Ubhaptizo lomfana iphendula le mibuzo eziphambili

Church Orthodox icebisa ukuba inkwenkwe babhaptizelwa ngomhla wamashumi omane ukusuka ekuzalweni. Kodwa wonke umzali unako ngokuzimeleyo ukukhetha umhla oko kakhulu lula kubo. Kuba esi siganeko sibaluleke kufuneka zilungiselelwe kakuhle nabazali nje kuphela, kodwa uphawu lomnqamlezo. Ukubhaptizwa umfana wahlukile kancinci ukusuka intombazana christening. Ngokomzekelo, kukholelwa ukuba inkwenkwe kufuneka ibe owayemele kunye Ummeli kungangabikho. Xa amantombazana, okwahlukileyo liyinyaniso. Kodwa ke kucacile ukuba umntwana uza kuba ngcono ukuba wayeya kuba umcebisi ezimbini zokomoya, ngubani na oya kuba ecaleni kwakhe, kungekuphela nje namhla, kodwa ubomi bakhe bonke. Njani ubhaptizo le nkwenkwe kwaye yonke into efunekayo, siya kuchaza kweli nqaku.

Nantsi ke imibuzo engundoqo abazali umntwana ngokuqhelekileyo wabuza:

1. yokubamba Apho ubhaptizo? Ukuba abazali icawa othandwayo ukuba andwendwele rhoqo, ubhaptizo le nkwenkwe inokwenziwa ncam kulo, kuvunyelwene kwangaphambili kunye nombingeleli. Ukuba akukho ndawo enjalo, ungakhetha nawuphi na iziko ngokomoya, nto uyithandayo kwaye umbingeleli kuya kubangela wena uqiniseka mkhulu kunye nentlonipho. Ukuze ubhalisele ukuba ukubhaptizwa, nceda ufowunele i-ofisi ecaweni uze ufumanise imihla apho kunokwenzeka ukuqhuba le nkonzo. Unakho ukucela uhlobo udliwano apho uya kukwazi ukuba incoko kumbingeleli, buza imibuzo ukuba nomdla.

2. Ngubani ukukhetha godparents? Amaxesha amaninzi, ezi indima ebalulekileyo bameme abahlobo babo. Kodwa unguYe indlela engalunganga umcimbi onjalo. Godparents yokuba umntwana wakho kufuneka ibe ngabantu abakwaziyo lukhulu malunga ngokomoya yaye ngokwabo rhoqo icawa. Emva umngcelele iya kuba ngokomoya ukuba umntwana wakho uyakwazi njalo ukunceda ucebise ngendlela elungileyo, yaye ngenxa yoko abantu bakho abanyulwa kufuneka sottvetstvovat le zesigaba esiphezulu. Ukongeza, akunakwenzeka ukuba godparents umama kunye notata ziye ukutshata okanye ibe nolwalamano olusenyongweni kunye nabanye.

3. Ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba ubhaptizo umfana? Ummeli unika umntwana ihempe balefwaya kunye itawuli owayemele uTata - umnqamlezo pectoral. Konke oku kufuneka zingathengwa kwangaphambili uze unike abazali phambi kokuba ubhaptizo, ukuba ukulibala nto. Usenokuba kucelwa ukuba mabeze nezithabathaba ibandla: isonka, iswekile kunye nezinye iimveliso.

4. njani ukulungiselela umthendeleko? uqeqesho olusisiseko ziya kuthwalwa godparents. A kwiveki ngaphambi kokuba ubhaptizwe, kufuneka ukuvuma nokufumana umthendeleko ebandleni. Kwiintsuku ezintathu ngaphambi kokuba isiganeko kufuneka ahlale ngeposi sayekelela, kwakunye ukufunda okanye ubuncinane izihlandlo eziliqela ukufunda UCreed (umthandazo, "Ndiyakholwa").

5. ubhaptizo umfana njani? Eyona ndima ephambili udlalwa kwi umthendeleko umbingeleli godparents, alandela bonke ababingeleli. Khangela ubushushu wamanzi kule ifonti umbingeleli iqala yezithethe. Kuxhomekeke ukhetha ngamnye okanye ubhaptizo nokuba, kuthatha isiqingatha seyure iiyure enye enesiqingatha.

Ngoku umntwana wakho ufumene Guardian Angel kunye godparents, abasoloko apho. UThixo akusikelele!