imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kunye nemigaqo yabantu kuxhomekeka kwi-atmosfere usapho apho wakhula. Ngoko ke, ngamanye amaxesha kubalulekile ukuba babhale yombulelo incwadi abazali ukuba bakhuthaze iinzame zabo, ze ubanike nethemba lokuba bekhulisa abantwana babo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Nabo, kakhulu, ufuna ukwazi ukuba umsebenzi wabo noku! Abasebenzi nabo udlulise incwadi yokubonga ngomsebenzi owenziwe, yaye okukhona abazali utyalo inxalenye imiphefumlo yabo umntwana wabo? Ngoko ke namhlanje siza kuzama ukufumana phandle indlela yokubhala ileta ukuze umama kunye notata sasivuya ngokwenene kwaye umzuzu akuthandabuze ukunyaniseka kwakho.
Qala ileta yombulelo ukuba abazali unyango yobuqu kubo. Ndikholelwe, akukho mntu uya kuba mnandi, ukuba wenze nje iikopi zeeleta ukuba oomama nootata yabo bonke abafundi bakho mathathu! Siyabulela ileta eya kubazali kufuneka uqale ngala mazwi: "Aba ivanov Ivan Ivanovich kunye ivanova Anna Sidorovna ayahlonitshwa" kunokuba ibinzana elithi "bazali abathandekayo." Nokuba ufuna ukuthumela konke okubhaliweyo umgangatho, unyango engcono nangoku ukubhala abakhe - ngoko ke ukunika ecacileyo wonke ukuba ngokwenene uyayixabisa imigudu yabo yokukhulisa abantwana babo. Nangona kungcono, Kakade ke, ukuba isicatshulwa sakho enkosi-kuni ileta eya kubazali zomfundi ngamnye. umntwana ngamnye sele ubuchule zabo iitalente ekufuneka banconywe. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ube yombulelo incwadi eya kubazali, nto leyo ethatha Page wesandla, kodwa kunokuba bachithe ixesha kuyilo layo elihle. Unakho, Kakade ke, ukuqokelela ileta kwi khompyutha, bachitha ixesha elincinane kakhulu, kodwa ke loo nto ngathi ukuba eli utata ndlela kunye oomama - kodwa nangoku umbuzo omkhulu.
Akukho imithetho efanayo yokubhala enkosi-kuni iileta kubazali. Mhlawumbi into kuphela idibane zonke iintlobo zezibonelelo kootitshala abaqalayo zesikolo - le nto incwadi kufuneka lubhalwe ngokuchanekileyo indlela esemthethweni, qala unyango kunye end isayinwe, umhla watshaya. Ke ukuba isicatshulwa, kufuneka ubonise nje kancane. Cinga ke amazwi kwakholeka ukuva kwidilesi umntwana wakho ngokwakho. Unokufumana ulwazi malunga umsebenzi abazali size sibone ukuba yintoni uluxabisayo abantu bathi. Kwaye ke unako agxininise kwincwadi ezo iimpawu umntwana, bafuna ukuba aphuhlise kwaye umama kunye notata wakhe.
Mhlawumbi akuyiphazamisi apha kunye Ekugudeni encinane, ngenxa yokuba kule mihla abantu nesizathu ngaphantsi uvuyo, nabantwana maxa wambi ukuze abadinga indumiso endaweni ungcikivo rhoqo abazali. Khumbula ukuba bonke abantwana abanetalente, kodwa usukelo lwakho njengomfundisi - ukutyhila ezo iitalente nokukhuthaza uphuhliso lwabo, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha ufuna isuntswana impumelelo spice somntwana, ukuba ukumkhuthaza. Mhlawumbi enkosi yakho incwadi kuya kunyanzela abazali ekugqibeleni sinikele ingqalelo umntwana wakho ukuba ekugqibeleni, mkhuthaze ukuba impumelelo ezintsha!