Man lingenandaba - it flegmat

Psychology - inzululwazi, ezele imfihlelo kunye innuendo, baqiqe ngokupheleleyo, mhlawumbi, ngaphaya kwamandla kwanezona ACE kulo mbandela. Oku kubangelwa ikakhulu yokuba wonke umntu, enoba unokubekwa mangaphi uvavanyo ngayo, baya kuba ezinye iimpawu Nedlac, zikhona izinto eziphambukileyo kwi-nkqubo wokuhlelwa eqhelekileyo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kweli nqaku siza kuzama ukuba atyhile intsingiselo uqhelekileyo elithi "abakhathaleli 'ukuqonda, ukuze abanye abantu nawo, yaye aba bantu baziphathe. Mhlawumbi omnye umntu uza kubonisa ngokwayo emizalwaneni zabo, abahlobo, okanye ngokwakho.

igama livela ebomini bethu phantse yonke imihla - Abantu abaninzi abazi nokuba uyazi ukuba yintoni 'diki ". Xa ukuguqula agama kwisiLatini, kuvakala ngathi ukungakhathali, ukungakhathali, kodwa xa kubonakala ngokwasengqondweni, oku kuchongwa kunye bengenamdla. Amaninzi kolu didi abantu, phlegmatic, abakhetha ngokuzola hamba ukuhamba, ngaphandle abafumana iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo, nkqu Ngaloo mathuba xa kuza kuba yimfuneko ukuba benze njalo. Man lingenandaba - umntu uzibe umqondiso uncedo, kungekhona ukutsalela ingqalelo uvuyo okanye intlungu ngumntu omthandayo, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo sengqondo esifanayo yokuzibhubhisa kuwe.

Xela ukuba ingaba Ukunganaki uhlobo lwabantu, ukubukela nabo a simo. Le wengqondo odumileyo Suzanne Miller lenze uvavanyo enokunceda ngokuchanekileyo ukutyhila ke inkalo yokuziphatha kwabantu. Ihlala yokuba kufuneka ume kwi-moya ngexesha umsinga umoya. Khawucinge ukuba yonke into kule ndlwana liqengqwa ukusuka ngapha nangapha, abakhweli ukhuselekile ngokweendawo zabo, yaye abalindi moya sele bengakholwa. Yiyiphi indlela osabela ngayo? Kusenokufuneka uzame phezu indima esothusayo kwaye uqale zonke umzuzu ukuba uqhagamshelane abalindi moya, kunye imibuzo malunga ngokufa kunokwenzeka? Kwaye isenokuba, nithe nabuya wonke umntu, yaye uya sihlolisise ngenyameko amafu emvula ke kwelinye icala window? Ukuba ukhetha i yesibini ukhetho, ngoko, yokungakhathaleli - yinto yengqondo yakho.

Noko ke, le namdla ibe sluggishness, and vice versa - nengqondo kunye enengqondo. Ngokomzekelo, omnye uyabona ukuba kwavuka umlilo, kodwa umlilo akakafiki sathatha konke oko kwindawo lokufikelela. Man zinegazi elibandayo, ukubala, kwaye ngexesha ukucima esifanayo xa ebona le amadangatye cwaka, ngokuthatha kwindawo ekunene sokucima umlilo. umntu ngokweemvakalelo ukuthabatheka zingxola, ngokunqakraza kwi uncedo kuphakuzela nje ngenxa yokuba uqale umlilo.

Njengoko ubona, ukuwachaza namdla na ezinye iintlobo noluxhomekeke kuphela ekujongeni umntu othile. Ekukholelwa ukuba ukungakhathali - Obusemagqabini ubunjani ukuba ungusomashishini, abapolitiki okanye nje umntu ofuna ukufikelela phezulu ezithile ebomini. Akusoloko ke ukuzondelela ukusinceda, bavame kuphela ububi, ukudala ingxabano engeyomfuneko kunye ungquzulwano.

Qonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni akanankathalo, namdla okanye akanankathalo, xa bengqondo kunokwenzeka kuphela umzekelo ngqo. Ngocoselelo bafunde ukuziphatha izalamane kunye nabahlobo babo, sinikele ingqalelo wena kunye neempawu mhlawumbi ezinjalo uyakwazi track practice.