Ngumsindo njengoko umgangatho ngamnye

Wobulali - sinotyekelo azanelanga ukusabela, kakhulu kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ngumchamo ngokweemvakalelo, ukuba nochuku, edubulayo; ukuthambekela umsindo.

   Uhluleka - ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo ukweba iimvakalelo. Xa uphumle, ingqondo ilawula amazwi iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, kwaye kuphela ukuba impambano okwethutyana, nokuba njani na ngumsindo ngo mvakalelo isithuba zixoxe yingozi. It kwandisa izinga intliziyo, ukwanda koxinzelelo lwegazi, linamandla iadrenaline yesiphithiphithi. Ukuba ixesha akuthethi isantya, ungasa kakuhle zibe kwimeko umsindo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo obubonakala, kubandakanywa kakhulu - lobushushu ngumsindo. Sokumpompa indoda amakhulu, wobulali umsi lilo ube kwimo ukudimazeka udiniwe, udiniwe, ungenamandla kwaye morose. Abahlobo aba wobulali umsindo nephuku, umsindo, ucaphuka kunye nokunqongophala eseleyo.

Ukulahlekelwa engqondweni yam ixeshana, umntu akakwazi ukulawula phezu kwabo, abe zanomkhinkqi, ngoko ke ulahlekelwa intlonipho emehlweni abanye. Wobulali ishenxisa ukukwazi ukuba enze isigqibo esifanelekileyo, ukutyhala ngenxa yezenzo irhashalala, ezehlisa impilo yabantu, iingxaki amqumbisa esa fane luze luphele ngemvo shame.

Yentukuthelo luphawulwa kokuba lwephanyazo bekwimo cwaka uchulumanco kakhulu, zifune esisingxami. A indima ebonakalayo idlalwa sawo, mayingabi njalo. Uhluleka - umntu ngaphandle "brake". Nawuphi na umntu amakhulu ngemini kuyimfuneko ukuba uyaqaphela okanye engaqondanga ukwenza ukhetho, indlela ukuphendula kwimeko ethile yobomi. Ilungelo lokukhetha - isipho enkulu wekamva, iadvanteji esixabiseke ngamnye abazi. Umzekelo, kwi esiporweni singasebenza ngaloo krwada wathi ukutyhala. Le ndoda ukhetho yendlela oza kuyenza le meko - ukungena axabene le Cad minh okanye batyeshele njengasengcaphukisweni. Ukuze sicinge ukuba benze ntoni, shiya sesibili. Uhluleka alaziwa izono, abunaluthando iingenelo inkulu ngamnye - ilungelo lokukhetha. Yena, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo umzuzwana kaThixo, kubaneka, kabukhali kuphakamisa ilizwi lakhe, nihlinza "yangaphantsi elukwe" kwakhe, ngenkuthalo othuka, elifutshane, nomsindo nangamandla akhe onke. Ngamanye amazwi, a ngumsindo phakathi kwesiganeko kunye impendulo kuwo akukho "vana ukhuseleko" ngokohlobo ukhetho yomthetho. Isivuseleli Ukudlula sekuqaleni sezingqondweni okucoca ifuthe ngqo kwi kumaziko oluntu sensitive, ebangela ukukhanya wobulali. Izizathu wobulali Musa ukubala esinye sezizathu - ukungakwazi kunye nokungakwazi ukukhetha indlela oza kusabela ngayo iziganeko ebomini.

Kcukumisa umsindo inokuba akwazuza, kodwa, ngaphezu kwabo bonke, umsindo ukufudumala ukuqiniseka. Ngenxa yokungabi ukuzeyisa kunye nozinzo bengqondo, umntu unako lula 'umlilo "kwintlanganiso kunye ngokungazi, engafuni ukuba ukuphulaphula, basoloko bephazamisa niphikisana. Bad mood, ntshikilelo, ukudinwa, uloyiko nexhala kungaba indlela elungileyo ukuba ngumsindo. Ngamanye amazwi, unobangela wobulali kunokuba nayiphi na into okanye imeko yehlabathi lwangaphandle, nto leyo encamathele ngokwexabiso kwemfuneko.

Xa wobulali ezininzi neentshaba ebusweni uluntu, ububele, ukunyamezelana, ukuqonda kunye nokukwazi ukuxolela. Ebubuvuvu loo nto wayo, ubulumko kunye nokuzeyisa. Kuyinto yimvakalelo kudlula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kufuneka zisetyenziswe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba zifake umzuzu bubushushu, akabandulula yintlantsi phemba edangatyeni. Ngokuba lo mntu kufuneka abe njengomntwana, ukuba aphum mxholo incoko, ugcine kwi yokugcina izixhobo ezifumanekayo - uxolo noxolelwaniso.

ayikwazi ngokuba ezikhuselekileyo ubomi Spitfire. Loluphi uhlobo ukhuseleko kuba khona ukuba umntu akanakho "evakalala". Umzekelo eliqaqambileyo wobulali - artist omkhulu Caravaggio. Man sawo uvuthuzayo, rough, ngqindilili kunye elizimeleyo. A uhlobo wegcisa eshushu wobulali yaye nakulwa, waba namkhusane amava abasisigxina kunye nabanye, nto leyo edla uphele ukulwa, le ezimbini zokucwangcisa, okanye kukutyundyutha ngekrele. Kuba oku, uye ngokuphindaphindiweyo wagwetywa entolongweni. Ngowe-1606 Caravaggio axabene eyaqalisa ngexesha umdlalo ibhola, wabulala utshaba lwakhe, babaleka eRoma. Kanye e Naples, wayelapho kufuna umsebenzi wawelela Malta, apho, emva kokuchitha unyaka, waba lilungu uMyalelo ngokusebenzisa ukusekelwa GM, Mfanekiso kabani na vali. Noko ke, ukuba sisithuko gross ukuya kwenye neenkokeli Order of Caravaggio wayevalelwe, yena wasinda kuye waza wasebenza kangangexesha elithile emizini yeSisili emva Naples. Xa yethemba uxolelo upopu, wemka ngomkhombe eRoma. Ngempazamo wabanjwa abalindi umda iSpanish, abathwali ophangiweyo, igcisa igula yimalariya wafa 1610, kwiminyaka engamashumi amathathu anesithandathu ubudala.