. Iintsana zifundiswa ukuba la magama anethambo. AmaMom, engacingi ngentsingiselo yento eyenzekayo, aphefumle umntwana wakhe ngengqiqo enqabileyo yokuthintela. Ngoko, ngenxa yesana lomntwana - lo ngumthetho ophefumlelwe igunya lomama (utata), ukuphulwa kwayo kuya kubangela ukuba ulaka lwabazali lube lula. Oku kukude nentsingiselo ephucukileyo yentsingiselo yento eyenzekayo, kodwa ikulungele.

Ngelishwa, iindlela "ezifanelekileyo" zokukhuliselwa zikhokelela ekubonakaleni kwemingeni yomntwana eyingozi kumntu omdala. Umntu akavelanga nje umkhwa wokungenzi izinto ezithile okanye ukungasebenzisi amagama athile, kodwa nesimo esiqinileyo malunga nokunqula abaphathi bakhe abazali bakhe. Ukukrazula ukuxhomekeka kwengqondo kwi-authoritarianism kunzima kakhulu, akunakwenzeka ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ithathe ingcambu kumntu ngamnye. Le nyaniso inqanda ukukhula okuqhubekayo kunye nophuhliso oluhambelana nomntu, ukufezekiswa kweenjongo zakhe.