Nditshatile phesheya, okanye ulonwabo uncumo kumntu wonke!

Movie ezininzi "isiyatha", ndisoloko ndicinga ukuba melodrama yothando, ingakumbi malunga "Balzac" yobudala abasetyhini abaya ifumana ulonwabo ebusweni babantu ezintle natyebileyo ngaphandle umsebenzi! Kaloku, apho, bathi, uye wabona izityebi iminyaka 45-55 ubudala abakhetha atshate umfazi "iqela ubudala" wakhe, kunokuba nobuhle abaselula beza ukoyisa ikomkhulu?

Ngokwahlukileyo koko, amadoda Russian, nje etyebile, uguqule kuqala zabo, ngokungathi bafakwa nobume batshate inemilenze "Nkosazana Apatity"!

Kodwa umhlobo lam elithembekileyo wayezimisele ukuba nditshate off, Noko ke, ukuba fan ye Internet, ndagqiba ukukwenza oko abayinqobo kakhulu - baqalisa ukufuna arhente umtshato ukuqinisekisa ukuthandana simahla yaye nam ibhaliswe kwenye yezi zibonelelo. Ngokutsho kwisiza, kwaba arhente umtshato entle okuqinileyo, leyo sikwazile ukuzisa kunye eninzi ngomphunga.

Ileta yokuqala endayifumana emva kweveki. One - yi ummi waseJamani - ngoko nangoko Wayishiya: yintoni onokuyenza, kwisikhumbuzo utatomkhulu abacimi oswelekileyo, ngubani ayeza kuba ingcwaba, babengandivumeli ukuba badibane Hans! Ewe, yaye kubonakala ukuba akazange kakhulu, nangona kukho indlu encinane kufuphi eMunich imoto elungileyo.

Kwafika isibini oonobumba ukusuka 'akukho catch "nam amasoka, yaye emva imeyili ezimbini okanye ezintathu Eyisongile oonobumba, esazi ukuba ningenzi kakhulu kufuneka umfazi, njengoko wengqondo free!

Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, iileta ezintlanu ezikhethiweyo evela kumadoda nabo ndiye umdla ngokwenene ukuthetha, ngoko wada waya kwinqanaba "Skype".

Njengokuba ukuqonda, ukuthandana ngokuqhelekileyo senze enye ingxaki - umqobo wolwimi, kodwa abantu nokuthetha IsiNgesi. Kakade ke, mna kancinane nzima, kodwa akukho - ngoncedo lwe sichazi, izijekulo iseti owayenomgutyana thile amazwi I ukuziqhelanisa ngokwakhe ukuthetha nabo, yaye ngokuthe ngcembe nokuphucula IsiNgesi wabo. Ngeliphandle, ngelo xesha andizange ndicinge ukuba ukuthandana angaphandle kunokukhokelela emtshatweni, kodwa ngoku busuku ayizange ibonakale ezingenanto kunye uyadika - Ndafika ekhaya, wavula ikhompyutha ndatshintshelwa kwelinye ihlabathi ... Kweli hlabathi bahlala apho eqhelekileyo, ngaphandle amadoda, kodwa hayi efana lommelwane wam, ngubani ngenye imini ukubetha umfazi wakhe kweli hlabathi, kunye nenkxaso zonyango eqhelekileyo, kwihlabathi apho ibhinqa ayifanelanga ukuba 'ukutsala wakho "nendlu yonke ... ndiyazi naye engekho, becela abahlobo bakhe entsha, ukubukela iifoto zabo kunye uphulaphule etovaniya ebomini.

Emva ezimbalwa kweenyanga, siye sagqiba ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo - arhente umtshato walungelelanisa ukufika babantu e Moscow, kwaye ngendlela yokuba ba "usishiyile" kunye nenye.

Kakade ke, qhagamshelana kunye nonxibelelwano kwi "Skype" - umahluko ezimbini ezinkulu, njengoko batshovo e Odessa!

Ndiza kuqala nesibakala sokuba amabini abaviwa ebekuthanda mna. Omnye yaba ukuba abathathi tye kwabonakala amabali. Hayi, ndiyaqonda, andizange alindele kuye kwesigidi roses ebomvu kunye zijikwe kwi yinto esisibambiso, kodwa isidlo kwindawo yokutyela cheap, wayengase Umeme kum? Endaweni yoko, sasihamba ngeenxa eMoscow futhi izithombe - i "umtshakazi" okunokwenzeka akukho nokuba landibuza ukuba ndifuna ukutya, yaye ekupheleni ukuhamba akazange ndicinge ukuba nam ekhaya! Ngelo xesha uthi ukuba umntu ihlwempu akakwazi: wemisa kwihotele kwaye cheap wayenxibe kakuhle, koko, weza evela eHolland eklasini ishishini.

Enye indoda andizange nje yokuzenzisa. Xa "Skype" Ndabona ubuso bakhe, wayebonakala sporty kakhulu kwaye anayo imifanekiso. Kwaye ke wehla weza kundikhawulela umntu eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo - ezinye evakalala, imdaka kunye emide kakhulu. Kwakunzima ukunxibelelana naye, ngoko ulwalamano elizayo, zange avume.

Kodwa abanye abathathu endibathandayo - amadoda ezintle, ngokubanzi, hayi la madodana, kunye iphupha, ukuze nabo iintsuku kudlule njenge flash. Ngelishwa ke zange kukwazi ukwenza ukhetho lwabo wakhetha omnye wabo - Kaloku mna intombazana, ndineminyaka eli-43 ubudala, yaye belusoloko engalunganga ebomini babo, ukuba benze izigqibo ngokungxama.
Kwandula ke kwafika inxalenye yesibini lo amaqhawe "Nditshate kwenye" - kwakufuneka aye utyelelo amasoka ezinokwenzeka.

Yaba Australia (Canberra), Italy (iNaples) kunye Switzerland (Bern). Akuzange uhambo lwam lokuqala phesheya, kodwa kwixesha lokuqala bengenzanga njenge abaxhasi uhambo! Kodwa ngokubanzi, yaba adventure olungathethekiyo, nangona, eneneni, akukho "ukuphoxeka" ezincinane akenzanga. Umzekelo, umkhaya umyeni Italian yamthabatha nam akukwenzi kakhulu - ukuba zibonwa babelindele ukubona intombazana eselula oya kukubekela ukuzalwa kwabo ezininzi ngabazukulwana. Kodwa andizange anikele ingqalelo kuyo - Ndiye ndaphawula ukuba nesoka wam akaboni mna kuphela kodwa nabanye abafazi, ukuze abone nje iholide yakho.

ESwitzerland, ndakwazi alahleke! Ewe, kulungile, ukuba uFrancois waziphatha umnumzana ngokwenene, ngoko iiyure ezimbini kamva bephindele kunye. Hi ndlela leyi, ekuqalekeni andizange Ndingathanda iqabane lam umkhwa ezineenkcukacha isifundo iindleko yokutyela, kodwa emva koko ndabona - ukuba ngegazi lakhe, ngoko, bayeka ukunikela ingqalelo kuyo!

Kodwa emva kweentsuku ezimbini eOstreliya, ndaqonda ukuba eli lizwe ayikho kum. enokubakho iveza yam bafuna nje ukuba bahlale efama, kodwa mna, ngaphandle ubomi wesixeko esikhulu apho. Ngaphezu koko, sele ndisenzile ndaqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ndifuna ukuhlala kuphela Francois.

Ngokubanzi, mna kungacikozwa - kulo nyaka uphelileyo, emva yamaKatolika kweKrismesi, siye satshata, yaye ngoku kwisiqingatha sonyaka ngokusesikweni mna Mam Fransua Verde. Nangona siphila e Bern, ekubeni ngaphambi kokuba umyeni wam zange afune indlu enkulu eliphangaleleyo, kodwa ngoku sele baqalisa ukucinga malunga ukuthenga indlu namadlelo thina, ngokuba mna ndilindele ukuba umntwana! Hi ndlela leyi, andiguquguquki into enye ngaphezulu ebomini bam - mna ngoku ukubukela melodrama, kwaye ndiyakholwa ukuba ulonwabo uncumo kuthi na ubudala! Ulonwabo kuba kum ukutshata phesheya!