Ngasiphi isandla abagqoka ingxowa yokubandakanya kwaye le nkcubeko yavela njani

Ukwazisa ihlabathi ukuba ngoku sele beyindoda nomfazi, abaselula bayashintsha izindandatho zomtshato. Ziyindandatho, njengoko ifom yabo ifanekisela ukungapheli kwemvakalelo kunye nokuzinza kobudlelwane obubopha le bhangqa. Kwaye zixabiseke kuba kufuneka Ukuxela ukubaluleka kweemvakalelo kubathandi bobabini.

Isiko lomhlaba ekunikeni indandatho njengomqondiso wesifiso sayo sokutshata kwaye kuthwale umthwalo wokunyamekela umfazi wexesha elizayo wayeqwalaselwa kwiYiputa yaseYiputa. Isibambiso sasisoloko singanikwa umtshakazi ngokwakhe, kodwa kubazali bakhe. Esi siko sitshintshile kakhulu. Ngoku ke amakhonkco aya kufakwa kwingalo yeqabane elizayo. Kodwa apha ngakwesokunene isandi somtshato sigqityiwe, sisengumngeni omkhulu.

EYurophu yasendulo, intsimbi yokubandakanya yayingumunwe ngamnye wezandla zombini. Yayihlobisa zombini isithupha, kunye nesalathisi, kunye nomnwe omncinci. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, kwiintsapho zamaKatolika, ngombuzo malunga nomnwe kunye nesandla sambethe umtshato womtshato, bagqiba. Waqala ukumbatha ngomunwe wesandla sasekhohlo (oku kuchazwe ngokusondeleyo entliziyweni).

Kuphi na isandla sisithintelo sokubambisana eRashiya

Ukususela kumaxesha amandulo eRussia, intsimbi yokubandakanya yayigqunywe ngomnwe wesandla sokunene, kuba bekukholelwa ukuba indoda okanye umfazi uyisandla sokunene somlingane wakhe. Ukuhamba ngobomi ngesandla, bona kunye nomqondiso ogxininisa oku, kufuneka ugqitywe ngasekunene.

Kwaye nomnwe ongenagama ungakhethwa ngethuba: ngokwemvo ehlala phambi kobuKristu, kungenxa yoko ukuba umbane ohamba phambili uhamba entliziyweni. Kwaye njengemida yeli gesi, umgca ubeka phezu kwayo. Kuthiwa akuvumeli ukuba umnini aphephe umlwelwe wehliziyo, akavumeli ukutshintsha ngothando.

AmaKristu oOthodoki, ekutholeni le nkcubeko, wagxininisa ukuba ilungelo lithetha "okulungileyo". Ngoko ke, ngasiphi isandla banxiba ingqungquthela yokubambisana, kungabikho umbuzo. Kuphela ngakwesokudla!

Ngaloo nto bafaka ingxowano yokubandakanya? Oku akuyona imfundiso, kodwa ukhetho lwakho

Ukuba ukhangelelanisa imifanekiso yamandulo, uya kubona ukuba engabizwa ngegama Umnwe wayevame ukukhawuleza amasongo amabini. Kwaye ukuba umtshato wawuthatyathwa, njengomthetho, wawulungiselele, ngoko ke okwesibini wawuneqabana elincinci. Ingcongolo eneendwangu yanikwa ngexesha lokubambisana, xa umyeni esenza isiphakamiso esisemthethweni kumtshakazi. Kwaye ukuba uyavuma, wayenxibe ingubo, enikezwa ngumthandi wakhe, eminwe.

Ngokuqhelekileyo indoda yayifake ingxowa yesiliva yesandla sakhe , kunye nomfazi wayo-yegolide. Ekutshintshisweni kwamakhonkco ngexesha lomtshato, umyeni wasinikela isifungo segolide ngeendandatho zegolide, kwaye umtshakazi wanikela le ndoda yesilivere njengesibonakaliso sokubambeka.

Ngendlela, xa uqhawula umtshato eRussia, unako ukugqoka isangqa sokuthintana-njengokuba ungumqondiso weemvakalelo ezidlulileyo, nangona kunjalo ngakwesokunxele sakho. Kanti ngamanye amaxesha banxiba amasongo kunye nabahlolokazi abasinda "kwisiqingatha" sabo.

Namhlanje, imimiselo eqinile, ngakwesokunene isithandana somtshato sigqitywe, asikho. Ayikho yonke intsapho-ukudala abatshabatshate batshata ecaweni. Ngako oko, wonk 'ubani unelungelo lokukhetha uhlobo olufanelekileyo lokugqoka indonga. Into eyona nto kukuba abathandi, ukutshintshela iinqongo, khumbula: lo mboniso ubathintela ndawonye ubomi!